SweetDorothySweat Member

That's so cute and unique. =D Mine's not very cute. lol I often stretch my arms/back while using the restroom in the mornings. I also cannot sleep without a blanket on me, even if it's hot.

I was super stressed yesterday about my bf losing his job and I binged on 2 bags of peach gummies and a twix. I just can't see the upside of other areas of my life right now, so it makes me seem to not care as much about my fitness goals. I literally left home at 9pm, drove across town to the grocery store and got candy.…

fyi you can change your calories and macro nutrients (protien, carbs, fat, sugar) on mfp to your liking too. Go to home, then goals, then change then customize, then set them how you like.

http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/how-to-estimate-maintenance-caloric-intake.html http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/the-fundamentals-of-fat-loss-diets-part-1.html

Hey, I'm Dorothy. Thanks for that. Maybe I can start to think of it that way too. I usually feel so guilty after binging that it ruins my day/week.

Thanks for your comment. I appreciate it..I just hope he isn't as selfish as people tell me. I hope I'm not living in a dream world . I feel so ****ty about this.

I feel this way too, especially now that so many people said it. I am going to try talking to him about it, but I don't know what good that will do if he doesn't care. Worth a shot. Thanks though, and you weren't judgemental. I spilled the beans and alot of people had something to say about his selfishness. Contemplating…

I have suggested that too. I hope to visit some of them this summer, especially Denver and Grand Junction to see if we like them. :)

Well, he isn't opposed to the idea of moving to San Antonio since it's close to Austin. So that's good that he will compromise. I'd rather go somewhere new cause I love adventure and mountains and oceans... but it will be easier going there since we don't have to visit first to see if we like it. I don't want to leave…

This is so very true. and hearing everyone's opinion on the matter really made me realize that I shouldn't move back to Austin, and that it should be more of a compromise and also that if he makes any other inconsiderate moveslike this I should just leave him. But everything is harder when you want your daughter to be with…

Thanks. That is good advice. And I will run that by him. Someone else said San Antonio, and I like it there, so maybe we can do that.

That's a good idea. I will run it past him. =)

We moved to Durango for a job that he ended up hating and kept for a month. He doesn't move alot though. He is just 25 and we both lived in Austin for 5years so our friends are there and my family, not his, they are in west tx. He currently works as teller at a bank and doesn't like it much. I work as a nanny for a great…

He says there are also more job opportunities in which you can work your way up there..which is true. Like any large city!

Yes, I was hysterical for weeks.

I agree. I guess since it happened months before he and I met, it doesn't seem as real to him as it does me. But I'd be lying if I said it didn't hurt me that he wants to go THERE so badly instead of finding a new place.

Thank you, and I AM much better, I did years of counseling etc. He says he understands (which he can't possibly understand, right?) but he promises that he will keep me safe or get that guy if he ever sees him etc. But it's not about that, it's more about me having to run from my car to the door everyday because I was…

I know, we realized this a while back, in November when we got here actually and were pretty upset about it. But we have a daughter, so legally neither of us can move without permission. Ha! I already know how this goes down though, we talk about other places besides Austin that we can move for a few months, we TRY to save…

That's sweet and same here. I will go to the moon, but I don't like being told I must or it's over.

Yeah, I sure as hell didn't like that either. I said, um, is this an ultimatum? He said "no, but you keep saying **** that makes it sound like we will be here for longer." Then I assured him that we could move when we have saved and more importantly found a place to go. He really wants to go back to Austin, but I have a…

he simply doesn't like how people in small towns are not in the how with music and movies shows, etc. He likes being able to go to various stores instead of only having a few choices. He just doesn;t like small towns aparently.

He says sometime I refer to our daughter being older and doing things like skiing here and stuff. I disliked Austin and don't want to go back to any huge crime infested city again, but I will for him.

He convinced me to move to Durango, CO in November and has hated it from the first week. We came from Austin, Tx. and he misses the big city and the live music. I however do not miss it at all. I'd live in the mountains in a secluded town forever if it were up to me. But will gladly leave WHEN WE CAN since he hates it.

I am confident that this is meant as a compliment. Kind of like when my bro in law told me I didn't have "pregnant fingers" anymore. You should just take it for what it is meant to be since they are too ignorant to come up with a better way of telling you they are happy for you.

LOL Thanks for that. :)

=D Hahaha My boyfriend says those are his!

Come on people!! Keep the party going!! I am at work topless right now! What are you doing for fun?!? lol (I'm kidding) Let's have some light hearted conversation people, that's what the "fun" section of our forum is for, right? So what are your favorite postions? ...to work out in of coarse!

Of coarse hun! It's a party, the more the merrier!! Topless makes us even gayer!! Pun intended. ;)

Yep, that or a paid vacation like me! hehe

Hey! We workout VERY alike! That said, I like your style, and I am SO excited to try this workout today! Thanks for sharing it with me. =) I do most of that, but haven't focused on the lower body/back in the same way that you do, so I am psyched to try it out. I also started running a few weeks ago and am up to 2 miles a…