Anyone 35+ who has had a baby at least??? Lol starting to see why I feel like the only old Woman at the play areas as teen Moms to 20 year olds skip past me think I’m the grandma 👵.

I was pregnant same time as my 17yr old 2nd cousins so at least at family events I can hold onto them talk about baby stuff but nothing else. My Mom has me in old age so she passed while my Daughter was 14yrs old (She’s now 20 in the Navy). My Dad has Dementia so his baby tolerance is low ,but when he can muster up some strength he does something with us a few times a year. My Mother-in-law too old to baby sit but she goes with me to do stuff so I have someone to help me wrangle him,but awkward for her she speaks a different dialect of Spanish than me y no English so I translate for her well conversations are very short y vague. Better than nothing ! She always on my side of a sales clerk is rude! My Daughter can visit 1-2times a year until her ship goes to sea again so she uses her vacation to be my buddy y bond with baby. My friend who never had kids ;Godmother of both 20+ years of Godmothering from a different city going strong is my texting buddy when she can is the only one who didn’t poof the minute I got pregnant (at least they said why to my face but still a Debby Downer moment). Hubby manned up to be there as much as possible but he works 7 days a week. Out of my relatives everyone else has ages 16+ in my age group (got the 17yr olds 2nd cousins at least for 2 1/2yrs now to cling to at family events to chat about kid stuff). No one in my family has ever had a Csection I’m the first so my Mother-in-law luckily y my sister-in-law has ones back in the day could give some advice,but their just starting to diet cause I started now so no advice there I’m giving them advice. Hubby family the youngest kids to his younger siblings are all girls way older so we tried to have a play date but baby boy wasn’t having it he sat next to his 9yr old cousin watched him play video games lol which the 9yr old replies “I don’t ummm okay .”He’s the only boy born besides mine in that family so guess their buds now at family events like a testosterone magnet lol. He does say “Glad you had a boy I’m not the only one now.”Then unpaused his games they stared away like zombies 👶 🧟‍♂️ . I can’t hit a gym because permanent damage from the whole birth like a hysterectomy with other damages all I can describe it as. So I walk indoors a lot in the house y diet with my 60yr old Make 3rd cousin by texts (he’s on the Keto’s with his wife) . I was the baby in my family born 10yrs+ after everyone else . My Mom has support tho the Disability clinic was full of Moms with Autistic - Downsyndrome adult kids for her to hang out with y their adult kids so lots of love for her to classes made to learn how to care for children to cook with her abilities y Doctor present to help her until it clicked. I got lots of friends back then to play with y classes for me to be her caregiver. I miss my Mom she would have rallied her Special Needs friends we would have went on outings together if she was around. I did update her funeral page to announce her grandsons birth so bet one Geaven she read it smiled. She was a lovable old gal think she knew he’d be born someday had a box in the closet as we shifted through her clothes so I could have 1x-3xs for maternity wear that still had toys in it y a note keep for my Grandbabies (At the time she died Daughter was 14 so instead of Grandkid it said Grandkids made Dad y me smile).

I have lost 45lbs so far in my weight loss journey regaining mobility is my goal!

Found out I can use an exercise band to do exercises (would rebuild arms y stomach muscles up) ,but have no clue what one looks like,where to buy online,or how to use them. Anyone know??