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I have full custody of my kids and would be a hypocrite if I didn't accept the same. Sometimes I think I would prefer them to have full custody then there's no baby momma drama.

I've taken them, I've sent them, I've deleted them. Guess it just depends. I haven't done it often but I have done it. :wink:

I can totally relate. I'm 34, divorced for 6 yrs w/ 2 children. I don't have a problem 'meeting' guys, I have a problem w/ meeting guys that are seriously ready for a relationship / marriage. I have settled once and refuse to do it again, so when it start seeming like they aren't 'ready', I've learned to let go and keep it…

I guess mine are about the same. I loved the looks I've recv'd from exes as they tried to pick their mouths up off the floor! Can't wait to get a little bit smaller so I can reactivate my FB page and post that "DAMN, look at Nesha" pic!

I lose 20 lbs w/out working out. Just stayed under my daily calories. But I wasn't toning up so I started working out.

Made first move when I saw a guy that I found attractive (working on it though.) :blushing:

They are great for facials. Makes the skin amazingly soft.

I try to drink 8+ cups a day. Not so much for the weight loss part but for the sodium. I've recently been taken off my b/p meds and I don't want to have to go back to them. I drink lots of water to flush out some of the salt intake. I don't plan to give up seasoning my food, so water it is!

I use to have a couple but most of the cute ones are married and the others have someone. Once Valentines Day rolled around and all these profile pics started changing and displaying pics of them w/ their significant others, I decided to drop the 'crushes' and stick to just getting healthy and weight loss. :ohwell:

---I no longer have a pudgy stomach. ---My kids MOVE OUT. (yes, I said it and NO, I'm not a bad mommy!! lol) ---I'm living in the south again.

It helps me keep my job. I believe I would probably be fired if they caught me sleeping again.

I don't know her but it's really nice for you to look for her and hope someone is this sweet to look for me if I go missing. :cry:

Totally agree w/ UponThisRock. I'm so not sure why people even set their goals at 1200!??? If you are working out and only taking in 1200 cals, you will ALWAYS be hungry.

I lost 20 lbs and LOTS of inches and still have a big butt. It really is all about the genes and how you are built up. She's not the only one in her family w/ curves and a butt. She's just the one that is KNOWN for hers.

Really?? I have seen BROTHERS with some of the most HIDEOUSLY UGLY and SKINNY white women on this planet. All BROTHERS don't want a woman w/ a big butt (such a stereo type). Matter of fact, I see some WHITE men on here saying they like her butt as well AND I've been hit on by WHITE men that like MINE. And to say "she…

Not sure who watches the show but she went to a doctor and he provided it was REAL. And if you look at her sisters, they have butts as well. I'm small up top but my AZZ is colossal! And the more weight I gain, my butt and hips continues to grow (in pretty much JUST that area.) I never had to do squats or lunges and my butt…

My new motivational Monokini!!! Summer is my favorite season, so I always have LOTS of nice summer clothes, but never rocked a small swimsuit before.

Wow, as detailed and well written as this article is, I still don't want to do it!!! lol Just the fact I know it's really easy to transfer bacteria to my vaginal region AND the fact that stuff doesn't feel good coming OUT of it, I really don't want something going UP it!! lbvs

My starting weight was 182, now 163. I have my ticker set for 160 but don't want to go under 150. LOVE my curves and don't want to give them up. I looked EXTREMELY skinny at 130.

I'm hoping you're not just 'annoyed' by this because you are single and don't have the same thing going on. When I was in a relationship, we communicated often as well, sometimes about nothing.

I'm going thru withdrawal now so I can't 'accurately' answer this. But once I finally 'take care of it', I'm sure there will be another thread like this! Lol

Female Age 33 Aurora, IL (outside of Chicago) Men 30 - 43 Willing to relocate

Not sure who wrote this article but THEY are lying if they say they NEVER have some type junk food. Even if you don't have a full cheat day but enjoy a slice of cake at a bday party, it's cheating. I'm not depriving myself of anything. I know when to stop and I know how important exercising is. Life is too short to not…

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OH, can't forget Shemar!!!

YES, YES, and YES!!!!!!!

Why get married then??? I was at church last Sunday and the Pastor was speaking to the men. He was talking about being a 'player' and said "A real player isn't a man that can have 30 women but 1 woman that he can satisfy for 30 years." If people put more effort into pleasing / satisfying the person they have vowed to love,…

Very interesting question. I have always been 'open-minded' when it comes to dating. If a man catches my attention, I don't pull out a checklist to make sure he meets certain 'criteria'. However, with that being said, I don't really think size matters when it comes to real attraction. He doesn't have to be a certain…

[/quote] "some parents (like myself) don't vaccinate for chicken pox." [/quote] [/quote] "My kids get every other shot, just not the chicken pox one :)" [/quote] Getting chicken pox as a kid is bad but getting them as an adult could be deadly. It has WAY more side effects on adults. I had them as a kid, only because there…

Pediasure and Pedialyte. I would push these two things on him all day. The Pediasure has protein and other things that would be the same as a meal replacement for kids that don't typically eat healthy. It comes in really great flavors and tastes REALLY good. If you get them really cold, it can taste like a milk shake.…