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if you dislike seeing him as a child then quit doing it! respect his choices and let him try his own way. why assume your opinion is so much more valid than his? he has as much right to drink juice as you have to drink water. if he doesn't sign up to the same latest diet 'thing' as you then he's childish? i drink juice &…

option 6: chocolate!

1200? who wouldn't get fed up! 2 pounds in one week is a huge loss. if you expect more than that then you're always going to be p'd off at the end of a week. that's like complaining that you only won 1 million on the lottery.

your size saved you from getting involved with what is clearly a cruel to the point of crazy a-hole. imagine how unhappy you would eventually become if you'd ended up in a relationship with that POS.

they sound like great ideas for strengthening arms! are you getting your carer/s to do daily physio stretches on your arms & legs? i know it's a tedious business but it pays off in the long term.

i think maybe you need to get more help from the medical side. have you had any counselling? because the change in your life has been traumatic and it's a lot to expect of yourself to cope without any. meds can really help if you get the right ones at the right dose. are there any day centres that can cater to your needs?…

you're a brit? if so, you can get physio for free. the physio can teach you what exercises might help. why are you bed bound? would you be able to get out and about if you had the proper equipment in place? how much are you able to move? yeah, i ask a lot of questions.

bazinga.

i'm english.

oh dear... because ''utter twaddle'' was an entirely serious comment, not posted with tongue within a thousand miles of cheek, following a description of my serious reasons for seriously knowing better seriously. never mind!

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i feel the need to point out that i've owned dogs my entire life, i've trained for nosework, agility, obedience and manwork, and i have a qualification in dog behaviour and psychology before i say... utter twaddle!

your kids seeing how he treats you as their role model relationship is best for them? if your kids end up being emotionally abused or emotionally abusive, will you have been partly to blame? my daughter's grades went up when me & my ex were no longer in a toxic relationship, so it's pretty clear what it was doing to her.…

truth. and the best way to tire a dog is nosework. why? because the dog is using its brain. if you give a dog regular exercise and it still has too much energy, chances are you're not giving enough mental stimulation.

when i split with my ex, 10+ years ago, i made a conscious choice not to let any bf get too close to my kids. i did it because my mother dated an unpleasant creep when i lived at home and i wanted them to feel like home was a haven, but in hindsight it saved them a lot of heartbreak.

i think you look seriously cute in your bikini! i know it means nothing, because it's how YOU feel that matters, but your body is what a lot of women here are aiming for. sure, you can improve on it but don't for one minute think that makes you unattractive. if it helps, that feeling like you're not quite good enough for…

i think it's a bad idea. it's very easy for a bike to get pulled over or off course. plus, how much control do you really have over your dog in that situation? no matter how well trained your dog, you can't say for certain s/he will never react suddenly in an unexpected way. it's just not responsible to have a large,…

i have coursework to do but i can't get past the procrastination.

ok... this is complicated... i live a single life. i've happily lived a single life for most of the last ten years. but, recently, i don't feel single because of an online relationship. i guess it's a bit weird but it's comfortable for me right now. it fills my emotional/mental needs.

why are you abusing your body? if you go into this with the aim of skinny at any cost then you're going to regret it. thee's no way your body can repair the daily damage on those puny rations.

have you ever had any sort of therapy?

i'm up before 5am.

Usually pointless bickering relaxes me but tonight it's just not working. I must have something on my mind. I think that gym idiot getting in my personal space is to blame.

everyone has a whiff of crazy. ...unless they're too dumb to be.

that post is dumb. unless you're a mind reader, anyone can be fooled. especially as sometimes that person is fooling themselves too. how is it being a doormat to get dumped?

i like your attitude.

my favourite person is prob'ly imaginary.

oh noes! *cries* i live my life for the approval of random, narrow minded boys on the internet! and now i learn you don't approve of my body??!! my life is over. i may as well end it all. good bye cruel world!! :sad: etc.

''i'll look how i want to look, not how you think i should, thank you.''

it's my weekend to work. i'll miss the kidlet's karate competition.