S/He might not be the one if...

JanieJack
JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
complete the sentence with examples of how you know s/he is NOT the one...for example:


...if he has, "come visit me in jail" in his online profile
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  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    Or, the one that caused me to start this thread:

    ...if he told you he was divorced, but then on facebook talked about how his divorce wasn't final.
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    ...if he needs you to help pay his bills the first month you're dating
  • Meghan0116
    Meghan0116 Posts: 1,268 Member
    if he is mean to waiters/waitresses, people in the service industry
  • Meghan0116
    Meghan0116 Posts: 1,268 Member
    if he tries to meet my son too quickly
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    if he is mean to waiters/waitresses, people in the service industry

    Yes!

    If he doesn't give you butterflies.
    If he doesn't act nice toward his mom and dad
  • DMZ_1
    DMZ_1 Posts: 2,889 Member
    she does not make you a priority in her life.
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    ...i f they have an adam's apple.
  • DMZ_1
    DMZ_1 Posts: 2,889 Member
    ...if he has, "come visit me in jail" in his online profile

    Maybe not "the one", but James Holmes will become more popular with women as a result of his actions.

    http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/03/23/chicks-dig-jerks-science-edition/
    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/07/13/luka-magnotta-accused-cannibal-female-fans_n_1668129.html?1342182987&ncid=edlinkusaolp00000009
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    ...they have more then one kid by more then one woman.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    She is wounded and drama filled.
    I don`t mind lending a shoulder,like to but if that is every day all day then it is soul sucking and experience has taught me that in time she loses interests in anything outside of being an emotional crutch.
  • Nerple
    Nerple Posts: 1,291 Member
    she won't dance to Bobby Brown's "Every Little Step."
  • Myslissa
    Myslissa Posts: 760 Member
    If they start spouting out racist bs.
  • met42485
    met42485 Posts: 71 Member
    ...if they inform you spiritual demons are walking among us within a few minutes of meeting.

    ...if they are on a revoked license for multiple DUIs. [sorry that one's a deal breaker for me lol]
  • bruintamer
    bruintamer Posts: 183 Member
    He's looking at your chest and his first words to you are, "mmmm left one or right one...left one!"
  • bruintamer
    bruintamer Posts: 183 Member

    ...if they are on a revoked license for multiple DUIs. [sorry that one's a deal breaker for me lol]

    For sure deal breaker! I drove my ex around for a year because of his first one. His second one required an ignition interlock device on his car...which I had to use occasionally too to drive his car. Sooo embarassing being seen having to blow into that everytime. No bueno!
  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
    ... if they snore.
  • porcelain_doll
    porcelain_doll Posts: 1,005 Member
    If he calls me 'dude.' I cannot stand that. I don't call him 'sister.'
  • HellsKells
    HellsKells Posts: 671 Member
    ..if he's "willling" to cheat on his wife for you. No thanks, buddy. That is a mess I do not want to get tangled up in, no matter how "willing" you are.
  • BklynEibhlin
    BklynEibhlin Posts: 119 Member
    she won't dance to Bobby Brown's "Every Little Step."
    There are people that wouldn't?!?
  • almostatgoalweight
    almostatgoalweight Posts: 234 Member
    Doesn't give or like receiving oral.
  • NCTravellingGirl
    NCTravellingGirl Posts: 717 Member
    If he can't string several sentences together coherently and have a conversation, I'm out! Or if he has a girlfriend, that'd do it!
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    If she's a twilight fan.
  • almostatgoalweight
    almostatgoalweight Posts: 234 Member
    Can't drive a car. I'm tired of organising my own birthday cake.
  • calvert6183
    calvert6183 Posts: 539 Member
    If they have a stronger relationship with their iPhone than with their family, you, or friends.
  • almostatgoalweight
    almostatgoalweight Posts: 234 Member
    Has smoked in the last year.
  • kkjay
    kkjay Posts: 62
    If they don't like/hate dogs.
  • almostatgoalweight
    almostatgoalweight Posts: 234 Member
    They own or want a dog (hehe).
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    ...if they inform you spiritual demons are walking among us within a few minutes of meeting.


    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • newmein2013
    newmein2013 Posts: 674 Member
    A criminal record

    A couch potatoe

    Not being active in his kids lives

    Doesn't know how to, or won't, take care of himself - I'm totally into the woman's role and go above & beyond but I'm not his mommy. I need to know he can cook, shop & do laundry if necessary.

    And he absolutely has to be able to get along with my family & friends
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    ... doesn't know the difference between loose and lose.
    ... wears bright red lipstick.
    ... has her ex-boyfriend's name tattooed on her neck.
    ... has an unhealthy affection for Lorena Bobbet.
    ... wants to have more kids.
    ... believes I have to earn her, but she doesn't have to earn me.