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can we see your thighs?

i would've stopped and never gone swimming with him again. i'd have swum alone and never told him how far. i'm cranky and difficult that way.

I love you. Seriously.

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that's my plan. when she dos my induction i'll ask to see the bits i want to use. she said ''they only have 10kg and upwards in there!'' and i thought, i lift 11 stone grannies at work!

yeah, i know right? but my youngest does an hour of karate there twice a week , so i'm sat there waiting. and it's the toys, not the twerps that interest me. i've only got so much space at home.

comparing WOW to eating soup with a fork is a little harsh.

why isn't perusing dating sites as valid a hobby as minecraft?

i'm way nerdier than that!

i think you're overly picky. it's not a dating site. why does their face matter?

it's when you see something every day. like watching kids grow up. it takes outgrown pants for me to notice the boy has shot up three inches in a month.

green tea? chamomile tea? a quick walk? music?

are you saying that spending 3 hours straight pretending to be a warlock isn't cooler than checking messages & profiles between work, study & housework?

you don't remember? :cry:

utter rot. i've met fantastic men on dating sites. charming, intelligent and attractive.

i talk to people for weeks first. often months. occassionally years, if they live a long way away. i'm only going to meet a person who genuinely enjoys talking to me and isn't doing it only as a means to an end.

i do hide myself for a reason. initially. pics can come later. and, though you say it's pointless, i've had great results.

The expensive gifts thing is off putting, right? It places an unspoken burdon of expectation. a lot of people feel like you owe them something for it. I'm not for sale and i'd rather have a modest gift that came from the heart.

I would argue that nobody could job hunt 24/7 and remain sane. Even poor people need social interraction and time to unwind. He certainly earns plenty now, so it worked out ok for him.

I've dated men who were between jobs. These are tough times and it happens, and not just to losers.

Yes! He's lovely. Charming, attractive, fun and twisted in all the right ways. He'll make a lucky woman very happy some day.

uh huh. and the ability to compromise & understand other people's POVs helps when it comes to relationships.

well it'd be unfair for him to fly 2000+ miles only for me to make my excuses after ten minutes because he didn't smell right. :wink:

yes, you absolutely have the right to dictate how everyone else chooses to date. that's completely reasonable.

or performance art.

yes! poor guy was seriously self conscious about that. but he smelled yummy, so everything was fine.

ha! i totally get the smell thing. a guy has to smell right. a canadian flew over to meet me last year and i had him mail a worn t-shirt in advance, just to make sure.

and pricing! quality v value.

*vomits* on the attitude that women are all just after the man with the ££.

i'm printing that out for bedtime.