ashvegas99 Member

I am sorry. I'm glad you stood up to her though. I have a grandmother who is the same way, which I guess is why my dad is messed up. My grandpa, who was my mothers father and who I was closer to, passed away. I was all sad from that. We were just sitting there eating dinner one night and she just says to me, "Looks like…

You are right, I'm calling the doctor on Monday.

I'm not trying to be mean, I get terribly defensive, so I apologize.

Hello, I've tried just letting things go. Sometimes, this crap comes back up. It's a lot harder than you think to just shut it all out of my damn mind. Maybe I want to come on here and talk about because I'm having a bad day and want to just talk about my problems. I talk to my husband about it too. I just want to talk to…

I've been contemplating going to therapy.

One of the other things I do struggle with is whether they were being abusive or just ignorant. I know they were somewhat concerned about my health though.

Before you judge me, realize that all I'm trying to say here is that they were being hypocrites and putting all of their insecurities on me. I lived with them while I was going to school because they wouldn't let me move out and have my own life. Luckily, I had a job so I was able to buy things for myself to eat. To say…

I'm not trying to be a 'victim'. If only you knew how hard it was growing up that way. I can't just get over it. I'm sick of comments like that.

I am overwhelmed with the amount of love and support I have got today. But a few comments I am having trouble digesting. I am really trying to overcome this, but some of you never had to grow up in an environment like this. I know my parents loved me, but sometimes they were so mean to me. They have called me a snob just…

If they were so damned concerned with me, they would have helped me learn to eat better and exercise NOT ridicule me, but kept buying junk food and soda. They never tried to help me, even when I was on weight watchers. They helped pay for it, but they never changed their cooking and eating habits. Always had junk food on…

I'm really sorry. I know exactly how you feel. My parents have always criticized my weight. My mom has always been heavy and my dad is at a healthy weight. After we went dress shopping for one of my school dances, my mom told me to do crunches because my belly was big. My dad also called my mom and I chubby and it really…

I confess: 1.) That I am having a hard time making better food choices. As much as I love fruits and veggies, it drives me crazy eating it all of the time and I try to make time to splurge some. 2. I am scared of being alone and of people abandoning me for some odd reason. When my husband leaves to go overseas for…

Oh my goodness, girl you look great! You are truly an inspiration to all who want to lose weight! You go girl!

I think that is my problem.....I overestimate the calories I burn doing those games. It is really hard to tell how many you are actually burning. Maybe I should just stick with walking for now on.

LOL! I like those! I am an American and Welsh humor is always appreciated!

I try to eat as healthy as possible. You can see my diary if you wanna know more.

Thanks for all of the support guys! I forgot to add this to my original post, but I responded by saying that I wasn't pregnant, but fat. She kept on going though. I will use this for motivation. She will be chomping more on her words next time she sees me!

Oh believe me, I wanted to shoot her a bird so badly and call her a ***** so badly, but I didn't. My husband told me she looked super humiliated, which was enough for me I guess.

http://im.glogster.com/media/4/16/4/65/16046506.jpg Kurt Hummel because he is just awesome and is such a strong guy! I love him! http://blog.zap2it.com/frominsidethebox/kaitlyn-jenkins-bunheads-abcf.jpg Boo Jordan from Bunheads! She is sweet and she also has confidence issues like me. But she is such a strong girl!…

You are more than welcome to add me if you wish. I am willing to give you all the support you need! :) I am starting up myself as well! You can do this!!!! ((Hugs))

Great job! You look amazing girl! It gives me ton of inspiration! :-D

I am too. So I can adopt healthier habits for my child and have a healthy pregnancy.

Wow, you look so good! You are doing an amazing job! Keep it up!

35 min walk...around the mall!