The only thing I've been bridezilla about so far is with my venue...and only about one specific problem.

When they first told me the venue could hold up to 120 people, I visited the site, couldn't picture that many people in there so I asked for a diagram showing me how it would work....they sent me a diagram that was rough, not to scale, and had the buffet tables in the hallway in front of the RESTROOMS!! I about died....and I was out for blood lol.

I finally got to chat to someone who knew what they were talking about, they had a professional draw me a "to scale" diagram and I feel MUCH better...but ya, I had to release the beast on that one! haha

Mine has to be my reception and my wedding coordinator. The venue we are using has a wedding coordinator for the day and what concerns me the most is the one that we met and signed with no longer works with the resort.. Now I have someone new and she's just told us the golf course that my fiance was supposed to golf the day of our wedding is now being overseeded (whatever the hell that means ?!?) with only 5 months to go, it's a little late in the game to be changing things..

For the photographer I recommend scheduling a "Test Shoot" to see how well you work together, and to see how they make you look in their photographs. As a plus-sized bride (with an over-bite) I was really worried. Especially when 1 photographer said she shoots plus-sized brides the same way she would shoot anyone.

Umm, no?

So, I scheduled a test shoot with a different photographer. We played with lighting, had a long talk about my concerns and desires for the wedding photography and then spent a half hour taking pictures. The photographs were incredibly and I really liked her personality. So I felt confident hiring her to the wedding.