EVERYTHING can be taken in a positive light or a negative one. Think about "whatever"... if you HEAR it followed by what appears to be an eye roll it's agrivating but if you say it after your friend asks you which color looks better then you know what I am talking about. "Have you lost weight?" is no different, neither is…
YES! Of course we do. BUT... what they think is just one opinion out of many. The squeeky wheel. Have you ever been in a store where you are having a delightful expirience but someone comes in storming mad? You probably didn't say anything to the worker who was "taking it in the shorts" because you could see that he/she…