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Wow, some of the responses here are confusing me completely! I'm not particularly interested in whether or not he is offended by being referred to as a pervert, tbh. He's been told, and he ignored that. Now he IS a pervert. You don't just forget that it's inappropriate to touch someone's backside without permission. It's…

It's polite to ask permission first. I get what you're saying, but it's never okay to touch someone without asking them if it's okay before you do.

Okay, my thoughts, based on my own experiences: You are conscious of this change, which means you're aware of this being a problem. Sometimes we have to just go with it, rather than trying to fight against it. Eat what you can, do what you can and let your mind heal. In a few weeks time, you'll feel much better mentally…

I'd like for people to mind their own business. I'm capable of independent thought, and don't need their input ;)

I think this is crappy, because you're worried about rocking the boat, and HE is the one who is out of line. That sucks. Him repeatedly smacking your butt (when you've asked him not to) is sexual harassment, plain and simple. This is not a friendly dude, he's completely dismissing your request and behaving in a wholly…

Yup, that.

This. SO MUCH this. We're human.

I think you need to work on developing respect for women :no_mouth: Spend some time with women, without looking to sleep with them. Recognise their value, and you'll respect them as people.

I use it for cooking, as it has a high smoke point. It's also lower in calories than most oils. I also use it as a moisturiser if I've done a skin peel, or a makeup remover. I also use it to oil my bakeware, as it hardens in my climate and leaves a thin film over the surface, protecting the pan from rusting.

I have a meat tenderiser; if you like, I could chase you with it? :D

Zumba :) ETA: Plus some strength work when I have the motivation.

He grew a better goatee than me :(

I'm in too deep...

I haven't really thought about it. I have a photo of myself where I look AWESOME, and I just didn't see it at the time. The benefit of hindsight, eh? *Sigh* Anyway, I just look at that photo, and remember that I can look like that again. That, I find, is motivation enough for me to continue :)

False. I've never danced naked by the light of the moon. ;)

Eep, I'm not sure I want to ask him! Lol. I don't workout to accommodate him; either he accepts me as I am, or he finds someone else. I'm not sure it's healthy to change yourself because men might find you more attractive. (I say you generally, rather than directing my comment at anyone) :D

I don't mind, as long as people are polite. It's a natural thing, and even though I'm in a relationship, I understand that interested parties don't automatically know that. But, from a different perspective, it seems a little shallow to me to just come onto someone purely because of the way that they look. I'd want a…

Aww, lovely :( It makes me sad, too. I try only to weigh every week now, because it just bums me out so much. Have a *squish*

Hi Krystal! I'm relatively new, too :) Been here for twenty days and feeling much better for it! I hope you're successful in your endeavours x

It really makes a huge difference for me, so I only weigh on hard flooring :)