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  • kpk54
    kpk54 Posts: 4,474 Member
    I hope you are doing OK. It's a holiday a something came up that reminded of my dear deceased Mom. It will be 10 years. I smile more often now with the memories than I did a few years ago.

    Hope you're doing ok today. I've been thinking of you.
  • msfutureskinnyminnie
    msfutureskinnyminnie Posts: 65 Member
    Thanks KpK....Spend time with my dad and brothers ....lots of crying today ...funeral next weekend :'(:'(
  • bjwoodzy
    bjwoodzy Posts: 593 Member
    I wish I could say something that could help ease your pain and I'm sure I'd be a wreck too, if it was my mother, so I will only say I'm terribly sorry for your heartbreak. Take care of yourself and don't be afraid to lean on close friends and others at this time, if they offer it. It won't make you any less strong. I promise. Hugs.
  • msfutureskinnyminnie
    msfutureskinnyminnie Posts: 65 Member
    Thank you so much bjwoodzy
  • bjwoodzy
    bjwoodzy Posts: 593 Member
    <3
  • msfutureskinnyminnie
    msfutureskinnyminnie Posts: 65 Member
    I have an appt this week to see a professional because I am depressed and not much of an appetite
  • Alaplum
    Alaplum Posts: 169 Member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself the best you can during your time of grief.
  • AlexandraCarlyle
    AlexandraCarlyle Posts: 1,603 Member
    msfutureskinnyminnie wrote: »
    I have an appt this week to see a professional because I am depressed and not much of an appetite

    Best possible thing you could be doing, well done.

    Sometimes it's a professional we need, to give us a handle on how to cope, and it's the ideal solution.
    Be well, take care.
  • bjwoodzy
    bjwoodzy Posts: 593 Member
    I agree. Professional help would be a great way to let things out and see you through the grieving process.
  • nvmomketo
    nvmomketo Posts: 12,019 Member
    I too wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. I hope your appointment this week is helpful to you.

    Best wishes.
  • msfutureskinnyminnie
    msfutureskinnyminnie Posts: 65 Member
    Thanks Ladies-I appreciate the support -everyone is awesome-thanks again
  • msfutureskinnyminnie
    msfutureskinnyminnie Posts: 65 Member
    Today is my mom's funeral :'(:'(:'(:'(
  • kpk54
    kpk54 Posts: 4,474 Member
    <3<3<3 The time after can be difficult. Not just today but for however long afterwards. After the funeral tends to be the time many think it is now time to carry on with your life just as your Mom would "want" or you "should". Be with family and friends.

    Grief is not something you go around or go over. You have to go through it. Take your time.
  • AlexandraCarlyle
    AlexandraCarlyle Posts: 1,603 Member
    msfutureskinnyminnie wrote: »
    Today is my mom's funeral :'(:'(:'(:'(

    All the best to you. Thinking of you... <3
  • suzqtme
    suzqtme Posts: 322 Member
    I just want to say I'm so sorry for your loss. There are so many good suggestions here from those who have been in your shoes. All I can say is grief has its own timetable. We can only do the best we can for ourselves while its with us.
  • macchiatto
    macchiatto Posts: 2,890 Member
    I'm not sure how I missed this thread earlier, but I am so sorry for your loss.
  • bametels
    bametels Posts: 950 Member
    I hope that your memories of her will help you to heal from your loss.
  • ms_smartypants
    ms_smartypants Posts: 8,278 Member
    What a beautiful ceremony Allison....RIP Mary
  • msfutureskinnyminnie
    msfutureskinnyminnie Posts: 65 Member
    Thanks Everyone ....Megan I was glad you were there by my side and yes it was a beautiful ceremony
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