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  • Yes I've asked many times...... He won't go I have told him I'm not going anywhere I was 33 when we meet more attractive then , I've talked it through he had a history of cheating with exs or lots of 3 month relationships that he'd always end first or relationships that we're sex based seeing his emotions are scaring him…
  • Thanks that was really nice Your beautiful too & Thankyou x
  • There's rather a lot of telling me to run I've told him, he's been cheated on so insecure not by me , he will get used to it as its what I enjoy going to Zumba makes me happy
  • I suppose not sadly I see lots of men stare at me now so he must see it too , I think he feels like when I'm fatter no one wants me which he doesn't realise is untrue. I'm going to get to goal stay there and he will have to see I'm not going anywhere
  • Thankyou his first love cheated on him and his ex before me did also I'm annoyed at the run for it from people who haven't experience life I'm 42 I know abusive relationships this isn't that it's insecurity
  • Sorry to be blunt did you read HE'S ONLY LIKE THIS WHEN I LOSE WEIGHT Why would you tell a person to leave the person they love & have a family with as he's insecure when they lose weight?
  • After 9 years together if it was going to get worse it would of As I said he's only like this when I lose weight
  • Sorry didn't read all Why use a word Cheat? If you want to eat something have it use your calories for it if it's a special meal allow for it make sensible choices bit what I did read was people saying ' I eat stuff that's not part of my diet' this shouts failure as if you exclude food you like you'll fail I know been…
  • CounsellIng I've had counselling in the past with 2 different counsellors due to my fathers problems personally it was rubbish 9 years together is a long relationship of it was do bad I'd been gone years ago he only gets like this when I lose weight, it's simple he's insecure. Thanks
  • Thankyou..... A grown up. I did say I'd be 2 hours when I went for coffee as we shop after he was busy so probably didn't hear. My other 2 children aren't young 17 & 13 so that's why I go as they don't need child are as our daughter does. Thanks though I appreciate your response.
  • I don't think we had similar relationships I haven't wasted 9 years, he has insecurities I posted this to see if anyone else's partner had similar problems If people can't work through relationship downs then they will go from on to another We have a beautiful child a business and we have a family unit I think today's…
  • Sounds like he's overweight ? He's 150lbs 5ft 10 & has a toned body he's a builder. Yes he's in confident I'm the one who's overweight, but I've more confidence. Thanks for good luck
  • Thankyou , your spot on. No wonder there's so much divorce & single parents when people leave at any problems. It was 'nice' to have replies but most of the ones who said Run, Red flag etc are very young or have had very bad relationships. To the people who are suggesting I'm not going to Zumba then I really think your…
  • Zumba wii 100% it's as good ad classes but with no talking which they need to incorporate x
  • I love Zumba 2-3 classes a week & wii Zumba 2 4 times a week I did 6 classes a week in 2010 and lost do many inches It's like everything the more intense you do it the more results if you haven't sweated and drank lots if water in a session then your not getting a full work out Once you learn the dances your be hooked x
  • Thanks for all your replies but overwhelmed I went to Zumba Before I went I said if you keep saying don't go & don't go on date nights were not getting married Got back I asked for real reasons 1. He misses me when I go 2. He likes us to spend time in the evenings together 3.Date nights due to restricted money, we just…
  • I'm going to be a bride in December so I know how your feeling add me if you want a wedding slimming partner x
  • can take couple of weeks to show a gain or your just lucky
  • engaged together 9 YEARS to be married this december 12
  • he Group Eat more to weight less join it your not eating enough I did 1200-1300 calories a day for 12 weeks felt so tired I once felt really ill Im now on 1700 calories which I had to make myself up as Ive always be taught eat little to lose but upping them gradually shouldnt get to a gain say 100 cals week on each day…
  • I disagree 100% Op doesnt have to be told by anyone she shouldnt eat what he wants,you choose to give up cake and pizza then you are doing what works for you she chooses to live her life by eating things she enjoys eating them in moderation. Lecturing someone what they should and shouldnt do is bullying no support…
  • Report her .........Message her shes been reported............. Block her x
  • I dont think anyone is starving on 1200 calories with no exercise,its when people do alot of exercise on 1200 calories the body is like NO
  • Also if we don't have a little of what we fancy we sometimes over eat it then it's a cycle of yoyo Ignore them x
  • This is why my diary is blocked open to mfp friends only I've even had some say don't eat crisps (chips) I eat 1 small packet a day that's my only 'junk' This is a life plan if we can't have cake pizza etc we will return to old habits As the saying goes Everything in moderation I lose weight eating the odd cake , crisps…
  • Tbh just ditch real low carbing especially if you plan to exercise Stick to 40/30/30 Carbs / protein / fat % You can't live normally on v low carbs x
  • Hi joIn the group Eat more to weigh less It's explanatory I ate 1200-1300 a day for 12 weeks felt ill Upped it gradually and feel much better Always be sure your actually burning off any exercise calories you eat is spot on I don't eat mine but some say you should just be 100% your not over eating them x
  • Thing is you have to know exactly the calories you ate burning to eat There's different calculators different HRMs and fitbits Nothing is exact we all burn differently I eat slightly above my BMR but only for the last 2 weeks I was eating 1200-1300 gross but felt lethargic so joined the group Eat more to weigh less it…
  • I think like said you could be over estimating calories burned I never eat exercise calories I've joined eat more too weigh less group on here as I wasn't losing well my calories were too low I also recommended joining the group and eat a set amount each day as worked out If your under or over eating you won't lose I came…
  • Sorry think your on a slight off track I havent a clue why Buddy mean Groom Im in the UK A buddy is a person who on here supports each other one to one?
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