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  • (This was about lap bands) If you're in the UK why are you worried about price? Surely, if you really need the surgery you will qualify under the NHS and they will give information and advice.
  • Depression certainly doesn't help me with weight loss! I try to make the best of it when I have good days and minimise the effects of bad days. I know the bad days will be there so my weight loss will be slower. I think acceptance of yourself - along with your depression - is important. It helps to rationalise your goals.…
  • 100% agree. Never give up. But be kind to yourself. I think you know that you got you where you are now. That's in the past. Forgive yourself and move on. If you dislike or even hate yourself for getting fat you won't feel as though you deserve better, and I'm sure you do deserve to live healthily. I've only just started…
  • It's not easy and I think most people have to find their own way. I've suffered a lot with depression, including suicidal thoughts so the last thing I needed was failure - and every time I 'gave up', I failed. I read a book called "The Easy Way to Stop Smoking". (It lied, there is no easy way!) Some of the psychology of…
  • Missy, you seriously need to speak to your husband. Would he join a gym with you? Could you exercise together at home? You say he's worried that someone might 'pick you up' at a gym. That doesn't say much for his trust in you. Sorry but I've been married to someone like that for 30 years. I've come to accept that it's just…
  • I have over 100 lbs to lose so I can't see a "kick start" actually making much of a difference. I guess I just have to learn to be patient - not easy at 57 when you've always be impulsive! But the impulse to eat cream cakes is what got me here so ... patience here I come! Wish me luck folks!
  • When you can't cut your toenails and breathe at the same time.
  • Hi Jamie, my first day today. I had a Jillian Michaels video but it has mat exercises in it and once I'm on the floor it takes me the rest of the video to get back up again! But I guess that's exercising too! :smiley: I work full time so don't really have much time for exercise. I've set reminders in my work calendar to go…
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