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As others have said, you can't really lose that much weight in so few days... Of course you can still eat next to nothing for a few days (drink coffees to help coping with the loss of energy). But doing that for longer than a few days is pointless as you will binge/lose energy/mess with your metabolism. And since you are…

While it may not be as bad for me as it is for you, I usually throw the stuff I bought in the bin as soon as I get myself together again. I hate wasting money... So sometimes it helps avoiding buying sweet snacks because I know they will end up in the bin in the next 10 minutes. All the best to you!

I've gained so much (bad) weight by being lazy... Can't even believe it myself. Lots to lose, so I will try to do it (again) and hopefully keep the weight away this time.

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Don't tone it down, but I would say try to identify why the dates aren't working out with those people... And try to filter them out if you can before spending some of your precious time on a wasted date ;) Maybe try to be more picky or identify what happens with those people, why it fails? Look for patterns in the…

This is the most important piece of advice. Don't waste your time talking for weeks. As he said, meet within the first two weeks. Personally, I used to do it after 4-5 messages and the idea was to have a friendly pint with someone for 1 hour and see what happens, if conversation flows, if we have common interests, etc. Get…

Over sensitive? Perhaps too much for your own good because it is bound to happen again and again. Overreacted? Probably not. Plus you shouldn't care too much if you did or not since I assume he wouldn't describe himself as over sensitive, and thus shouldn't have been too affected by the experience.

This article was written by a man with a belly, for sure. Plus the study seems to mention "premature ejaculation" as a research topic, so might not be true always. The conclusion: "The mean BMI of premature ejaculators (24.9±3.4 kg m–2) was lower than the mean BMI of control (27.5±3.6 kg m–2; P<0.001). As the BMI…

I would say that - if anything - it is better to be flirty than not. If people want a nice polite friendly conversation they will just find one of their nice polite friends. Which you could come across as if you act as such, so it is not a bad idea to show there is potential for "more" than friendship. Arguably, the main…

That's why I'm a proponent of "contacting people you like regardless of gender". That said, I suppose people's time is better spent at the gym and shopping for designer clothes rather in front of the computer with online dating (given the ROI when you are deemed attractive). What really annoys me is that most people will…

I think people are perhaps too defensive on those websites, and most of us have been burnt before/don't want to waste our time... So we will really write people off for *anything*. Any spelling mistake, detail they reveal about themselves, choice of word, etc. Anything we can find that we dislike. I'm sure in truth there…

Your tone should probably also depends on the general tone of the website... It's worth looking at men/women profiles yourself and imagine which ones you would and wouldn't contact, and why - and try to do the same in your profile. The friend part... You don't have to play "fair" (the goal is to find a date after all), so…

Wouldn't "witholding sex on purpose in a LTR" count as a "passive aggressive" gesture? Seems to be the case to me. Or maybe their shower wasn't working If she feels gross and sweaty all the time.

I don't think I will ever get married personally. I'm not religious, and I don't have this "dream" of getting married some day either. I think the forever thing is nice, but I don't think that getting married would bring much more things into the relationship. I am not opposed to it, and don't hate it, though. Just not my…

Quite funny!

You can see the rating of your GP surgery by other people here - the people you are seeing do not seem very competent: http://www.nhs.uk/service-search I also doubt that reducing your daily intake by an additional 200 cals will suddenly solve all your problems, especially as you are supposed to reduce your intake the more…

I'm exaggerating a bit, of course... But the point - and the only thing we know - is that she is NOT having sex with him. Now, people might argue as much as they like that sex isn't a given, but neither is "being in a relationship with someone". So essentially you either find someone who is compatible with you (and wants…

The man didn't make it public, the woman did. It's a great idea to log it simply because you or the partner might not even be able to realise how little you are having sex with them, without doing that. Now the woman can't argue with the fact that they are not having enough sex. The guy can quantify how little sex they are…

Surely there must be a bank somewhere that offers bank accounts where withdrawal is only possible if the two partners sign for it (I even thought it was the case on joint accounts). My view is that you probably do not need a credit card to spend the $21,000 that you are saving, so good old crappy account with painful, in…

Everyone has now officially found someone! I confess I just want to chill out and relax. When is the weekend again?

"The Beards - You Should Consider Having Sex With a Bearded Man" ==> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3C5nE4UqqLk

Personally, I have never ever met anyone who wouldn't at least go on a date (or do "something") - although there is plenty to do where I live. Whether the person being invited or the activity becomes the "main" focus of the night probably depends on the situation... The only examples I have heard of people who don't go on…

I understand this is a "Glamour" article, so "women centric" (at no point in this article is there any mention of men's feelings on the matter - I doubt the numbers would be that high for men... see below). Now, here is the interesting point: "73 percent of single women said they often can't even tell whether they've been…

Good advice already, and I think you sound dismissive at times. "If our weekends dont match it very likely wont work. It is what it is." "I'm sometimes busy. You do it all and tell me you aren't." "You wont know unless you ask. Thats how I roll." I believe your profile should express all the ideas in a "positive" manner so…

I think people here are confusing "contact" and "communication". If a person is interested in you, they will communicate with you but not necessarily be the first to contact you. I like women who don't chase though... They do not chose males actively, only passively so they generally are less picky and an easier target…

As if individuals were always going be in a position to "react intelligently" to fast food propaganda, ease-of-access, poverty, depression and corporate lobbying. This idea that "people should know better" coming from the USA - I should remind you with one of the most terrible/expensive for the individual education system…

I tend to eat a lot when really tired as well. I was basically busy all the time during the last 4 months, and I've packed a lot of weight. For me, the problem is that tiredness breaks my willpower completely (I will make more bad decisions), and also I find some comfort in food when really tired. Two things: - If you are…

These were better times indeed, when women knew their place and would only speak when told to. Now we have to contend with idiotic topics like this one.

I suppose chasing "too much" is wrong for either sex, and can lead to doubts. The only thing I would say is: don't become a creep. I've heard of women stalking dates at their work, etc. to "talk to them" after only a couple of dates. Now that is obviously "too much" chasing. Probably men do this too. To give you my…