feeders

donna_glasgow
donna_glasgow Posts: 869 Member
in Health and Weight Loss
I didnt know where to post this and thought this was the best place .............

feeders ... ppl who prefer bigger partners

I have a friend (well a friend of a friend) who was attached to a feeder ... and he likes to make sure she has ate enough to first make her big then keep her big ,,,, at the time she did not realise, until the point she wanted to lose weight ....... then she had problems .....

he liked her fat and wanted to keep her fat ...... she didnt like being big but wanted to keep him happy ................

the question is .... has anyone here known or been attached to a feeder .....

how did you deal with it?
are you in the situation now?

what's the thoughts of ppl that have never had any experience of feeders?

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  • FlynnMacCallister
    FlynnMacCallister Posts: 172 Member
    When I started reading that, I was actually thinking it was kinda cute.... then it struck me, you seem to be talking about a non-consensual situation. Am I correct in thinking that the feeder in these situations doesn't disclose what they're trying to do, and the fed doesn't consent to it?
  • donna_glasgow
    donna_glasgow Posts: 869 Member
    When I started reading that, I was actually thinking it was kinda cute.... then it struck me, you seem to be talking about a non-consensual situation. Am I correct in thinking that the feeder in these situations doesn't disclose what they're trying to do, and the fed doesn't consent to it?

    the fed did not consent ... and she didnt realise till she she gained ALLOT of weight
  • iluxoxo211
    iluxoxo211 Posts: 241 Member
    This is sad.. obv the person is not looking out for the best well being of their spouse.. I would ditch him in a heartbeat!:noway:
  • FlynnMacCallister
    FlynnMacCallister Posts: 172 Member
    When I started reading that, I was actually thinking it was kinda cute.... then it struck me, you seem to be talking about a non-consensual situation. Am I correct in thinking that the feeder in these situations doesn't disclose what they're trying to do, and the fed doesn't consent to it?

    the fed did not consent ... and she didnt realise till she she gained ALLOT of weight

    Yeah, then that's outright abuse.
  • manda1002
    manda1002 Posts: 178 Member
    I guess I have a friend who was actually in this situation. She was a bigger girl to start with, and she thought he was just a "chubby chaser" but then she dropped him like a ton of bricks when she realized he was trying to make her fatter.

    My husband always says if it exists, there's a fetish, but come on. Don't people have more respect for others?? So sad :(
  • avaloneternal
    avaloneternal Posts: 216
    I say sue them for attempted murder. Just kidding... but not really.
  • jenlb99
    jenlb99 Posts: 213 Member
    I think it's sick. Do the feeders stay when the feedees get too large to take care of themselves?

    Nothing like being insecure enough to physically MAKE your partner stay with you. That's wrong on so many levels. Part of loving someone is wanting what's best for them...and that is clearly not.
  • saragato
    saragato Posts: 1,154
    A year or so back I knew a woman who was by all accounts rather obsessed with keeping herself in shape and prided herself on her petite form and stature. However, her boyfriend was a tall, very large man and she encouraged his overweight body and his massive eating binges because she couldn't be attracted to him any other way and admitted it openly. She loved him, but only if he stayed fat and she could stay skinny.

    The weirdest thing was she often caused fights on the forum I knew her from because she felt she had to justify a twig of a girl (and I don't use that lightly, she was bordering on underweight) loving a man who could realistically hurt her during intercourse. Now was anyone commenting on that relationship? No, but she was insanely paranoid. She was also an angry person because she would turn right back around and say how sick it was for a thin/in-shape guy to like big/heavy girls.

    Woman was a damned lunatic.

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