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Tickle fight.

Double-date?

The depo shot is the devil - ruined 3 years of maintaining an 80-pound weight for me. 1. It lingers, beware. I know it has already affected you, but remember that you will have to counteract it passed the 3 months it's supposed to be effective. 2. Never get it again! 3. Don't let it ruin all birth control for you - try the…

We were allowed to use whips? Ffs. No.

Yup, with a bat.

Tour my college, where there are no parent/teacher conferences.

Pickpocket?

Spank.

I feel you - after three years of maintaining I just tacked on my 80 pounds again. I disagree with what anyone says about needing to "do the proper program," because whatever method happens to work for you can be 100% different from what works for someone else. There are a billion different routes to take, and a billion…

@ Bakemma - I'd love to chat with you about some of the issues I would likely encounter that most people wouldn't expect, like the vitamins and whatnot. My surgeon is giving me the choice between the classic bypass and a gastric sleeve (NOT the lapband) and I'm having trouble choosing between the two. The sleeve has fewer…

That's really nice for you. For me, it kickstarted old habits pretty drastically. I'm aware that it wasn't all the birth control, but it definitely set things in motion for me to gain again and I wish that my doctor had warned me about the depo shot specifically before giving it to me. It is not the same as most pills, and…

Brutal but honest. Maybe I'll never have a fit life without it. It's kind of a toss up, I guess. I do understand what you're saying though. I appreciate the concern. My being 18 probably contributes to my recklessness, and I'm sure that looks pretty bad. There's a good chance I'll regret it, I'm sure.

I don't have a problem with sugar. I'd bang sugar.

I'm not complaining about your message, I'm just not digging the delivery :P Can you blame me?

That actually sounded really defensive >> I guess my whole point was, to soften it, I welcome your opinion but please do be /nicer/ about it, yeah? Maybe consider the fact that I have done years of research? That I have worked at it? And perhaps you're still very against surgery. And that's okay. My mom is too, but even…

Well this has unfortunately been overwhelmingly negative. I understand that people can feel very strongly about bariatric surgery, but I see absolutely no reason to blatantly be a **** about it to someone who is considering that as an option (ahem, Mikenelson.) To clarify a few things - 1. I HAVE made up my mind about…

I had considered trying to lose weight again without surgery. I am mostly concerned that I will never be able to breach my 180 plateau that way. On top of that, losing a significant amount of weight for a second time seems to me like it will be even more difficult than it was the first time, especially given that (which I…