OK I started it now you run with it....

H2Ologist
H2Ologist Posts: 122 Member
edited October 4 in Social Groups
I am gonna need help with administrators willing to keep things in line. Anyone wanna help? Anyone have a good picture?
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  • ShannaDBowser
    ShannaDBowser Posts: 88 Member
    I'll help admin. I've been a forum administrator and a chat admin before. Plus I need to lose about 120-140 lbs. :D
  • Ali_TSO
    Ali_TSO Posts: 1,172 Member
    I don't have a good picture, but I created a FB group for weight loss that I'm administrator of, and I'm on here all the time. I can help if you want! :)
  • Hello!
  • annalobdell
    annalobdell Posts: 201 Member
    Hi, my name is Anna, and when I started out last December I had 190 pounds to lose!! YIKES!!!! I am proud to say, that even though I have had a rough year and I have fallen off the wagon twice, since June of 2011 I have lost 45 pounds. I have had good days and bad days. Days when I sat in my chair and cried and said, this isn't worth it. It is easier and takes less effort to stay fat. Then I look at my 4 children and I realize that I am blessed and that It is worth it. I wanna grow old with my husband of 7 years. I wanna go out in public and not be ashamed of myself. I want to see food as a fuel not as a friend. I am an emotional eater and when I get stressed the first thing I turn to is food. It used to make me feel good when I was sad, but for the past 2 years, whenever I would binge, I would literally hate myself. I hope this group keeps going strong and that we can support each other on this journey to a healthier, happier life. Hope to get to know you all real well.
    Anna
  • Ali_TSO
    Ali_TSO Posts: 1,172 Member
    You're right, Anna....even though I don't have kids, we DO have similar goals. Good luck to you. :)
  • H2Ologist
    H2Ologist Posts: 122 Member
    Hello everyone!

    Thanks Shanna and Ali! I think I added you, let me know if it didn't work!

    Welcome Whitet, Glad you found us!

    Anna, you are beautiful and you should be proud of yourself! 45 pounds is no small accomplishment! We aren't here to judge. It took a life of bad food choices to get to this point, so we can't expect it to happen overnight. This should be looked at as a diet, but a lifestyle change.

    I was going strong since June of this year, but have slowed substantially in the last few weeks. My hope is that this group can keep me motivated to stay on here and stay focused.
  • CJK1959
    CJK1959 Posts: 279 Member
    Hi all...thanks for starting this group. Having a large amount of weight to lose can be overwhelming. I have about 150 I need to lose. I too am an emotional eater and a bored eater. I'm trying really hard to find other things to occupy my time....but sometimes want so bad to fall back to the comfort that I knew. I've lost 20 lbs so far and and exercising now...slow starting but building up endurance. Anyway, my name is Carol and I look forward to getting to know you and beating this life long habit!
  • Molly_Pitcher
    Molly_Pitcher Posts: 84 Member
    HI! I'm Molly, Ihave tried to lose weight and failed MISERABLY all my life. But I seem to be suceeding this time. I started in August and have lost 34 of 112 lbs I need to loose to get to a point where I am not considered overweight. I'm not sure what changed this time... MFP, the doctor scaring me that I might end up with Diabetes soon, or if something just cliked in my head. I can say I have been really comitted for the last 3 months and I know that this time around I am not doing it for some guy, or the potential of some guy, I am not doing it to impress others or look better. I am doing it for me, for my own sense of self worth and the fact that I am adressing my life as a whole and turning things around, and that seems to keep my butt exercising more than anything else... It's also been a commitment to reavaulating my relationship with food and why I eat.... No more emotional or entertainment eating! SO much easier said than done....
    So howdy ladies! Glad to be here :)
  • H2Ologist
    H2Ologist Posts: 122 Member
    Sorry, I had to edit the group name slightly because, as my best friend since 3rd grade pointed out, I don't actually have 100 pounds to lose anymore. It seems silly to be the admin of a group with a title that precludes me from the group. :)
  • CanToGirl
    CanToGirl Posts: 474 Member
    Hi everyone,
    i would like to join you all in your group. A little about me. I was on the fluffy side most of my life. But last year I was the highest I ever been. I was asked to be a bridesmaid for my brother-in-law wedding in June 2012. All the girls are a size 2-4 and here I was a 28. I didn't want to be that girl. So I found a lifestyle (diet) that I liked and this wed site. And as you can see happy to say I released (because I don't want to find it again) 131 lbs out of my 188 lbs.
    With all that happy news. Its been kinda tough lately. I don't know if TOM (Time Of Month) was talking or what. But I felt I needed a break and that is what I did. Still watched-ish what I ate but I didn't go to the gym. And I guess the main this is that I'm ok with all of that. And I am reconsidering when I wanna reach my goal. I was pushing myself pretty hard to lose all of 188 lbs by Feb. 2012. But as long as I am at 160 or so by May or June. I'm ok with that.
    So there it is.
    Julie
  • beccafertig
    beccafertig Posts: 61 Member
    Oh how I'm thrilled to find you all! I'm working to drop 150 pounds in the next year, and thought I was the only one out here! This is such an encouragement!!!!!!
  • H2Ologist
    H2Ologist Posts: 122 Member
    Welcome everyone! I'm so glad you've joined us!
    Feel free to add tips that you have found work for you, recipes, snacks, and of course, your successes whether they be scale-based or not.

    To that I have to add my victory. Last night I reached the 50 pounds removed mark!!!! My deal is I found the wonderful world of protein shakes. Not the yucky Slim Fast crap, but pure soy protein shakes that actually taste good. I drink one for breakfast and lunch and can then eat whatever I want for supper. The only restriction is that I eat little less and I have to have something from each food group. I'm not an exerciser, so what time I used to spend running to the local fast food joint for lunch, I now take a quick stroll around the block at work. It isn't a lot, but i am moving.

    What are you doing to change your life?
  • annalobdell
    annalobdell Posts: 201 Member
    I think today is going to be a bad food day. I have my period and I feel like I need to eat everything in sight. This upsets me because I am working so hard. I feel like it is a struggle for me every month. Some things I have changed are that I am no longer a diet soda addict. I used to drink 6 or 7 bottles a day, but now it has been over a week since I have purchased soda. That makes me proud. This time last year, at my high weight, I was drinking a 24 pack of mountain do a day and wondering why i was so fat. I used to always say, " How am I so fat, I don't eat." Which was true, I barely ate, but I was drinking 3000 calories a day in my soda. Logging made me realize that I was consuming upwards of 4700 calories a day. Now I try to keep it under 1660, although today is probably not gonna be that day, and thats ok. It doesn't mean that I will fail. Just gotta exercise and do better tommorrow.
  • Ali_TSO
    Ali_TSO Posts: 1,172 Member
    Hello everyone!

    Thanks Shanna and Ali! I think I added you, let me know if it didn't work!

    It worked! I HAVE THE POWER TO DELETE! So stay in line, lol. :)
    I was going strong since June of this year, but have slowed substantially in the last few weeks. My hope is that this group can keep me motivated to stay on here and stay focused.

    We'll help you... what was the reason you started in the first place?
  • H2Ologist
    H2Ologist Posts: 122 Member
    Anna, go for foods that satisfy ur cravings without ruining your momentum. If u want chocolate, emeralds has awesome dark chocolate flavored almonds that are only like 150 calories for an ounce (about a capful). If u want salt, grab a piece of string cheese. If u want sweet, eat a small apple with about a pingpong sized scoop of peanut butter. These all have protein in that will satisfy you longer than any carb filled junk food....you can do this and you are not alone!
  • Ali_TSO
    Ali_TSO Posts: 1,172 Member
    Sorry, I had to edit the group name slightly because, as my best friend since 3rd grade pointed out, I don't actually have 100 pounds to lose anymore. It seems silly to be the admin of a group with a title that precludes me from the group. :)

    Yeah, I think that was a good idea....bc for people like me... I started out at 353, with the goal to be 153, to lose 200 lbs. But the further I get into it, I think I'll be looking at 170-190. :) And since I'm 318 now, that's only 138-158 to go, so I would have been excluded too, lol.
  • H2Ologist
    H2Ologist Posts: 122 Member
    I was going strong since June of this year, but have slowed substantially in the last few weeks. My hope is that this group can keep me motivated to stay on here and stay focused.

    We'll help you... what was the reason you started in the first place?
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    I started because I saw the success my best friend was having with her lifestyle change and figured if she can do it, what couldn't I? I slowed because my nine month old had a siezure a few weeks ago and I want to spend as much time as possible with her so I stopped tracking.
  • Ali_TSO
    Ali_TSO Posts: 1,172 Member
    I think today is going to be a bad food day. I have my period and I feel like I need to eat everything in sight. This upsets me because I am working so hard. I feel like it is a struggle for me every month. Some things I have changed are that I am no longer a diet soda addict. I used to drink 6 or 7 bottles a day, but now it has been over a week since I have purchased soda. That makes me proud. This time last year, at my high weight, I was drinking a 24 pack of mountain do a day and wondering why i was so fat. I used to always say, " How am I so fat, I don't eat." Which was true, I barely ate, but I was drinking 3000 calories a day in my soda. Logging made me realize that I was consuming upwards of 4700 calories a day. Now I try to keep it under 1660, although today is probably not gonna be that day, and thats ok. It doesn't mean that I will fail. Just gotta exercise and do better tommorrow.

    Anna, I think it's AMAZING that you haven't had soda in a week. I too, gave up diet sodas about 3 months ago. I have one every couple of weeks or so, and that's it.

    And you're right, exercising is KEY. My mom used to tell me all the time, "You have to exercise to lose weight." I just thought "Whatever. I can eat what I need to and lose." Which was true, but since adding tennis, I'm losing so much more, and QUICKER too...

    Just get through today, Anna, and if you feel like snacking all day, try to make healthy choices where you can! :)
  • Ali_TSO
    Ali_TSO Posts: 1,172 Member
    Anna, go for foods that satisfy ur cravings without ruining your momentum. If u want chocolate, emeralds has awesome dark chocolate flavored almonds that are only like 150 calories for an ounce (about a capful). If u want salt, grab a piece of string cheese. If u want sweet, eat a small apple with about a pingpong sized scoop of peanut butter. These all have protein in that will satisfy you longer than any carb filled junk food....you can do this and you are not alone!

    I eat all those on a DAILY basis, lol, and they're WONDERFUL for snacks....they satisfy just like you said!
  • Ali_TSO
    Ali_TSO Posts: 1,172 Member
    I started because I saw the success my best friend was having with her lifestyle change and figured if she can do it, what couldn't I? I slowed because my nine month old had a siezure a few weeks ago and I want to spend as much time as possible with her so I stopped tracking.

    Oh honey, I'm so sorry...:cry: Just think though, even if you're not logging, you still want to eat healthy to spend as much time with her for as LONG as possible. :wink:
  • jsv454
    jsv454 Posts: 30 Member
    Hi! Thanks for starting this group-- I joined MFP with my best friend who is trying to lose 40 lbs, and I have more like 200, so it's nice to find some people in the same boat!

    I joined about a month ago, and have already lost 24 pounds, so I am excited about my progress. Of course, I know that the more I lose, the slower it will come off. Not having that "thrill" of seeing the pounds come off quickly is going to make things harder.

    I have tried and failed so many times to lose weight, and for some reason, this time it just feels different. I know it's going to work, and I know it's going to stay off. I finally found a lifestyle that I can embrace and more importantly, *maintain* (Primal/Paleo). The Primal lifestyle advocates an 80/20 principle, in which you can have sensible indulgences for that 20 percent, and that is enough to keep me sane, happy, and motivated.

    Now that I have some weight off and have tons more energy, the exercise portion is starting to naturally fall into place. My body actually wants to move, and I can't tell you how weird (and great!) that is! I really didn't have any idea how awful I felt until I made these changes- I just thought it was normal to be exhausted and sluggish all the time. I feel like I have discovered an entirely new life!

    Of course, some days are hard, and I know there are many hard days ahead, but supporting one another really does make a difference. We are all changing our lives for the better, and that is truly wonderful!
  • CanToGirl
    CanToGirl Posts: 474 Member
    JSV: When I started this journey, I had 188lbs to lose and that thought alone was daunting. But I broke it into smaller parts. I started at 348. So I was looking forward to get to the 290's, once there I wanted to see the 250's, so on and so on. I admit losing the first 50 lbs, I didn't see much change in me or how my clothes were fitting but once I got to 250-240's, then major things were changing. My face is slimmer, less back fat and was able to wear smaller clothes. So not only can you just go by what the scale says, its the small things that are just important. And for me its taking one day at at time, do the best you can do today and worry about tomorrow later. And as strange as it sounds, it does get easier the longer you stick to it. It becomes second nature, which we want anyways, to us. And remember one bad day or one bad choice is not going to make you gain all 24lbs back.

    H2O: aka Mandie: So glad to hear the little peanut is doing better. Again a HUGE congrats on your major mile stone. That is freaking fantastic!!!! So proud of you {{{HUGS}}}

    Anna: Drink your water, or Crystal lite or whatever you drink, in abundance today. Help keeps you fill, helps with the bloating and all the time your going to the bathroom, will help burn more calories :wink:

    Mandie: I have to agree with you on your protein shakes. I found a web site that had 107 difference recipes for protein shakes. So I have my normal breakfast but for lunch and dinner I have a shake and I'm happy and full all day and been losing pretty good since. With a snack or two for the day. But I keep my sugars and carb low. Plus drinking gallons of water a day. Like I said to Anna, lots of trips to the bathroom, but I figure extra calorie burned.
  • jsv454
    jsv454 Posts: 30 Member
    JSV: When I started this journey, I had 188lbs to lose and that thought alone was daunting. But I broke it into smaller parts. I started at 348. So I was looking forward to get to the 290's, once there I wanted to see the 250's, so on and so on. I admit losing the first 50 lbs, I didn't see much change in me or how my clothes were fitting but once I got to 250-240's, then major things were changing. My face is slimmer, less back fat and was able to wear smaller clothes. So not only can you just go by what the scale says, its the small things that are just important. And for me its taking one day at at time, do the best you can do today and worry about tomorrow later. And as strange as it sounds, it does get easier the longer you stick to it. It becomes second nature, which we want anyways, to us. And remember one bad day or one bad choice is not going to make you gain all 24lbs back.

    CanToGirl: Thanks for the support! I have seen a few differences already, although I don't think I look any different. I can zip and breathe in my smaller-size jeans, but I can't sit down! I am hoping to achieve that goal by Thanksgiving.

    Yes, breaking it down into smaller chunks makes it so much more manageable! I am using 25lb increments- every time I hit that goal, I can get a pedicure! I absolutely love pedis, but never ever get them because it seems like a waste of money. I wanted to come up with a non-food reward, so that's what I picked!

    Congrats on your progress- how inspiring, and you look fantastic!
  • Hello Everyone,

    I'd like to start by saying that you are all awesome and all your entries have given me that umph that I needed. I was feeling sorry for myself after getting my little ticker ready and seeing that I still have a LONG way to go... But I'm done feeling sorry for myself. I'm going to get it done and keep it off this time. I lost 112 pounds a couple of years ago and gained back about 70 of them :-( I feel pretty disappointed in myself. But I'm so glad that I found you all because I know I can do it. It seems like a daunting task but it will get done.

    Kudos to you all!!!!

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  • H2Ologist
    H2Ologist Posts: 122 Member
    So, I have to say that CanToGirl is my inspiration for starting my new lifestyle. We've been best friends since third grade and she is the most awesomest person I know! Any time I'm feeling down Julie gives me a confidence boost I need to get back at it. Thank Juls, love ya!!!!!!!
  • TrekkerCynthia
    TrekkerCynthia Posts: 155 Member
    Hello all, loved reading the posts. I've been trying to get to a healthy weight since I graduated from college (where I gained my weight in the first place). Each time led to me gaining more. I've been using MFP since about mid September and really like it, It offers such a good sense of control in the eating and the exercise. I am tired of not living the active life I dream about - hiking, camping, snowboarding, kayaking. I'm looking forward to enjoying all of that next summer (well, except for the snowboarding) with my husband.
  • CanToGirl
    CanToGirl Posts: 474 Member
    H2Ologist: Thank you sweetie. But its also because of you that keeps me going. Its the friends, support and encouragement that I get from people like all of you, that makes it possible to continue and not give up.
    One wedding down, one more to go. Bring our daughter, Eve, to the wedding tonight. She is 18 months and will all the other kids there, she is going to be so cute on the dance floor, running around with the other kids.
    Hope everyone is having a good weekend!!
  • H2Ologist
    H2Ologist Posts: 122 Member
    So we've heard a few stories.... What is yours?
  • swtgrl42
    swtgrl42 Posts: 100 Member
    Thank you for starting this group, all of the posts have been inspirational. I just joined MFP yesterday. I have been trying to lose weight for almost 20 years. It is hard to actually write that down! I am an active person and love to run, have done 4 half marathons. It is only by the grace of God that I have not seriously injured myself running while so overweight. The past year has been one of the most frustrating when I look back. I work out and do well for a week, then let go for 2 weeks and am right back where I started. Someone once told me, a definition of insanity is "doing the same thing and expecting a different result"; I can completely identify with that. I have wonderful family and friends, but need the support of people who understand the difficulty of struggling with weight. So, thank you to all out there who are supportive and especially for starting this group.
  • annalobdell
    annalobdell Posts: 201 Member
    One of my goals is to do a 5k for breast cancer awareness. it is a disease that has struck one to many times in my family and I want to make a difference. Yesterday I started the yoplait lose 5 pounds in 2 weeks challenge. So far it is going pretty good, I am down a pound since yesterday. Lets see if it is sustainable. I am hoping to see a big difference in myself by summer time. If I can lose 10 pounds a month I can concievably lose 70 pounds by next june, which will put me in the 220's, the lightest I have been in my adult life. I know that I can do this, I know that we all can do this.
    Anna
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