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  • AngieViolet
    AngieViolet Posts: 230 Member
    I'm sorry that you ended up in the ER BUT Yay referral. I'm prone to depression, and the system surely doesn't understand that one simple "blow off" from a lame office employee can literally dictate recovery or slipping further away. I'm praying for you Vikki. Please let us know when you have your appointment!
  • GalgoMomAnita
    GalgoMomAnita Posts: 84 Member
    I'm really glad you went into the ER, and I'm sorry you're hurting so much - I really feel for you. Don't hesitate to go back if you feel you need to. Deep down, you're a very strong person to have come so far. Do what you can to dig down and find that strength. I know when I am very depressed I feel like I'm in the bottom of a deep well. I can look up and see it's bright somewhere, but everything around me feels cold and dark. But it's always temporary - better days will come your way with help <3
  • KarlaYP
    KarlaYP Posts: 4,436 Member
    You did the right thing! Keep doing it too, when you feel you need to! Maybe someone will get the message that you're seriously needing help, and not blow you off! I'm so glad you went! Keep us updated on how you are, please! Sometimes it can help just to come here and let it all out when you feel you need to! Hugs for you! :blush:
  • Wonderwomanvik
    Wonderwomanvik Posts: 2,932 Member
    Thank you all for your kind words and support.
  • Tawnykakers1
    Tawnykakers1 Posts: 206 Member
    Wonderwomanvic- Love the name change! You did what you needed to do and got that referral! Keep going wonderwoman!!!
  • Wonderwomanvik
    Wonderwomanvik Posts: 2,932 Member
    Thank you.
  • Wonderwomanvik
    Wonderwomanvik Posts: 2,932 Member
    I received a call from a social worker at the college. Apparently whenever a student goes to the ER, they get a report. She wants to meet with me Monday to see what the school can do to help and also find community resources.
    A step in the right direction.
  • Wonderwomanvik
    Wonderwomanvik Posts: 2,932 Member
    Also... I've started stress eating. And it hurts!!!!!
  • cmchandler74
    cmchandler74 Posts: 507 Member
    Hang in there! Sounds like you've got some great help headed your way.
  • KarlaYP
    KarlaYP Posts: 4,436 Member
    Small blessings! What a great service your college provides! Hang in there!
  • GalgoMomAnita
    GalgoMomAnita Posts: 84 Member
    I'm glad the school is helping out - please do take advantage of anything they may offer - one on one counseling, groups, etc. I still vote for exercise as it will likely help with the stress eating, too. You're doing all the right things to get help :)
  • kimgravitt3
    kimgravitt3 Posts: 186 Member
    I have suffered from depression for years, off and on. I always know when it's time to go back on medication. I take a very mild anti-depressant and it has been a lifesaver for me. I also visit a therapist from time to time when I feel the need. Fortunately, that need doesn't arise too often. I'm glad you are reaching out and getting the help you deserve. You are a great person and deserve only the best! I'm proud of everything you have accomplished these last months.
  • Wonderwomanvik
    Wonderwomanvik Posts: 2,932 Member
    Thank you. Sometimes I feel like I'm doing everything wrong.
  • anbrdr
    anbrdr Posts: 619 Member
    Look how far you've come and what all you've done in the last half-year! Kicking *kitten* on tests, keeping your logging up, and your total pounds lost. You have a lot to be proud of, woman! Congrats to you!
  • Wonderwomanvik
    Wonderwomanvik Posts: 2,932 Member
    Thank you. I appreciate all of the support you've given me. I wouldn't have made it this far without you guys.
    I think exercise has something to do with it. I stopped going to the gym about a month ago because I had got my tattoo finished. I've found it hard to get the motivation to go back.
    A lot of stress lately too.

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