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Curiousity killed the cat... (I feel stupid!!)

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  • The_Iron
    The_Iron Posts: 288
    Bravo, Anna! :smokin:
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    I think you have to think of it in a couple of different ways
    - people only post the good stuff (generally) to FB. You're only seeing one side of the story
    - also, your ex might have been mr. romantic but is your ex for a reason, isn't he?!
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Thanks guys!! I guess it's normal to be curious about it. The whole romance thing is me being silly. I'll take a good man with an honest mouth any day over a lying cheat with beautiful but empty words.

    Today is my and Smiley's 1st month anniverary! He thinks it's silly for me to celebrate it but it doesn't seem like we've been together for an official month. :bigsmile:
  • LFiestan
    LFiestan Posts: 175 Member
    thats why i hate FB these days Im like that too and i had to control myself from peeking at my guy's account coz i know ill get hurt by the things i see and read...though i did peek when i was at my weakest point but its been months now since i did it and feel better. PLEASE BLOCK THE EX and dont think about him anymore, besides youve got Smiley with you :)
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    Don't worry, girl, you're completely normal. I probably would have done the same thing, because I am simply NOSEY! LOL.

    As for Facebook, I honestly have gotten away from it. My love life is no one business but mine, and if I get into a relationship I probably won't bother making it "Facebook official." Not saying Sugar Lips and I are gonna make it official soon, but if we did, no one on Facebook would know. You guys, my few friends that I talk to on a daily basis in person, and my family would know, aka the people I care about.

    No one at work would know unless I tell them, because lord knows **** would get around to my ex and people at work would try to cause drama about it anyway even if he didn't (which I don't think he would anymore).

    Take everyone else's advice about not comparing Smiley to your ex, or anyone else you've dated. You should only compare Smiley to his own standards. As for the romance part, try to bring it up if you guys have a deep conversation sometime soon. It's still a new relationship, so if/when the l-word gets brought into play in a few weeks or months, that would be a great time to start opening up about what type of romantic things you like. Hell, do something for him. :)

    Sounds like you've got a great man. Just sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride (literally :wink: )!
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Just sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride (literally :wink: )!

    Oh this I am doing!! :wink:
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