Jalsandy Member

It's the attitude that I disagree with, the irrelevant mean question to be precise. Stop trying to twist the issue and make it into sth it's not for your own good.

No harm done. I just hate seeing people giving this kind of attitude. Like if you wanna say sth, say it nicely, or don't say anything at all. It's not that hard. Yes, I am sensitive to that behavior. It's beyond me and it makes me wonder what ppl think when they decide to address other ppl who dont even know them that way.

You and a few others thought it was, remember? ;)

I am not very active on social media, and this is probably the first time I enter a forum. I expected a community that is cooperative and respectful, and an atmosphere where I can pose my concerns without any worry while getting good feedback that i can use. But I agree with you 100%. It was just weird lol I was a bit…

Dear Melissa, Who this person is does not concern me. I am under zero obligation to respect someone based on their own personal life choices, especially if that person is a stranger. You may have some respect for her based on your own knowledge and experience with her, as for myself, based on the derogatory attitude she's…

I'm 23...

The pleasure is all mine ;) glad to have brought some joy into your life. You seemed to have needed it. Adios! ;)

Dude. I got my answer. The last thing I wanna do is try to reason with someone who doesn't belong anywhere in my life. Again. My life my beeswax. You chose to comment, now deal with the consequences. I can choose to value or devalue any comment I want. Yours was a bunch of useless crap. Some of the others' were helpful.…

Not really, cuz I haven't really researched what it is. Didn't bother :wink:

One person up there in the comments simply wrote "water retention" period. See how simple, helpful and awesome that was? And I actually did my research and based some changes on it. Do people have to be rude to get their point across? What value does it give it?

So i wouldn't go all "wow she's so concerned she gave me so much to think about." I actually felt like the onlu thing I should think about is "what is wrong with this aggressive person? Jeez"

Her comment was disrespectful. 2 sentences of judgment and a rude way of speaking, not anything of value that i can use. A concerned person with good intentions would comment with sth respectful, explaining their point of view politely, offering advice "politely". That's the kind of comment I would "think " about and…

Except you put it out here. If you want to keep it your "beeswax," maybe don't do that next time. Having someone be so freaked out over a bit of water weight is concerning to me. It screams of all kinds of issues, starting with body dysmorphia.[/quote] And there you go again, telling people what to do with their business.…

Thanks! It's probably so. I googled it and I'm gonna try to cut down on sodium

My body. My life. My beeswax. The fact that you're categorizing sth as "miniscule" according to your own set of personal priorities is just immature. Now is there sth scientific/medical you want to say that i can actually use? Or nah?

I'm not sure if I can post pictures here?

I swear I'm trying to eat more but that's all I can do :( I try to up my calories but for that to happen I have to eat bigger portions until I throw up :( how can I increase mh calorie intake without feeling sick?

I actually go very heavy, but you're right I do go for higher reps, although I am growing in size, it's just moderate and not correspondent to the effort I put in.

I do cardio because I had some trouble with my lungs. So a doctor advised me tl do cardio to learn how to regulate my breathing.

Thanks! I'll take it there too