jenlb99 Member

Sorry about that; intelligence comes naturally to me. We all have our strengths and weaknesses.

One could deduce, based on your belief that the OP's boyfriend was "flattering", that you exhibit some of the same characteristics. It's pure logic. Your first post was dangerous, particularly to such a young, inexperienced girl. You then attempted to discredit some very sound advice made by many people based on their lack…

Experience, my friend. You're young and are most likely possessive yourself, which is why you find the OP's boyfriend's behavior appropriate and "flattering". Life will teach you otherwise. You cannot control other people, and any attempt to do so will push people away from you.

YES!!!! Never let someone else's insecurities affect your life. You did absolutely NOTHING wrong by having your friend stay over. No, it is NOT weird. You don't owe your boyfriend an explanation, an apology, etc. He should be grovelling and dealing with his issues, or he shouldn't be a part of your life.

I'm a straight female. I have a few lesbian friends (heck, my doctor is a lesbian!), and I'm sorry, but I had to laugh at your post. NOTHING could make me desire another female sexually,. simply because I love men...very masculine men. A very masculine female STILL doesn't do anything for me because I love MEN...and…

*sigh* Everything about that man is sexy.

Hmmm...close! Here's a pic: (sorry, I don't know how to post): http://www.universalworkshop.com/redliongallery/pages/muscles.htm If you follow the light grey line that extends from the bottom of the guy's armpit, you'll know what I mean. THAT line - the one that curves almost to the back. The Serratus Anterior is just…

Whatever that side muscle is that creates that line around their ribs -- that is SO SEXY. I have no idea what it's called! Then back and shoulders. YUM.

Ahhh, I see. The chances of you getting it are slim to none, unless your legs are naturally spaced farther apart than most. My legs are very muscular (kickboxing does that! lol), but the only way I would ever have that gap is through liposuction or becoming severely underweight...neither of which I'm willing to do! lol…

Are you wanting that inner thigh gap? So many women on here said they want it. The truth is, it is unattainable for most women, simply due to their bone structure. My cousin, for example, is overweight by roughly 30 lbs and still has that gap. I have never had it, even as a scrawny young girl lol. It's just not…

Ohhh you can say that again. Outlander is a fantastic series! And who doesn't love Jamie Fraser? ;) Some are hinting at a possible movie, but I don't know how I feel about that!

Beautiful. :flowerforyou:

Skipping is a FANTASTIC exercise, and one I advocate fiercely. Don't do it barefoot, though...OUCH!! lol Don't be shocked if even 2 mins of skipping is exhausting -- it is! Your endurance will build over time, and before you know it, the time will fly by. Music is a huge help; skipping to a great, intense beat will keep…

YES!!! I've been very large and am now roughly 20 lbs more than my goal weight (which is still higher than the BMI chart says I "should" be), and women were SO friendly to me when I was heavier. Even now, when I choose to go out without makeup, with my hair thrown back, etc. women are somewhat friendly to me. The second I…

I think it's sick. Do the feeders stay when the feedees get too large to take care of themselves? Nothing like being insecure enough to physically MAKE your partner stay with you. That's wrong on so many levels. Part of loving someone is wanting what's best for them...and that is clearly not.

Holy CRAP!! You don't seriously eat one container at a time, do you...? That is my DREAM!! lol

Grrrr...not available in Canada.... I like the idea of it containing whey protein, though.

Thank you for this! I'm an ice cream addict!!

GREAT job!! And you have a lovely shape!

Some of it was water, but after 4 weeks, some of it was most definitely fat. Congratulations on that! Make sure you're eating enough, though because you do NOT want to lose muscle mass. The more muscle mass you have, the more calories you burn naturally. I suggest taking pictures (front, side, and back) wearing as little…

Miracle Whip sandwiches. I'd eat them all the time! I still eat one food item at a time, and still leave my favorite thing until last. Usually, that's the meat!

LMAO Oh how I like you, OP.

I'm the eldest of 10 kids; you bet your *kitten* I'm food possessive!! lol Anyone from a big family knows that if you don't eat something now (or hide it REALLY well...sometimes under lock and key), it won't be there later. Same thing with food on my plate when I'm in "cutting" mode. If it's on my plate, I can eat it, and…

Well, that's her opinion and in her world, she's right. No amount of arguing with her will change her mindset. In the real world, exercise is exercise, and every bit counts. Personally, I tend to "under log" my exercise, just to make sure I don't over eat mine. In 30 minutes of my workout, I burn well over 500 calories,…

I came across this yesterday and am considering it: http://saveyourdo.com/ The reviews seem to be pretty good, but I'd love to see some videos of women taking the hair band/wrap off right after a workout! lol

I used to date good guys, but as I have been changing, so has my taste. Really, when the good guys find out what I do and how well I do it (kickboxing), they run anyway lol. That works for me -- I don't want a man I can beat up!! lol I'm short but strong, and I still want what all women want -- a man who makes them feel…

1) Part of my motivation is to watch his jaw drop. 13 years later, and I still have one heck of a crush on him. I'll see him in 4 months... 2) I'm afraid of falling in love again. So much so that I've avoided dating anyone even casually for 5+ years...and I'm only 30. I've lost 11 lbs of fat (gained 2.6 muscle!!), and the…

I'm a kickboxing addict and look like I lift heavy -- but I don't at all. I haven't picked up a weight in years and have no intention to. My workout is heavy on the cardio but has also sculpted my muscles like crazy. For me, it's the best of both worlds.

I just made a batch of it, thanks to this thread. One can of chick peas, LOADS of garlic, freshly juiced lemon, tahini, s & p, and olive oil. YUM. I'm going to reek for a while, but who cares? lol

Take pictures from all angles and make sure you take measurements from all over. I lost an inch and a half off my waist and hips in 6 weeks but I also took off inches in my thighs and arms as well. Had I not taken pictures from all angles, I never would have seen the massive decrease in back fat.