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  • When first married we had a joint account and it was TOXIC!!!! I'm a saver, when I do spend I want to make repairs to our home and get new windows and get new carpet and things like that! My husband on the other hand wants Xbox games, movies, stereo equipment for his car, to go to comedy clubs, etc. I have no trouble doing…
  • I've been on that site maybe a total of ten times in the last five years. It's something to do when you are bored. There are a lot of people naked, a lot of people slapping it, but occassionally you meet someone cool or nice. My most exciting story was last summer. I was talking to this kid from California, a young balck…
  • Good boy! No one wants to get a mouth full of hair. If I were with a guy as soon as I saw hair I'd think to myself "Hope this time is good because you won't be getting it again."
  • Tell that to the government office I work for! 40 hours a week for the last eight months and I still have no sick pay. I even had surgery the first week of the year and had to miss two days (Yes I came back after two days because I couldn't afford to miss more) and I mentioned it to them then. They were less than…
  • Do you have paid sick day? This person may not be able to afford to take off. Personally, I do not get paid sick days so I work even when I am sick. However, I also sit alone in an office for eight hours a day. Literally, I am the only person in the building. I have employees that come in and out periodically through the…
  • I don't really do anything weird but my eight year old daughter is hillarious. She is oblivious to the world when she is in the shower. We often make audio recordings and play them for her later. She makes up songs, makes up raps, carries on conversations with herself, makes up rhymes, all at a volume that allows the…
  • Not going to a party because we have no real vested interest in either team. Myself, my husband and his best friend are watching at my house. They are watching because they are men and love football, I am watching for the commercials. We are all Steeler's fans (Keep your boo's to yourselves) and are really pretty torn.…
  • I've been married twice. The first time around I was 22 and got pregnant in the blink of an eye. I had a troublesome pregnancy and delivered a still born baby. The second time was literally like a month or two after the still born baby, and again I got pregnant super fast and without much effort. Another difficult…
  • Two hours compared to what us women feel and suffer through? Plus they didn't get to puke, have back pain, or any of the other gross stuff we get to experience. But I guess it's better than nothing!
  • Who thinks unsolicited advice is FUN?:wink:
  • Your body looks great, but that hair, omg I would love to have a head of hair like that!
  • Wow Congrats, you are now a hottie!
  • Baked potato or baked sweet potato!
  • This was a good one! The new politically correct term is "criss cross applesauce" according to my daughter! LOL
  • People do suck. I'm sorry she hurt your feelings. I have had mine hurt a time or two also. I would call the salon and talk to the manager, if for no other reason than to spare someone else from the pain you felt.
  • Been married twice. The first it was me, him, a preacher and a witness. The second time it was on Lime Tree Beach in St Thomas, US Virgin Islands. The only guests were his parents and his best friend. The pictures are BEAUTIFUL and it was cheap, the wedding, dress, bouquet, dinner, everything only ran $900. That aspect I…
  • I would say initiation is 50/50 in my marriage. Marriage vows are just that "vows". He has some other issue. After 16 years, I'm guessing he's bored. DO NOT blame yourself. It takes two to make a marriage work and it takes two to make a marriage fail. My suggestion: Have a sincere heart to heart, be understanding and non…
  • I'm just shooting to not gain. Small portions and extra exercise.
  • It's all about willpower. I am the only person in my house that tracks. My husband and daughter are big snackers too. My daughter is eight so she contstantly tries to feed me. She's trying to be affectionate by insisting I share her snacks, and it's tempting when she is pushing the snacks right up against my lips and I can…
  • I don't wear makeup at home. i"m even brave enough to run over to the neighbors for a cup of sugar without make up. But thats as far as it goes. Anywhere else, I'm wearing it. In high school there was a girl who lost her makeup bag and she played hookie until her dad could go buy her replacements, she came to school a…
  • There's a reason we're divorced. He has a "type A" personality. He is furious and flies off the handle one moment and the next he's a lamb. He got physical with me on several occassions but because of his job, I would never call the police on him. He never punched me or anything, he'd push me, grab ahold of my arm, that…
  • If only everyone thought like you. All of the family photos that were taken when we were together, those still hang on the walls in my daughter's room. He is her father and whether I like it or not, he always will be. I don't know why more people don't understand that. I hear my sister in law bash her ex in front of the…
  • Agreed. It has always been my position that when it is her dad's visitation time and she wants to come home (this happened a lot when she was very young) that I am happy to come get her at any point, day or night, but she must discuss it with her dad because he loves her and wants to visit with her too. That is what I…
  • Congratulations on being perfect.
  • My daughter is afraid of her dad and would never go for that. Besides, I'd be worried about getting her in trouble myself. Thank you for your understanding, it seems that none of the other replies have ever been divorced since they are more than happy to be snarky and pass judgement.
  • I never call more than once every 24 hours. I meant for every that I usually don't get a call back .
  • Dammmmmn!!! I, on the other hand, think it's very sweet and kinda sexy that you gentlemen are willing to admit which movies pull at your heartstrings. Plus, I kinda like looking at your pictures :wink:
  • Agreed. Someone (not necessarily a friend) may have done it on her behalf. I've done some mean **** to girls I've hated.
  • 22 when I had my first 31 now. From Ohio.
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