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i get it.

why?

are you thinking about the one where the OP was accused of pm creepiness on multiple women?

this thread is so full of emo.

NOT in public! yeah, it's super if she's overjoyed but what about if she isn't ready? how can she say no in front of people without feeling guilty for humiliating you? it's a personal thing.

truth. pretending to be my friend in order to get into my pants is NOT a nice thing to do.

i think that's an illusion, in part. those who prefer loud/lewd guys tend to be loud/lewd in their response, so they stand out in a thread far more than the other women who just responded to the topic & moved on without getting into three pages of flirting.

if men's tastes were any better, i'd have still been a virgin.

you don't just get therapy sessions for an adult. therapy is a suggestion you make, tactfully, when/if they bring up the issues they're having.

she's an adult. she knows she's fat. all you can do is be there to support any healthy choices she makes. unasked for advice = pressure, whether it's intended that way or not.

don't complain to other people about how you look. honestly, there's no correct response for them to make and it's hellishly awkward to listen to. it usually works better if you make positive statements like, ''you're going shopping? i know it's weird but i've got a real craving for salad today, if it'll fit into the…

when i work out i look gross and sweaty too. and i pull weird faces when i'm straining with weights. even if strangers stare they will, by the time they get home, have forgotten all about who was sweating today.

And now I'm scared to fall asleep. Again. It's going to be a long, long night.

^^this man deserves a medal! and to the OP, i think you're being a mug. you'd give up the security of your own place to go halves with a man who pays no rent and professes no love? after five months? engage your common sense, girl!

you're moving in with a guy who won't commit to saying he loves you... ok!

i would respond but, woe is me, i'm far too intimidated by your dazzling intellect and wilde-esque wit. clearly you are a genius. a mind far above the trivialities of... coherent postings. i wish you good day.

last night i had a nightmare that the guy was murdering me.

then the acceptability of that depends entirely upon the brand of soda in question.

because she never commented on your 4th soda.

*checks friends list* seems to be working out for you, dude! keep up the good work.

food saints.

now THAT is a tactic for getting attention from women!

congrats on being abusive.

i get that this thread is a haha, tongue in cheek jobby. however... i frickin' hate male attention in public, i cannot help having massive jugs, and men assuming i do anything because i want them to notice me makes me feel vaguely homicidal.

you said yourself you need to comment if he has 4 sodas! i couldn't live with someone who did that. it IS nagging. that's not going to make him drink water, it's going to make him resent you. which is exactly why he digs his heels in and gets annoyed at you. so, if you really want to help him, why don't you listen to the…

if 20 people tell me i'm being unreasonable... a may not agree with them, but i'll at least start to question my stance, looking at whether i'm really being as reasonable as i thought i was.

the irony is amusing.

so you're blaming your bahaviour on him too, now? i can't think of anything that would make me want a 5th soda more than someone needing to comment on my 4th.

the way you handle this thread gives a little indication of your personality. after the initial ''that's not quite what i meant'' you might have thought ''meh! sod it! i screwed up how i worded it, so the thread is a dead loss. i'll quit while i'm behind.'' ...but what you're actually doing is spending time telling…

then you wait three months and see what happens. without nagging. if he hasn't lost weight and you have then you sit down with him LIKE GROWN UPS and tell him how much you've lost, how you're concerned about his health, that you're scared of being left on your own, that you're willing to help if he wants to try, but that…