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Definitely don't feel guilty about going to the appointment. You're probably more sick right now than he is. Take care of yourself so you can take care of others. Good luck with everything. You can do this.

I'm in college right now and I can tell you that when it's finals time nothing else matters to me, including what goes in my mouth. Look health is important, but frankly eating not-so-great for one week or two isn't going to ruin your goals long term. But it sounds like this has been taking away your focus from your…

Thanks :)

My boyfriend is incredibly honest too. I kind of had the same feeling a couple of years ago when I gained a lot of weight. But then one day it became clear why he was less physically interested. I had lost my confidence. I stopped acting the same way I did before and stopped initiating anything myself. Once I realized that…

You mentioned you'd like to be with someone who would go to dance classes, marathons, etc with you. Try going to some active group activities in your area (like yoga!) and meet guys there. It's likely you'll find some men there that they will be more focused on being healthy rather than thin. And then you'll have someone…

I'm Becca. I'm 21 yrs old. I'm currently at 225lbs. I know I need a short term goal, but my long-term goal is around 140-150. This is actually my first day at MFP and I'm excited to start getting back to a healthy weight. Just nervous because I've had very eating disordered behavior in the past and juggling that with…

I also buy bad food because of the cheaper price! No worries. :) (Life of a college student)

Telling my boyfriend of a few years my weight was one of the most liberating things in my life.