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Its amazing that as individuals we are all unique, however, most of us have similar thought process and insecurities. I go through the same thing. Last year when I lost about 10 lbs to get to about 220, I thought I looked decent. I look at pics now after losing an additional 30 lbs and wonder how in the world I thought I…

Never Been Kissed/ Home Alone! :(

I think a lot of women want a man who can "protect" them and stand over them. Its the same reason why men can be intimidated by women who are taller.

I dress frumpy. I wear workout pants and a t-shirt I can find..lol..

I think most people tend to look their age. I get both a combination of younger and older. People think I'm usually older because I act more 34 than 24. However, I noticed African Americans tend to think I'm younger and Caucasians think I'm older because of my breast and height...

Interesting...I am 24 year old, and I think I can relate. I never been in a relationship. I focused on college, graduate school , and starting my career that I totally abandoned men. Now I am yearning for a relationship, but as I get closer to 25, I am getting nervous that my dreams of marriage and family are not going to…

You've only known him for 4 weeks though....That isn't enough time, IMO, to commit to a relationship with someone. If you want something concrete now, then you should just move on. This guy doesn't work with your pace at the moment.

Its ok anywhere but the workplace and maybe the gym, IMO!

I've been single my entire life..Boohoo!

I need my abs to do the pure cardio workout, so I usually do Cardio Abs last. I just think it makes more since given the type of workout it is. Do what is best for you.

I once had a roommate who had sex with her boyfriend while I was sleeping... I had another roommate the next semester who moved her family into our on campus apartment....Never will I ever have a roommate again.

I hate spending money on gas, so NOPE! I rather spend money on other things...

Yeah, I drink maybe every once every 6-8 months at the most. I never touched alcohol until I was 21. I never saw the big deal about it.

I noticed more than ever from social networks that many people strive for attention even when they deny it. They take pictures with money, post daily updates about their kids/boyfriends, and share everything new in their life like others should care.

I wouldn't lend any family or friend money EVER again. I lent my sister 2000 so she can pay her tuition bill. I am still waiting for it, and I don't talk to her anymore and we live in the same house! Be careful before you proceed is my warning....Family and money do not mix unless its a gift!

I hate when that happens!

I'm sitting in a dark office listening to music and cross covering for 76 patients until 7 am. Yeah..NOT!

No. You never know what happens in life and if you will need a reference.

He must have a good sense of humor/personality, want kids/marriage, and have goals career and personal wise.

So true! I have no problem googling or checking FB about a guy who I may potentially date for possible GF's or kids they may have out there. You would be surprised how easy it is for people to slip that information. I don't call it stalking; I call it smart. People lie so much these days that it forces you to "check up" on…

They want the best of both worlds! I had a man try to do something similar. We actually were "talking" prior to him starting a relationship with his current girlfriend. However, I didn't want to be with him at the current time because we were in different stages of our lives . Last year or so he contacted on FB and texted…

THIS!! I see this as a life time thing so no deadline here. I have a goal weight, but once i get there I know I have to keep working out and eating right regardless. I am not stressing over how long its going to take to get me there because I know I will reach it!

I am not losing 2-3 lbs, but I tend to lose 1 or 1 1/2 lbs every two weeks. I started at 231 in Feb 2011. I am 192.3 according to the scale today even though I weighed 193.6 yesterday. Weird right? Both weights were in the afternoon after drinking and eating breakfast/lunch. I went through a plateau last summer, but what…

Honestly, whats the point of deleting people at all for not logging on or not logging calories? I don't mind friends, but I don't make a big deal in regards to what they are doing. Its just like facebook..lol

Why do people cheat? Hmmm...I think its because they are not satisfied about what they have. People are always trying to "upgrade" aspects of their life. I honestly don't think you can completely love someone and cheat on them. It makes absolutely zero sense.

I wouldn't unless they can show me the results of the their last herpes test.

Honestly, even if I had Gisele Bundchen body I still won't wear a bikini. I am very shy, and walking around in public without a lot of clothes is not my thing.

I usually do about 30 minutes of extra gym work on the treadmill/elliptical to get my heart rate up and blood moving.

Honestly, they have an opinion just like you do. It doesn't make them wrong or right. I am personally anti-cohabitation, since I believe it cheapens marriage itself. That is my opinion of course. . If someone says I should live with someone first to test it out first, I would think its crazy. Honestly, we live in a morally…

I finished Insanity last week. Its a good program, but be careful. I hurt my wrist 3 times during the program especially during the second month. By the end of the second month I was tired of the program. It was physically draining. I would only do it again as a part of a hybrid to save my body the pounding I took.