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I feel it is important to acknowledge people individually for their responses, so I will also respond to yours :) I never wanted to "play this game" with him. I begged him to stop...but he needed validity so I tried to give him numbers that I thought were valid, but he wanted me to rate him a 5-8....so he got angered with…

:) Thank you so much!!! And I know/agree. He did choose me...and I am NO.1!!!! YAY!!! I never thought about it like that, I guess :) thank you so much for your input :)))) You guys have made me cry! lol!! :) thank you for your support, everyone!!!!!

Ahahahah! Soo true!! lol :)

Ahahahaha!! So true!!

I don't think I'm following. I never asked him to rate me. He kept saying "rate me, what am I, etc" and then I responded with 10, but then he snapped at me so I responded with a 9, he then snapped at me, so I responded with a 7, 5, and 4. He kept going on and on and yelling at me because "I wasn't rating him…

No, he works 3am-9am or 5am-12pm and I work 3pm-11pm. We work opposite shifts which was why he was going to bed at 9pm and I wasn't (I never go to bed with him at the same time...well, rarely). I didn't not go to bed with him because of what was said (which by the way, obviously turned into an argument), I just wasn't…

Thank you so much for your time :) I appreciate your POV and your response :) I agree ;)

Thank you so much!! I'm sorry your relationship didn't work out, but it sounds like you're stronger and are going to do awesomely :) thank you for your time and appreciation for my question :) and yes, this is a "recent" obsession with looks since he actually started working out with me...I've been hitting the gym for…

jofjltncb6Incorrect. I want/welcome all answers. I got one "break up" and one telling me that wedding at 15 (she was incorrect by the way) was "my first mistake." The other responses I've received hold/have actual validity and have offered help even though 3/4 responses have been more "soft: (friendly) than the other, that…

Thanks, MyFoodGod! That makes me feel good inside :) lol. I appreciate your support and input :) Thank you...so, so, much :)

Thanks, calibriintx! I appreciate your POV. I think that's how my husband thinks/sees it, I just think about it/see it differently, I guess. Idk..But thanks for your input! :)

Thanks Joadan and Sami!!! I appreciate your support and valid input! Yes, Sami, he is more of a "logical thinker" and I'm more of a "romantic," but I was still upset and he felt I wasn't validated....he got upset that I was upset at his "rating" of me, but all feelings are valid; his and mine. I understand that I may not…

Mia - All you replied with was wedding at 15 was my first mistake. I clarified this confusion and your response is still invalid. I understand if you're response is as mine was (angered, annoyed, sad, depressed, etc ---- typically people are more on the angered and judgmental side if they do not know the couple, etc -- but…

Judgement is NOT what I reached out for.

Thank you for your support and motivation. This is meant to be a MOTIVATIONAL AND SUPPORTIVE blog; aka, nonjudgmental, but offers support (aka, aid) and motivation where necessary. No, we did not wed at 15, we've been together since we were 15. We wed when we were 23. Neither of the above posts are what should be…

Thank you for your support and motivation.