TEAM: The Slimsons (January)
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Daily Post (Sunday)
Track: Yes
Calories: Yes
Exercise:Yes, 30 mins elliptical, 30 mins weight training.
Comments: Today is day one of my restart. I am challenging myself to stick to my goals, no matter how hard and not make excuses, so I went to the gym, even though I didn't want to.
And on a side note, I am quite upset right now. I work pretty hard at keeping this challenge running each month, and someone just said something reaaaaally upsetting to me, and I'm trying not to let it get to me, but it is. Basically this person said that it's too complicated to register (and if she had even tried, I would have helped her) and secondly she said that we're offensive, basically making fun of fat people....something I would NEVER do! I mean I'm a fat person myself! I completely understand what it's like to be overweight and have health issues... I just don't understand any of it and I'm trying to shake it off but I can't. I know you can't make everyone happy, but this one is cutting deep because I just don't see it, maybe if I come back to it later, I can see her side, but right now, I just can't. I'm not that person, I help everyone, I go out of my way to help everyone, even if I lose sleep to do it, and I would never ever make fun of anyone who's trying to lose weight and live a healthier lifestyle, it's what I strive for and what I want for each and every one of you, and believe we can get there if we try! So to have someone say that really upset me and she didn't technically say it directed at me, but I'm the primary moderator of this group and I took offense and maybe I shouldn't have, but I did. Sorry, just a rant. I'm going to get past it, and right now I'm going to try and take a nice hot shower to see if that helps!6 -
Daily Post (Sunday)
Track: Yes
Calories: Yes
Exercise:Yes, 30 mins elliptical, 30 mins weight training.
Comments: Today is day one of my restart. I am challenging myself to stick to my goals, no matter how hard and not make excuses, so I went to the gym, even though I didn't want to.
And on a side note, I am quite upset right now. I work pretty hard at keeping this challenge running each month, and someone just said something reaaaaally upsetting to me, and I'm trying not to let it get to me, but it is. Basically this person said that it's too complicated to register (and if she had even tried, I would have helped her) and secondly she said that we're offensive, basically making fun of fat people....something I would NEVER do! I mean I'm a fat person myself! I completely understand what it's like to be overweight and have health issues... I just don't understand any of it and I'm trying to shake it off but I can't. I know you can't make everyone happy, but this one is cutting deep because I just don't see it, maybe if I come back to it later, I can see her side, but right now, I just can't. I'm not that person, I help everyone, I go out of my way to help everyone, even if I lose sleep to do it, and I would never ever make fun of anyone who's trying to lose weight and live a healthier lifestyle, it's what I strive for and what I want for each and every one of you, and believe we can get there if we try! So to have someone say that really upset me and she didn't technically say it directed at me, but I'm the primary moderator of this group and I took offense and maybe I shouldn't have, but I did. Sorry, just a rant. I'm going to get past it, and right now I'm going to try and take a nice hot shower to see if that helps!
Yay for day 1! (Humor there
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I’m sorry someone was so insensitive. I can personally attest to how generous and hard working you are with this challenge. You’ve always been personable, positive, warm and welcoming. I’m always analyzing and sensitive - so I know how hard it is to brush it off!
You could always write a note back. Sometimes it really is the other person and their limitations in communication. Most of the time - it’s all about them. All of us in this challenge have registered without a prob. We appreciate you and are so very happy you are here with us. We are all shapes and sizes and I’ve found everyone to be balls of wondrous 🌞 sunshine. Power to the nice posse. 💜
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Daily Post (Sunday)
Track: Yes
Calories: Yes
Exercise:Yes, 30 mins elliptical, 30 mins weight training.
Comments: Today is day one of my restart. I am challenging myself to stick to my goals, no matter how hard and not make excuses, so I went to the gym, even though I didn't want to.
And on a side note, I am quite upset right now. I work pretty hard at keeping this challenge running each month, and someone just said something reaaaaally upsetting to me, and I'm trying not to let it get to me, but it is. Basically this person said that it's too complicated to register (and if she had even tried, I would have helped her) and secondly she said that we're offensive, basically making fun of fat people....something I would NEVER do! I mean I'm a fat person myself! I completely understand what it's like to be overweight and have health issues... I just don't understand any of it and I'm trying to shake it off but I can't. I know you can't make everyone happy, but this one is cutting deep because I just don't see it, maybe if I come back to it later, I can see her side, but right now, I just can't. I'm not that person, I help everyone, I go out of my way to help everyone, even if I lose sleep to do it, and I would never ever make fun of anyone who's trying to lose weight and live a healthier lifestyle, it's what I strive for and what I want for each and every one of you, and believe we can get there if we try! So to have someone say that really upset me and she didn't technically say it directed at me, but I'm the primary moderator of this group and I took offense and maybe I shouldn't have, but I did. Sorry, just a rant. I'm going to get past it, and right now I'm going to try and take a nice hot shower to see if that helps!
I have been in this group for over a year and you have always gone above and beyond with your encouragement, support, understanding, and assistance in everything.
Don't let 1 person make you doubt yourself. You are amazing, and I think most people here would agree with me when I say you are the best captain anyone could have ever asked for. ❤❤❤3 -
I have been in this group for over a year and you have always gone above and beyond with your encouragement, support, understanding, and assistance in everything.
Don't let 1 person make you doubt yourself. You are amazing, and I think most people here would agree with me when I say you are the best captain anyone could have ever asked for. ❤❤❤
Yay for day 1! (Humor there )
I’m sorry someone was so insensitive. I can personally attest to how generous and hard working you are with this challenge. You’ve always been personable, positive, warm and welcoming. I’m always analyzing and sensitive - so I know how hard it is to brush it off!
You could always write a note back. Sometimes it really is the other person and their limitations in communication. Most of the time - it’s all about them. All of us in this challenge have registered without a prob. We appreciate you and are so very happy you are here with us. We are all shapes and sizes and I’ve found everyone to be balls of wondrous 🌞 sunshine. Power to the nice posse. 💜
Thanks guys, and I'm in no way doubting myself, I'm just angry. I put a lot of time and energy into this group because I believe in it and I LOVE helping people, I feel happy, fulfilled and successful when you guys are, just as I am when I am too! I'm upset because 1--all she had to do was ask, and 2--I don't see how any of this is remotely offensive, I mean the team names sort of hit the nail on the head, Gutbustes, Flab-U-Less....they basically say what we're trying to do while having a little humor, which when we're all working so hard to lose, a little humor helps! This challenge has been going on for more than 2 years, and she's the first person to find it offensive....come on, the issue isn't me, us, this group, the team names, it's clear what the issue is. The thing that bothers me is she didn't even give me a chance to help her, and she would have seen what she was looking for. I am a freaking ray of sunshine (okay that one was for dramatic effect). I actually work hard at being positive, something I couldn't do when I first started here, you guys (teammates in general) have taught me how to be positive, uplifting, and an overall better person, I like doing this because I like giving back. This has been a truly life changing experience for me and I want nothing more than to keep it going and share the positivity, something that she said it wasn't, which is probably what I'm the most upset about. Anyways, I do feel better now, your kind words definitely helped!! Thanks for that.5 -
Username : Jaydoh120
Week : January Week 1
PW : 227.1
CW : 225.5
This is okay but I'm not sure why I have slowed down so much. If I was closer to my goal I would understand but it's a bit disheartening when I still have such a long way to go.
I will keep doing what I have been doing though because I know that all sorts of things can affect the scale reading. It is also shark week so that might have affected things.
I am proud of myself for not gaining over Christmas 😁. My boys both have their birthdays this month so I will have to resist some delicious stuff or else plan ahead like I did for Christmas.
This month my goal is to lose between 5-10lbs since that's what I have been doing every month so far. I don't do new years resolutions but I will promise myself to continue the journey I have already started even when it gets difficult. My weight loss goal is to get to 145-150lbs this year.4 -
I will keep doing what I have been doing though because I know that all sorts of things can affect the scale reading. It is also shark week so that might have affected things.
I am proud of myself for not gaining over Christmas 😁. My boys both have their birthdays this month so I will have to resist some delicious stuff or else plan ahead like I did for Christmas
@Jaydoh120 Shark week can most definitely mask weight loss by extra water retention, it's super annoying and unfortunately there's little you can do about it. Hang in there, you're doing an amazing job. You did great with Christmas, and you should absolutely be proud of yourself!!
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Daily stats- Day 1 Dec 30
Tracked: yes
Calories: under
Exercise: 30 minutes weights
Jan goals - Happiness & positivity
I will see my Mom more often, I won’t sweat the small stuff and I’m going to get off more fat and build more muscle!
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And on a side note, I am quite upset right now. I work pretty hard at keeping this challenge running each month, and someone just said something reaaaaally upsetting to me, and I'm trying not to let it get to me, but it is. Basically this person said that it's too complicated to register (and if she had even tried, I would have helped her) and secondly she said that we're offensive, basically making fun of fat people....
You most definitely have been a motivational force for all of us here @AB0215 IDK why they'd think we'd make fun of anyone with a weight issue---everyone here is battling the scale together. Strange that she'd make that assumption, but that was her mistake. AND I think that she's cheating herself out of a very positive and inspirational experience with this group and especially with you as our leader---so thank you for all the time that you take to support us here Ashley! Sorry that you had to feel that way today.
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Hi! My names Beth. I’m 42 yo. And I’m currently at my highest nonpregnant weight and I’m tired. Im good for a few days but get derailed easily. I need help with motivation and accountability and having a team dependent on you can be very motivating!
My weigh in day is Friday so I’ll be posting my weight then. Let’s do this!3 -
I will keep doing what I have been doing though because I know that all sorts of things can affect the scale reading. It is also shark week so that might have affected things.
I am proud of myself for not gaining over Christmas 😁. My boys both have their birthdays this month so I will have to resist some delicious stuff or else plan ahead like I did for Christmas
@Jaydoh120 Shark week can most definitely mask weight loss by extra water retention, it's super annoying and unfortunately there's little you can do about it. Hang in there, you're doing an amazing job. You did great with Christmas, and you should absolutely be proud of yourself!!
Thanks Ashley. I am always very hard on myself so I agree with what everyone is saying - you are an awesome team leader. I love reading your encouraging posts to everyone xx0 -
Daily Post (Sunday)
Track: Yes
Calories: Yes
Exercise:Yes, 30 mins elliptical, 30 mins weight training.
Comments: Today is day one of my restart. I am challenging myself to stick to my goals, no matter how hard and not make excuses, so I went to the gym, even though I didn't want to.
And on a side note, I am quite upset right now. I work pretty hard at keeping this challenge running each month, and someone just said something reaaaaally upsetting to me, and I'm trying not to let it get to me, but it is. Basically this person said that it's too complicated to register (and if she had even tried, I would have helped her) and secondly she said that we're offensive, basically making fun of fat people....something I would NEVER do! I mean I'm a fat person myself! I completely understand what it's like to be overweight and have health issues... I just don't understand any of it and I'm trying to shake it off but I can't. I know you can't make everyone happy, but this one is cutting deep because I just don't see it, maybe if I come back to it later, I can see her side, but right now, I just can't. I'm not that person, I help everyone, I go out of my way to help everyone, even if I lose sleep to do it, and I would never ever make fun of anyone who's trying to lose weight and live a healthier lifestyle, it's what I strive for and what I want for each and every one of you, and believe we can get there if we try! So to have someone say that really upset me and she didn't technically say it directed at me, but I'm the primary moderator of this group and I took offense and maybe I shouldn't have, but I did. Sorry, just a rant. I'm going to get past it, and right now I'm going to try and take a nice hot shower to see if that helps!
@AB0215
PLEASE BE ENCOURAGED I FOR ONE THANK GOD that you were able to STEP UP AND TAKE over leadership for this team when I had to deal with my own personal issues after my dad pass in April. You are truly a Godsend so please please don't let anyone stress you out. You are doing a supreme job in being a leader for this team and even going a step further by checking in and offering guidance when you notice someone hasn't check in awhile. I myself appreciate all you do and are doing and have done. So if I don't say it enough THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for being there.2 -
HAPPY 40TH BIRTHDAY TO ME!
Also celebrating my mom's 60th birthday!
It's official I AM 40 today! Yay! Me
I may not be where I want to be healthwise but I thank God for His mercy in allowing me to see another year.
Track yes
Calories yes under
Exercise yes walking 15-20mins
Water 45oz (need to drink more)
Goals/comments
Went to Golden Corral last night and so proud of my self because even though this was a cheat meal I did not over due it. It feels good to feel full after only a little small portion it means that I'm doing something right. Another Non scale victory (NSV)
Anyone else celebrating NSV at the start of 2019?? Share so we all can be encouraged. . .
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Daily post: Sunday, December 30th
Tracking: No
Calories: Over
Exercise: Yes, walked 20,000 steps.
Happy birthday, well, everyone!!! So many of us!
@AB0215, I’m a sensitive person, so I totally get why you’re upset, just remember it’s the internet and it’s full of trolls and idiots who use it to make others feel bad. You’re doing a great job and one persons comments doesn’t change that.
So today is New Year’s Eve and a write off, I will hit at least 10,000 steps, but I am going to a friends for a buffet tea and to ignore the new year ( we both have anxiety and New Years sets us both off, so we will be ignoring it together, usually I just try to go to bed early, but I think our new neighbours will be noisy, so I have to go out). Tbh I hate hate hate New Years. Roll on tomorrow when I can forget about it. However saying that, I wish all of you that do enjoy it, a happy new year!1 -
Daily post: Sunday, December 30th
Tracking: No
Calories: Over
Exercise: No
Company today to many treats1 -
@gjaholy33 Happy birthday Gloria. I hope you have a blessed year and I pray for your success with the mfp journey 🤗1
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Daily Post (Sunday)
Track: Yes
Calories: No
Exercise: No
Rest day after killer workouts. Had family dinner with my hubby and kids, mom, brother and his family at a yummy local Jamaican restaurant! I was slightly over my calories because of this.0 -
HAPPY 40TH BIRTHDAY TO ME!
Also celebrating my mom's 60th birthday!
It's official I AM 40 today! Yay! Me
I may not be where I want to be healthwise but I thank God for His mercy in allowing me to see another year.
Track yes
Calories yes under
Exercise yes walking 15-20mins
Water 45oz (need to drink more)
Goals/comments
Went to Golden Corral last night and so proud of my self because even though this was a cheat meal I did not over due it. It feels good to feel full after only a little small portion it means that I'm doing something right. Another Non scale victory (NSV)
Anyone else celebrating NSV at the start of 2019?? Share so we all can be encouraged. . .
Happy birthday to you and your mom! That's a great NSV btw! Mine is to drink at least 60oz of water per day because I am horrible at drinking enough 🤦0 -
SW: 168
GW: 163
Alright, time to get back at it! I’m Kathleen, stay at home mom to a 1 and 1/2 year old. I’m down about 30 pounds and have about 30 to go to what I think is my goal weight. Ive been in this group for two months, but was MIA for most of December due to stomach flu, then strep, then a bad cough and traveling. Phew. So excited to get back to it! Getting to 163 by the end of this month would put me at pre-baby weight!2 -
batgirl140 wrote: »Hi! My names Beth. I’m 42 yo. And I’m currently at my highest nonpregnant weight and I’m tired. Im good for a few days but get derailed easily. I need help with motivation and accountability and having a team dependent on you can be very motivating!
My weigh in day is Friday so I’ll be posting my weight then. Let’s do this!
@batgirl140 Welcome Beth! I get that, I had a lot less energy at my highest weight. Changing my eating habits and adding in more exercise, slowly until you build up to it, it does take a little bit to get there, but it will all help with your energy levels! You got this!!1 -
@AB0215
PLEASE BE ENCOURAGED I FOR ONE THANK GOD that you were able to STEP UP AND TAKE over leadership for this team when I had to deal with my own personal issues after my dad pass in April. You are truly a Godsend so please please don't let anyone stress you out. You are doing a supreme job in being a leader for this team and even going a step further by checking in and offering guidance when you notice someone hasn't check in awhile. I myself appreciate all you do and are doing and have done. So if I don't say it enough THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for being there.
@gjaholy33 Thank you, that means a lot. I really want you guys to do well! I do what I can and I'm glad it helps you! I'm also really glad to see you're back in the game and you're doing better for yourself.
Enjoy your special day, I know I will when mine comes in Feb 1 -
HI all! I hope you had a great weekend.
Is this where I post my weigh in?
I will and if I'm wrong someone let me know.
SW 328
CW 326.2
Loss for week - 1.82 -
@catvlmack The funny thing is that I'm not sensitive, but I think this one touched a nerve because I really try to help everyone and I really appreciate the encouraging comments, I really debated on whether or not I was even going to say anything, I'm generally the type of person to deal with that sort of stuff internally, but I was hoping that I could let go faster if I just said it out loud and it did help, so there's that.Happy birthday, well, everyone!!! So many of us!
@AB0215, I’m a sensitive person, so I totally get why you’re upset, just remember it’s the internet and it’s full of trolls and idiots who use it to make others feel bad. You’re doing a great job and one persons comments doesn’t change that.
So today is New Year’s Eve and a write off, I will hit at least 10,000 steps, but I am going to a friends for a buffet tea and to ignore the new year ( we both have anxiety and New Years sets us both off, so we will be ignoring it together, usually I just try to go to bed early, but I think our new neighbours will be noisy, so I have to go out). Tbh I hate hate hate New Years. Roll on tomorrow when I can forget about it. However saying that, I wish all of you that do enjoy it, a happy new year!
We've (hubby and I) have been invited to 2 different New Year's Eve parties and with how I'm feeling today, I don't want to go to either. It's raining here and I woke up with a terrible headache so I'm hoping that as the day goes on, it will get better. And I might go, if I'm feeling up to it later, but I normally just go to bed, it's really just another day for me. I don't really focus on celebrations (unless it's my birthday--that day is my favorite day out of the year). But I think my hubby wants to hang out with our friends and I'm really trying to be more outgoing these days, something this group has really helped me with, and I might just go for a little bit. The downside is I won't have time for a nap so I'll just have to survive but we will see what happens.1 -
kathleenford04 wrote: »SW: 168
GW: 163
Alright, time to get back at it! I’m Kathleen, stay at home mom to a 1 and 1/2 year old. I’m down about 30 pounds and have about 30 to go to what I think is my goal weight. Ive been in this group for two months, but was MIA for most of December due to stomach flu, then strep, then a bad cough and traveling. Phew. So excited to get back to it! Getting to 163 by the end of this month would put me at pre-baby weight!
@kathleenford04 Welcome back! You got this!0 -
Happy Monday Team!
Today's Weigh ins are:
@breanarenae
@CindyJNC1963
@ElsieBeane
@gjaholy33
@jaydoh120
@Laraburkhalter
@liannexx
@NuggetBrain
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Ya more snow to shovel but it's a great workout. Last day of the year. I hope all have a safe and happy day. Grandchildren and their parents arrive today and tomorrow all the kids and the rest of the grandchildren arrive for a turkey dinner. I am really going to have to watch my calories and make the right choices. I know it's up to me alone to do it.1
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Ya more snow to shovel but it's a great workout. Last day of the year. I hope all have a safe and happy day. Grandchildren and their parents arrive today and tomorrow all the kids and the rest of the grandchildren arrive for a turkey dinner. I am really going to have to watch my calories and make the right choices. I know it's up to me alone to do it.
@digger61 You are right, only you can control what you eat, but it is also a challenge! You got this though!0 -
Elsiebeane wrote: »HI all! I hope you had a great weekend.
Is this where I post my weigh in?
I will and if I'm wrong someone let me know.
SW 328
CW 326.2
Loss for week - 1.8
Well done !!!!!1 -
@batgirl140 Welcome Beth! I get that, I had a lot less energy at my highest weight. Changing my eating habits and adding in more exercise, slowly until you build up to it, it does take a little bit to get there, but it will all help with your energy levels! You got this!!
@AB215, exercise is key as I’m finding now that 40 is past me. Just need to do it! My plans are for activity after my boys get on the bus in the morning.
Here’s a question: As the soul food shopper in the house I find it hard staying away from snacks.
What does everyone do, aside from not going hungry, to keep the snacks and junk on the shelf and not in your cart?? Thanks!
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CindyJNC1963
Week #1
Original starting weight: 273
PW: 238.9
CW: 238.7
I have hit a plateau and I would be lying if I said I wasn't frustrated. I didn't go to any Christmas parties, I didn't have a big fancy dinner of any sort. I haven't had any processed sugar in 3 months. Most of my carbs come from fruit. I exercise almost every day. I track every day. I rarely ever go over 1350 calories and never eat back my exercise calories. I know that weight loss isn't linear, but it sure isn't easy when a plateau happens....especially at a time of year when you have sacrificed. All of that being said, I am still 100% dedicated to my goals. I have no desire to go off the rails.
My goal for January is to lose 10 lbs, walk 7000 steps per day when I go back to work on Wednesday, and work up to 60 minutes a day on the bike. I also plan to set up a schedule of working with resistance bands ( I haven't had much luck with this so far).5 -
Daily Post (Sunday)
And on a side note, I am quite upset right now. I work pretty hard at keeping this challenge running each month, and someone just said something reaaaaally upsetting to me, and I'm trying not to let it get to me, but it is. Basically this person said that it's too complicated to register (and if she had even tried, I would have helped her) and secondly she said that we're offensive, basically making fun of fat people....
I am really sorry that this happened. I have NEVER seen anyone made fun of in this group. It has been 100% supportive. I think in the general section of the forum people sometimes make fun of new people, but I have never seen it in this group so I have no idea what she's talking about. You are an awesome group leader....don't let one sour grape get you down.
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