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Last date I went on was...2.5 years ago and I paid for it. I wasted his time, he wasted mine. Least I could do.

It's completely mutual.

Eh it works for me. I've been in-process divorce for 3 years and not really looking for full on commitment with someone until its finalized. He understands and agrees. Both of us are just looking for companionship and not much more. It works for me.

The guy I'm sort of but not really seeing has a wonderful body too. He does weights, doesn't skip leg day, and runs. He's super insecure but to me he looks like a freaking model. He likes me and I have 50lbs to lose, he says that I'[m fine just the way I am, but he likes the fact I want to get better. As long as he likes…

ADVENTURE TIME. (Princess Bubblegum ftw)

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Mines...an annoyingly awesome meme.

I've been struggling with maintaining a schedule. I'm always tired. My eating is better and I work out but sometimes it's harder to get motivated to work out when I'm always tired.

- Medium build - 211 and size 16 - 135 because that was where I felt the happiest. - 22 years old - No kids, but extremely stressing job/school.

Your hair!

I know it's completely off topic but the picture of you and your wife is so beautiful ~

Some days for me it's just half days. I work overnights and there are some days, like my days off, where I'm just SO exhausted I go to sleep in the evening and that throws my entire schedule out of whack so counting it as a half day is how I have to subsidize.

This takes me back to my first relationship. He was my best friend and I fell madly in love with him, catch? He had a girlfriend. During their on and off again relationship he and I started having sex, casual for him (sex but no kissing) and me but I wanted more, just never told him. After about a year of this, I finally…

This was a fun post, lots of peoples opinions which I found positively thrilling to read. :) Thanks Natasha for starting this thread. It makes me even more pumped to get this weight off.

HAHA thank you :D

I mean hell even when I was at my thinnest (128lbs) I fit into a Large or XL over there. :(

In the U.S. it is looked down upon but widely common. When I was in Okinawa the Okinawans' weren't AS obsessed with dieting but they still did it, they weren't AS thin as the girls I saw in Beijing, South Korea and mainland Japan. I always felt like I was massive over there even when i was at my thinnest. Now that I am…

5'5" and 135. :)

Mashed potatoes and sauer kraut.

Meet people? Nevarrrrrrrr. *Truffle Shuffles*

Same!

1/2 Baked potato with plain greek yogurt. Grilled asaparagus and 1/2 Whole Wheat english muffin. Spinach salad 1/2 toasted english muffin (whole wheat) Baked sweet potato with a little cinnamon. Asian cucumber salad and sticky rice. You want to get a carb and protien with every meal. Unlimited greens.

Holiday Inn as a Front Desk Associate overnights. 11pm-7am (though normally 8am because my coworkers don't know what it means to be ON TIME) I also do not get shift pay. I get the same rate as day shift pay wise.

@Kenzie I'd join you in joining the mani pedi party.

THIS! Very much this. Except change back the he to a she.

To get back to where physically before my abusive marriage..and to look damn fine in clothes again. :( Fat people clothes are not cute.

I wouldn't mind paying a slightly higher fare to not be treated like a human sardine. But hey, that's just me.

This. Most of my "skinny" friends eat nothing but crap and lounge around all day. One of them has high cholesterol. Where here I am busting my butt to get in shape and eating healthy and it's a struggle. Skinny does not mean healthy, fat does not necessarily mean unhealthy. Everyone is different.

I think everyone should be accepted for who they are and the choices they have made. Just because I am not happy with myself, doesn't mean I should push my beliefs on someone else about weight loss. It's no different than race, or religion. We all have to come to terms with the choices we make in life whether good or bad.…