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so does that mean that every dude who wants to put it in the poop shoot is also "bi"?

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id say, i look damn good as a nerd!

i never get hit on in bars... yet all my friends do (and believe me when i say i AM NOT the ugly friend) so i feel your pain. i was told its a vibe i give off and was told i get checked out all the time but i just dont notice (the hubs told me this one)

nutella, peanut butter s'mores are TO DIE FOR!!!

and maybe to some heavier people thats true, but not to all. and it may seem trivial, but believe me when i tell you, its not. the way a person views themselves is vitally important in regards to mental and physical health. i would never say it were trivial to a person who struggles with body image and because of that has…

this is isnt really a fair statement. you dont personally know how they view themselves so to say that its annoying is hurtful to those with and without weight issues. everyone has self-esteem and without knowing exactly how they feel or living every moment of thier lives, saying a persons unhappiness with themselves is…

same here, neither of us close it, and it doesnt bother me either.

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i love me, and thats all that matters. beauty is in the eye of the beholder and to each his/her own. i know what i think is sexy and what my goal is. i used to feel the need to think one body type was sexy over another, but then i realized that i dont know these people. i dont know what drives their actions or fuels their…

Thats great! Especially with those physical impairments! Way to go!

no offense but if your asking people for help, and someone with knowledge, experience, and legit studies for you to see, offers their knowledge, wouldnt it make more sense to at least check out the information? just my thoughts...

bumping for the method and good information.

i also think its a good idea to eat your goal weight cals, it will help you lose weight while maintaining most of your lean muscle AND it gets you in the habit of knowing what your portion sizes will look like once you reach your goal weight.

sadly, trolls come in all shapes and sizes... but as far as your diary, people dont know that perhaps certain food items are better then what you would have chosen, or that staying within a calorie range is an achievement, not to mention that its possible you cant afford all "healthy" choices. dont fret it honey. you're…

actually, before i started my diet i was never a chocolate girl. i always thought it was so weird because apparently women "love" chocolate! now, its all i can think about! and i crave it like crazy!

i actually am very "touchy" as people would say and when i started to think about it, i thought it may have some to do with the bc. glad to see someone else confirm this.

it may be a good idea to up your cals to maintenance for the week. it wont derail your progress and you can mentally relax. its a win win. :flowerforyou: info in this thread may be helpful to you…

i am 5'7.5" and weigh 185. very close to you and i eat roughly 1700-2000 cals a day depending on exercise. i am sedentary. and i still lose every week. try not to stress about it. :flowerforyou:

i buy 100 cal fudgesicles... helps my chocolate cravings, which i didnt seem to have till i started trying to make healthier choices... and to that i say, wtf?! :grumble:

i love my sexy back and the fact that even tho i have gained about 30 lbs, my hip to waist ratio is STILL .7!!! sexy as hell i tell ya! no wonder the hubs still cant keep his hands off me :happy:

cheesecake, fruit candies, almost any baked good... and barbeque chips. but most of all, cheesecake... and i make the best lemon cheesecake...

<--- 5'7.5" and was in a 9/10/11 depending on the pants...

way to go your gorgeous people, you! i started my second run of weight lost and going to do my bmr due to the fact that the last time i lost weight, i lost MORE around my bmr until i went down to 1200 and then it became IMPOSSIBLE to lose any more! this time, i will always remember, there is a reason that you must eat to…

if we r going there.... Corinthians 7:12-14 To the rest I say (I, not the Lord) that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her. If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him. For the…

im pretty sure some dude on a reality show did that... :sick:

would i wear it? no. not now anyways. but when your spouse brings home an article of clothing he thinks looks good, feel proud. he wants to show you off! now anywhere else i would think be a bit inappropriate, but a night club, ive seen men who wear more inappropriate attire! you cant see your woo-ha, or your other assets.…

this is amazing! you say you have only lost 7 but it looks as if you have lost much more! congrats on the weight loss and body transformation! keep it up!

its not about being stupid, it about spreading incorrect/incomplete information. and even so, if someone didnt understand what another person "means" does not make them stupid

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