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I actually have pictures of myself in a very form fitting dress at a wedding. I was 5'2'' and exactly 140 pounds. I can look back now and say I looked ill. Or like I was starving myself to make that weight. I was not intentionally, but I was in collage and walking/running everywhere for lack of a car and gas money so I was…

I'm 5'4''. My goal is 150. Well I should say my drs goal for me is 150. I am currently very comfortably in a size 12, about every 10 pounds means dropping a jeans size for me. So at 150 I will be a size 6 roughly. Even a size 6 on me looked horrible when I was a teenager. But I am hoping that more exercise will mean a…

My mother had one to use when she took all three of her small grand kids out. She just got over breaking both her ankles and to this day cant run fast. And one of the grand kids was a bolter. So a leash on the 2yo bolter or possible watch him run into the street because she was physically unable to chase him.

Id be thrilled to lose 4 pounds a month. Instead I have thyroid issues and every lost ounce is an uphill battle.

This x100. Add in the fact that I look young and people telling me, don't worry you'll grow out of the baby fat.

Do you really think I am stupid enough to post pictures of myself here? Where every shape size and figure is bashed in some way? No thank you. Also I have a huge mangled looking c-section scar with plenty of scar tissue. No way in hell anybody else is ever going to see that. Yes I am very muscular for a women, between…

I'm so tired of hearing people fuss because everyone's not doing the same exact workout and getting the same exact results. I do lots of cardio and mild strength training in comparison to some. My day to day life I am already lifting and moving heavy things. I am genetically predisposed to look like a brick house. I…

Genetics also can play a huge role. I am part native american. I can eat 500 calories a day, nurse a healthy baby and not drop a pound. Genetically my body can lower its calorie needs during a starvation period. No amount of dieting eat this not that type thing has worked. The only thing that works is progressively harder…

Its ok, its a "its me not you" sort of thing. I feel bad because most people here like the support. But I just cant do it.

I've been put down my whole life about my eating habits, even when I was walking/jogging 15+ miles a day to work and working as a groom/exercise rider at one of my jobs. I needed calories then and was broke as all hell so I ate what I could get. I usually eat reasonably healthy. However my mother and others feel I eat like…

My highest was 200 while 10 months pregnant, retaining water like hell and in the dead of summer. I felt like I was going to die. And yes I said 10 months, my daughter was several weeks late.

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My measurements are currently 43-34-43 at 183 pounds. My measurements when I was the same height, 12yo and 115 pounds were 34-30-34. I am never ever ever going to have a super tiny waist. Its just not how I am built. I would be annoyed for someone to call me curvy instead of fat right now. Because darn it I am fat lol.

Yes. I stay under my calorie goals. While we were house hunting it was virtually impossible not to eat fast food once in a while. It was so darn hot that even foods in a cooler wouldn't stay cold for the several hour drive away to look at houses all day and the several hour drive back. Thank goodness I was still…

I fit in one just fine. Its the scars and stretch marks that prevent me from being comfortable enough to wear one in public.

This. My mil particularly enjoys seeing me out of dress at an event. Always makes a comment in front of as many people as possible as well.

No one. I can't even get the kids to cuddle me, they want to sleep all sprawled out. Its very lonely.

The only thing that is sad is your fat shaming women and mothers and refusing to even consider that you are coming across really really badly. It would come across differently if your post was directed at women who are not actively trying to lose weight and get healthier. But the women here are already trying, they are not…

I will ever so kindly tell you that being in pain and having disfiguring scars has nothing to do with my reaction to your words. All it is is fat shaming directed at moms. Nothing more nothing less. Its no diffent then bullying someone who does something differently then you. I dispise bullys. Save the advice, you had me…

Again you are still preaching and judging. Telling me to get angry at my fat instead of you when you say something hurtful and out of line is beyond ridiculous. Its not just scars. I look like something out of a horror flick. I have scar tissue that causes me considerable pain with every sit up I do, every step I take…

Your post was offensive because it is hurtful and cruel. I guarantee I have put in a hell of a lot more work then you have getting in shape and I still look the way I do. No one is going to have the same body or same results with the same amount of work. I don't need to look inside myself, I have a mirror that I can look…

Looks mean nothing to me in a relationship. I would rather date someone old and frankly hideous then most guys that hit on me now a days.

Honestly the comment having babies is no excuse is so dam hurtful. I was in shape before I got pregnant with my first, I worked full time as a landscaper. I had a perfect pregnancy, gained only the exact 25 pounds I was told to gain. I worked out daily, I drank water. I still got stretch marks. Lost the baby weight.…

Dh and I spent almost a year ttc our first and a little more then two for our second. The biggest thing I can suggest is that both partners get an in depth health checkup. The ob's I went to all said oh yea because your spouse knocked you up before it must be the women s fault. Even though I had every health and fertility…

I would love it. Sadly no Xbox.

The style and even the color would be fine in matt or even a patent leather. But the sparkles are just a bit too much. I would adore that style in a red or black shiny leather.

Its walmart or giant. I live in hilly billy hell so there is no such thing as trader joes or whole foods or an Asian market.

When I was a younger adult/ teen I was into the very tall blond type. Dated an epic jerk. Any kind of blond or even light red is a huge turn off now. Married a 5'11 guy. Learned that I hate being so much shorter and smaller then my partner because it makes me feel small and childish. Its hard to have a disagreement and not…

I have a 22 year old Qh gelding. I showed a good bit when I was young. Now I trail ride and my kids and my niece show the same QH that my sisters I did when we were kids. Everyone feel free to add me as well.

When I was a teenager and barely able to keep weight on from all the exercise I was unintentionally getting I ate 22 full size cadbury eggs in one day. I had bought a truck at age 15, got my permit and all that and then my mother refused to let me get my license. She took my truck and drove it herself. I had to run to…