Being Single SUCKS because...
scapez
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I spend most of my time alone! I am always suspicious of women and their motives. Mainly due to the fact that I have my own home, vehicles and am not to awful bad on the eyes.0
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I wouldn't say I suspicious of others right off the bat, but it does suck being on your own a lot. I've spent most of this year exercising, and while that's been AWESOME, I've done so much of that alone - which sucks!!
If it helps Jeff, I don't think all single women looks at homes, cars, etc., especially when they're in their 40s/50s and established. I personally don't have 'motives' other than (hopefully someday) meeting a great guy that I'm compatible with!
Let your guard down a little!
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it sucks because you have no one to celebrate the little things in life with. A cup of coffee, a walk, reading the paper together, just little things. A lot of little things grows into a big thing, and the big thing is what we are all looking for0
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Mainly due to the fact that I have my own home, vehicles and have an awesome back.
*fixed that for ya. :laugh:0 -
It sucks 'cause it's so damn lonesome. I barely have friends as it is. And not having anyone who appreciates you for who you are, and is there for you, and all that other stuff that goes with it.0
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Edit: Damnit, think I accidentally double-clicked0
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Sucks when it is cold outside...and you dont have that other special person to keep you warm......womp womp womp!0
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Sucks when it is cold outside...and you dont have that other special person to keep you warm......womp womp womp!
Yep the power of the cuddle.. now that's serious business there!0 -
...um...actually it doesnt?
Let me see - I leave for work, the house is still clean when I get home. No dirty sox on the floor
Can take a bath for hours if I want with no one banging on the door
Can eat pretzels for dinner if that's what appeals
Can spend the day in my PJ's and no one calls me lazy
Companionship - I have some incredible friends. Sex? Yeah OK that part does kind of suck, but really, the rest of life...I dunno if I'd ever change back!!0 -
It would be nice to have someone to come home to that's happy to see me besides my dog. I would like to have companionship, someone to share every day things with. Someone to love and be loved by. 0
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Mainly due to the fact that I have my own home, vehicles and have an awesome back.
*fixed that for ya. :laugh:
LOL thank you, I thought I typed it wrong the first time.0 -
it sucks because you have no one to celebrate the little things in life with. A cup of coffee, a walk, reading the paper together, just little things. A lot of little things grows into a big thing, and the big thing is what we are all looking for
^Agree.0 -
I mostly miss having a snuggle buddy - the cats just don't cut it in that regard. :laugh:
Seriously, just having someone to share life with - someone that always has your back...that's what I miss being single.
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It sucks not having some one to walk with in the fields and woods here,holding hands with them,talking.
Spending a quiet evening on the couch watching a movie with her head on a shoulder.
The sex part (lack of) is its own thing but honestly not as big a deal as the overall being alone part is.0 -
it sucks because you have no one to celebrate the little things in life with. A cup of coffee, a walk, reading the paper together, just little things. A lot of little things grows into a big thing, and the big thing is what we are all looking for
This and more. Too many to elaborate but this.
All friends and family notice you're the only 1 left!
BIG FAMILY!!!0 -
...of all the "oh poor you, you're single and 29" looks.
...you feel like crap when a close friend announces an engagement or pregnancy.0 -
I mostly miss having a snuggle buddy - the cats just don't cut it in that regard. :laugh:
Seriously, just having someone to share life with - someone that always has your back...that's what I miss being single.
Why does it keep coming back to the "BACK", lol0 -
Why does it keep coming back to the "BACK", lol
I was thinking that as I was typing it out...it must be my subliminal mind taking over! :laugh:0 -
it sucks because you have no one to celebrate the little things in life with. A cup of coffee, a walk, reading the paper together, just little things. A lot of little things grows into a big thing, and the big thing is what we are all looking for
^^THIS!0 -
Sucks when it is cold outside...and you dont have that other special person to keep you warm......womp womp womp!
Yep the power of the cuddle.. now that's serious business there!
Hahah indeed!0 -
SEX!!!!!!! batteries only cut so much lol
Being the 3rd wheel when hanging out
People constantly trying to pair me up with any single male they know wether we have anything in common or not.:grumble:0 -
...all my friends are in relationships and have kids.
...I hate going places by myself all the time.
...I'm sick of going on first dates.0 -
watching a movie by myself gets lonesome0
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Feeling lonely and bored. Wanting to go out but having no one to go with. Yeah... that.0
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It doesn't suck that bad honestly...
But I really do hate first dates.
Could we skip that part, please? ;-)0 -
...all my friends are in relationships and have kids.
...I hate going places by myself all the time.
...I'm sick of going on first dates.
Totally have to agree on these!! Plus I love snuggling
But I do like the single life when it comes to girls nights out and enjoying my life the way I want it.0 -
So many reasons
Sometimes you're just tired of not having companionship
Getting suck having to figure out who you want to go do things with0 -
I'm okay with the day-to-day part of being single. I am so busy with my work that I don't have much time to feel lonely. For me, it's the bigger things like having someone to take to a wedding or a family gathering. I've been single for a long time (my choice) and I'm sick of my family asking me about it. And I'm kind of surprised that since I decided this past spring that I might be ready for a relationship, it hasn't happened yet. It's much harder to meet someone when you're in your 40s it seems.
I'm still alone. And I went to two weddings this summer alone.0 -
But I really do hate first dates.
Could we skip that part, please? ;-)
Ick...I know what you mean!0 -
I'm okay with the day-to-day part of being single. I am so busy with my work that I don't have much time to feel lonely. For me, it's the bigger things like having someone to take to a wedding or a family gathering. I've been single for a long time (my choice) and I'm sick of my family asking me about it. And I'm kind of surprised that since I decided this past spring that I might be ready for a relationship, it hasn't happened yet. It's much harder to meet someone when you're in your 40s it seems.
I'm still alone. And I went to two weddings this summer alone.
I agree about the age thing... I'm 39 and it seems that the only guys I meet are either way to young (and immature) and don't want the ready-made family, or are too close to my parents' age and I just can't do that! I struggle the most with finding guys in the 30-40 range who accept my kids (and don't want any of their own, since I can't have any more). Ahhh.. and the snuggling. Miss it so.0
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