Naughty November: Weigh in and accountability thread
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Antiopelle wrote: »cayenne_007 wrote: »RunninCurmudgin wrote: »Antiopelle wrote: »RunninCurmudgin wrote: »49, 160cm (5'3")
GW: 59kg / 130 lbs
CW: 65.3 kg / 144 lbs
Nov 1 - 65.5kg / 144.4 lbs
Nov 7 - 65.5 kg / 144.4 lbs
Nov 11 - 65.4 kg / 144.2 lbs
Nov 18 - 66.2 kg / 145.9 lbs
Nov 21 - 65.5 kg / 144.4 lbs
Well so much for that "easy" goal to lose a few pounds a month. I have lost maybe 1 lb over 3 months.
I logged, exercised, ate and drank in moderation - and my weight really didn't change much at all. It really wasn't worth the mental stress.
Just for the hell of it - I have signed up for Noom (because I am a CNN addict at the moment due to Impeachment and they keep on advertising.. it worked). Has anyone else tried it?
I am going to do my logging there for the next while to see if I do any better with "personalized coaching", and I will let you know what I find... If you have any questions regarding the program, ask them in a few weeks and I can let you know what I think.
Also I am scheduled to go in for a physical in January to see how my bloodwork looks and to get my shingles vaccine since I am now 50 and even if I am fit and active apparently SHINGLES DOESN'T CARE (Again - damn CNN and their non-stop pharmaceutical advertisements!!)
KEEP AT IT EVERYONE!
Are you eating at the deficit, and if so, do you add your activity calories to your goal? Maybe you need to adjust just a little bit to get a deficit?
And look at it this way: if you didn't put in the effort, you probably would have gained a bit and now you haven't AND you have more data to know what to day in the future
You are right - I think that I am, but the math isn't working so I must not be doing it correctly / accurately enough.
That is why I am curious to see how different my results are when someone is combing through my entries on a daily basis (Noom), and how much of a difference it makes - AND - at what point does the pain associated with doing this overcome my desire to lose 10 vanity pounds.
I know I HATE weighing each portion, for example, but this is probably where trouble lies (eating more than I am estimating).
I HATE being "that person" at restaurants who nit picks and special orders every item - and if I am at a business lunch or dinner, I will not do this because I do not want to be perceived to be a high maintenance prima donna when I am out with a customer (lunch should be about THEM - I would feel like a total *kitten* being out with an overweight customer who just ordered fries, then spending 5 minutes explaining to the server how to prepare my skinny meal).
I HATE not having a glass of wine with dinner a few times a week..
And so on - do I really want to give these things up for the 10 lbs? Time to decide...
The funny thing re: your comment of weight gain - I have maintained roughly this weight for 4 years (144 - 146 lbs) and before that, I maintained roughly the same weight ever since I can remember - 30+ years (130 - 135 lbs). So no, I really don't think I would have gained if I hadn't been tracking. I do believe in calories in/out, but somehow even when I don't track, my body / appetite seems to manage itself (the gain occurred when I first moved in with my Husband and life underwent many changes).
So very much this -
"I HATE being "that person" at restaurants who nit picks and special orders every item - and if I am at a business lunch or dinner, I will not do this because I do not want to be perceived to be a high maintenance prima donna when I am out with a customer (lunch should be about THEM - I would feel like a total *kitten* being out with an overweight customer who just ordered fries, then spending 5 minutes explaining to the server how to prepare my skinny meal)." My mom orders like this and it's beyond annoying....if you're going to eat out, bank up a few calories and stick with smaller portions. It's miserable to eat out with someone that screws up their face when they order and complains about lack of 'healthy' options.
Yes I know, this is also why it is so difficult to be open about weight loss. I don’t want it out in the open and indeed be a diva when ordering. I’ve been at it for so long now that I know what to order without being picky. I have less problems with leaving some on my plate and I have a whole list of excuses why I don’t order or finish something.
Still, it is an exercise in willpower every time!
Exactly! I generally either split a plate with my bf or box up half for lunch the next day.... started that habit in my 20s simply because I was BROKE and eating out was such a splurge. LOL! I need to stick to my 'broke girl' habits.4 -
Height: 176cm (5'9")
SW this month: 66kg (145,51lbs) (Stable since 2months)
BMI: 21,3
Goals:
1) Start losing very slowly again: down 0.5-1kg by the end of the month would already be good
Yeah, no: up by 1kg (2.2 lbs)
2) Track better: been having a couple of days without any tracking and feel myself slipping
Definitely needs improvement... Lots of missing days.
3) I'm going to start using the "last-7 days" average my app gives me to track weight; so I see less of misleading fluctuations
4 November: 66kg (145,51lbs) (7day average)
11 November: 66,4kg (146,39lbs) - 7day average
19 November: 66,8kg (147,27lbs) - 7day average
26 November: 66,9kg (147,49lbs) - 7 day average
Steady incline... if only it was in the other direction! I thought I'd been eating better again but can't check because I haven't been logging. It's just impossible to do with all the eating out I've been doing lately... Today again: belated bday lunch + dinner at a friend. I can't believe I gained nearly a whole kilo this month... quite the opposite of what I had in mind with goal #1. I also measured yesterday and seem to have gained a cm on the waist and on the thighs. Yet somehow, I'm not hugely devastated. Only a minor setback, I can rectify this!
For those following along with my love life: the High Tea date went very well; he thought it was an excellent idea and we stuffed ourselves all afternoon. It may have been the lack of booze though, but I didn't feel much spark. He's cute, charming, smart and friendly and yet...nothing! Will repeat the date but with alcohol and see if that causes a difference. Makes for quite the interesting experiment.
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Antiopelle wrote: »cayenne_007 wrote: »RunninCurmudgin wrote: »Antiopelle wrote: »RunninCurmudgin wrote: »49, 160cm (5'3")
GW: 59kg / 130 lbs
CW: 65.3 kg / 144 lbs
Nov 1 - 65.5kg / 144.4 lbs
Nov 7 - 65.5 kg / 144.4 lbs
Nov 11 - 65.4 kg / 144.2 lbs
Nov 18 - 66.2 kg / 145.9 lbs
Nov 21 - 65.5 kg / 144.4 lbs
Well so much for that "easy" goal to lose a few pounds a month. I have lost maybe 1 lb over 3 months.
I logged, exercised, ate and drank in moderation - and my weight really didn't change much at all. It really wasn't worth the mental stress.
Just for the hell of it - I have signed up for Noom (because I am a CNN addict at the moment due to Impeachment and they keep on advertising.. it worked). Has anyone else tried it?
I am going to do my logging there for the next while to see if I do any better with "personalized coaching", and I will let you know what I find... If you have any questions regarding the program, ask them in a few weeks and I can let you know what I think.
Also I am scheduled to go in for a physical in January to see how my bloodwork looks and to get my shingles vaccine since I am now 50 and even if I am fit and active apparently SHINGLES DOESN'T CARE (Again - damn CNN and their non-stop pharmaceutical advertisements!!)
KEEP AT IT EVERYONE!
Are you eating at the deficit, and if so, do you add your activity calories to your goal? Maybe you need to adjust just a little bit to get a deficit?
And look at it this way: if you didn't put in the effort, you probably would have gained a bit and now you haven't AND you have more data to know what to day in the future
You are right - I think that I am, but the math isn't working so I must not be doing it correctly / accurately enough.
That is why I am curious to see how different my results are when someone is combing through my entries on a daily basis (Noom), and how much of a difference it makes - AND - at what point does the pain associated with doing this overcome my desire to lose 10 vanity pounds.
I know I HATE weighing each portion, for example, but this is probably where trouble lies (eating more than I am estimating).
I HATE being "that person" at restaurants who nit picks and special orders every item - and if I am at a business lunch or dinner, I will not do this because I do not want to be perceived to be a high maintenance prima donna when I am out with a customer (lunch should be about THEM - I would feel like a total *kitten* being out with an overweight customer who just ordered fries, then spending 5 minutes explaining to the server how to prepare my skinny meal).
I HATE not having a glass of wine with dinner a few times a week..
And so on - do I really want to give these things up for the 10 lbs? Time to decide...
The funny thing re: your comment of weight gain - I have maintained roughly this weight for 4 years (144 - 146 lbs) and before that, I maintained roughly the same weight ever since I can remember - 30+ years (130 - 135 lbs). So no, I really don't think I would have gained if I hadn't been tracking. I do believe in calories in/out, but somehow even when I don't track, my body / appetite seems to manage itself (the gain occurred when I first moved in with my Husband and life underwent many changes).
So very much this -
"I HATE being "that person" at restaurants who nit picks and special orders every item - and if I am at a business lunch or dinner, I will not do this because I do not want to be perceived to be a high maintenance prima donna when I am out with a customer (lunch should be about THEM - I would feel like a total *kitten* being out with an overweight customer who just ordered fries, then spending 5 minutes explaining to the server how to prepare my skinny meal)." My mom orders like this and it's beyond annoying....if you're going to eat out, bank up a few calories and stick with smaller portions. It's miserable to eat out with someone that screws up their face when they order and complains about lack of 'healthy' options.
Yes I know, this is also why it is so difficult to be open about weight loss. I don’t want it out in the open and indeed be a diva when ordering. I’ve been at it for so long now that I know what to order without being picky. I have less problems with leaving some on my plate and I have a whole list of excuses why I don’t order or finish something.
Still, it is an exercise in willpower every time!
And what I hate the most in those situations are the people going:
Oh, but you don't need it at all! You're superslim already! C'mon, just a piece of bread/glass of wine/entire freakin' chocolate cake won't hurt!
A) I'm only slim BECAUSE I don't (always) indulge
'B) No, the 1 piece of bread/glass of wine/slice of chocolate cake won't hurt, but 10 people pushing a "1 piece of something" on me in a day WILL.4 -
Antiopelle wrote: »cayenne_007 wrote: »RunninCurmudgin wrote: »Antiopelle wrote: »RunninCurmudgin wrote: »49, 160cm (5'3")
GW: 59kg / 130 lbs
CW: 65.3 kg / 144 lbs
Nov 1 - 65.5kg / 144.4 lbs
Nov 7 - 65.5 kg / 144.4 lbs
Nov 11 - 65.4 kg / 144.2 lbs
Nov 18 - 66.2 kg / 145.9 lbs
Nov 21 - 65.5 kg / 144.4 lbs
Well so much for that "easy" goal to lose a few pounds a month. I have lost maybe 1 lb over 3 months.
I logged, exercised, ate and drank in moderation - and my weight really didn't change much at all. It really wasn't worth the mental stress.
Just for the hell of it - I have signed up for Noom (because I am a CNN addict at the moment due to Impeachment and they keep on advertising.. it worked). Has anyone else tried it?
I am going to do my logging there for the next while to see if I do any better with "personalized coaching", and I will let you know what I find... If you have any questions regarding the program, ask them in a few weeks and I can let you know what I think.
Also I am scheduled to go in for a physical in January to see how my bloodwork looks and to get my shingles vaccine since I am now 50 and even if I am fit and active apparently SHINGLES DOESN'T CARE (Again - damn CNN and their non-stop pharmaceutical advertisements!!)
KEEP AT IT EVERYONE!
Are you eating at the deficit, and if so, do you add your activity calories to your goal? Maybe you need to adjust just a little bit to get a deficit?
And look at it this way: if you didn't put in the effort, you probably would have gained a bit and now you haven't AND you have more data to know what to day in the future
You are right - I think that I am, but the math isn't working so I must not be doing it correctly / accurately enough.
That is why I am curious to see how different my results are when someone is combing through my entries on a daily basis (Noom), and how much of a difference it makes - AND - at what point does the pain associated with doing this overcome my desire to lose 10 vanity pounds.
I know I HATE weighing each portion, for example, but this is probably where trouble lies (eating more than I am estimating).
I HATE being "that person" at restaurants who nit picks and special orders every item - and if I am at a business lunch or dinner, I will not do this because I do not want to be perceived to be a high maintenance prima donna when I am out with a customer (lunch should be about THEM - I would feel like a total *kitten* being out with an overweight customer who just ordered fries, then spending 5 minutes explaining to the server how to prepare my skinny meal).
I HATE not having a glass of wine with dinner a few times a week..
And so on - do I really want to give these things up for the 10 lbs? Time to decide...
The funny thing re: your comment of weight gain - I have maintained roughly this weight for 4 years (144 - 146 lbs) and before that, I maintained roughly the same weight ever since I can remember - 30+ years (130 - 135 lbs). So no, I really don't think I would have gained if I hadn't been tracking. I do believe in calories in/out, but somehow even when I don't track, my body / appetite seems to manage itself (the gain occurred when I first moved in with my Husband and life underwent many changes).
So very much this -
"I HATE being "that person" at restaurants who nit picks and special orders every item - and if I am at a business lunch or dinner, I will not do this because I do not want to be perceived to be a high maintenance prima donna when I am out with a customer (lunch should be about THEM - I would feel like a total *kitten* being out with an overweight customer who just ordered fries, then spending 5 minutes explaining to the server how to prepare my skinny meal)." My mom orders like this and it's beyond annoying....if you're going to eat out, bank up a few calories and stick with smaller portions. It's miserable to eat out with someone that screws up their face when they order and complains about lack of 'healthy' options.
Yes I know, this is also why it is so difficult to be open about weight loss. I don’t want it out in the open and indeed be a diva when ordering. I’ve been at it for so long now that I know what to order without being picky. I have less problems with leaving some on my plate and I have a whole list of excuses why I don’t order or finish something.
Still, it is an exercise in willpower every time!
And what I hate the most in those situations are the people going:
Oh, but you don't need it at all! You're superslim already! C'mon, just a piece of bread/glass of wine/entire freakin' chocolate cake won't hurt!
A) I'm only slim BECAUSE I don't (always) indulge
'B) No, the 1 piece of bread/glass of wine/slice of chocolate cake won't hurt, but 10 people pushing a "1 piece of something" on me in a day WILL.
Yups, soooo true! And somehow, the peer pressure is everywhere. We need to stay strong !
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November was a terrible month for me. Hoping December and the rest of 2020 is better8
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47, 5'2"
SW: 108.2
Nov GW: 107, BF: 19%
GW: 105 BF: 19%
Goal #1: Keep up with 4X a week of OTF
Goal #2: Meal prep more. Utilize Crockpot! Soup season!!
Goal #3: Keep photo records of self...
Goal #4: Simplify life. Not stress over things out of my control😉
10/1 / 109 lbs, 21.4%, measurements 33.5-27.5-33.5
10/30 108.2, 19.1%, measurements 33.5-27-33.5
11/4 109.8, 19.8%!!!! 33-27-33.5😲😲😲
11/7 108.4, 19.2%, 33-27-33.5
11/11 measurements 33.5-27-33.5 (my flat 🍑 is starting to round up! so excited about this
11/12 108.5, 19.2%
11/21 110, ???% 33.5-27.5-33.5
11/22 109, 20.1%
11/25 110, 20.1%
11/26 108.8, 19.4%
Not that I did much, getting back on track! I guess working out is my fastest way of dropping extras.Height: 176cm (5'9")
For those following along with my love life: the High Tea date went very well; he thought it was an excellent idea and we stuffed ourselves all afternoon. It may have been the lack of booze though, but I didn't feel much spark. He's cute, charming, smart and friendly and yet...nothing! Will repeat the date but with alcohol and see if that causes a difference. Makes for quite the interesting experiment.
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I am those following! lol Keep us posted after the experiment4 -
5'8" 40y/o
SW 162
Nov GW 159
Overall GW 150
Nov 1 162.0
Nov 2 161.4
Nov 4 163.8 weekends kill me
Nov 5 162.2
Nov 7 160.2 - off for the next 4 days. Hoping I can keep eating (and drinking!) mindfully. I'd like the downward trend to continue
Nov 10 161.0- days off are tough to stay under calories. Especially with the drinking!
Nov 12 159.4 - I made it through the weekend without gaining! Anyone else IF? I've been doing it about 6 months and have noticed that it helps with my eating, even more than counting calories. If I track all my food all the time, I tend to start obsessing and with IF I just eat 2 healthy meals and don't worry about it.
Nov 13 - 159.8
Nov 14 - 158.8 - made my goal! But can I keep it at less than 159 through the end of the month??
Nov 15 - 159.0 - My goal is to keep it at this through the next 15 days including 2 weekends!
Nov 16 - 158.0
Nov 17 - 159.8 - the weekend has struck again! I swear I'd be a size 4 by now if I could just keep it in check over the weekend
Nov 27 - 156.8 - Yay!
Missed a few days logging on here, life at home got kinda stressful which is probably why I saw 156 for the first time! I tend to not eat when I'm really stressed out.
My goal for December is just to stay under 160 and continue my workouts. I started a 4 day upper/lower split strength training this week, so hopefully that will help with all the goodies the holiday season brings!
I love seeing everyone's posts and journeys, it keeps me accountable and logging in to check on everyone's progress! Keep it up ladies, we got this!7 -
47, 5'2"
SW: 108.2
Nov GW: 107, BF: 19%
GW: 105 BF: 19%
Goal #1: Keep up with 4X a week of OTF
Goal #2: Meal prep more. Utilize Crockpot! Soup season!!
Goal #3: Keep photo records of self...
Goal #4: Simplify life. Not stress over things out of my control😉
10/1 / 109 lbs, 21.4%, measurements 33.5-27.5-33.5
10/30 108.2, 19.1%, measurements 33.5-27-33.5
11/4 109.8, 19.8%!!!! 33-27-33.5😲😲😲
11/7 108.4, 19.2%, 33-27-33.5
11/11 measurements 33.5-27-33.5 (my flat 🍑 is starting to round up! so excited about this
11/12 108.5, 19.2%
11/21 110, ???% 33.5-27.5-33.5
11/22 109, 20.1%
11/25 110, 20.1%
11/26 108.8, 19.4%
11/27 108.4, 19.4% 33.5-28-33.5
3 more days of November!
Pre thxgiving dinner tonight, Real thxgiving dinner tomorrow and a day to decompress.
Be thankful for what you are now, and keep fighting for what you want to be tomorrow.💕💕💕 Have a great Thanksgiving to you all!! xo4 -
5'8" 42yo
SW: 142.6
Nov GW: 140
GW: 133
August SW 145.8 EW 145.6
Sept SW 145.6 EW 145.6
Oct SW 145.6 EW 142.6
I'm going to add in one thing to force myself to measure at the end of the month......
Bust: 38 - Aug (-1")
Band: 33 - Aug (-1")
Waist: 28.5 - Aug (-.5")
Hips 38.5- No change in Aug
No change in measurements in Sept - At least I was consistent with weight/measurements! LOL!
Goal #1: Workout 5 days a week - Yoga Burn/Bike/Walk - stay consistent with Push Up Challenge
Goal #2: Build Upper Body Strength - 90 Second Planks - Forearm & Extended Do 25 real push ups in a rep
Goal #3: Drop .5" off waist
Goal #4: Stay under on intake min of 5 days a week
Goal #5: Do some decent crockpot meals
10/31 - 142.6 - IF, bit over on calories...insanely busy day - no workout but decent amount of walking
11/1 - 143.8 - LOL - I'm still ok with this. The 142 was a new low for me so hopefully it's a good start to the month. IF - I did put together a chicken/chili crockpot dish this morning - we'll see how it goes
11/4 - 146.8 - bit surprised at this. I worked outdoors all day Sat and busted my butt... One of those days you just fall into bed exhausted. Sunday I did take it a bit easier. Back to logging everything today. Got in a good walk at lunch - my should is still not 100%... trying to do decent on food and just maintain. Went over about 300 cals today - when your 96 yo Gram wants you to take her to dinner, you take her to dinner and have nachos & irish beer with her.
11/5 - 146.2 - Snuck in a great walk at lunch today and managed not to go over too badly. Kid's basketball game right after work made much more impossible. Still stuck to IF.
11/6 - 145.8 - rainy day made my lunch walk impossible....but insanely busy evening doctoring a colt & all the horse stuff alone so 2 hours of just stuff outdoors. IF - and stayed under on cals, but terrible nutritionally. Nachos & beer for dinner.
11/7 - 144.4 - IF, got in a good walk at lunch... Rode my colt for an hour & cleaned 6 stalls- love days like this! Made fajitas for dinner & managed not to go too crazy. I think once my body adjusts, IF will help me store up calories for the evenings.
11/8 - 145.6 - Good walk at lunch and worked at the barn for a couple of hours in the evening. I have no idea how many calories it burns - but cleaning stalls is WORK.
11/11 - 144.4 - HOW do ya'll get ANYTHING done with kid's sports? BF's 10 yo son had a basketball tournament on Sat- played 4 games, BF competed in a small local team roping (at least I got to ride my colt for a couple of hours) and back to sit on my butt for another basketball game. Cleaned 11 stalls so that's something. Sunday I worked outdoors all afternoon - felt like I scurried all over the place and still way behind. Got in a good walk at lunch and back to working on the pushup challenge - my shoulder is finally recovered enough. So discouraging how much ground I've lost in the last 3 weeks - DAMMIT! 10,12,10,10,8
11/12 - 144.6 Stayed under on cals yesterday. No workout - errands at lunch & dinner right after work with my Gram. So sore from starting back on push up challenge...OUCH! Did manage to stay on track with cals today.
11/13 - 145.2 - 30 min walk at lunch, Push Up Challenge 12,14,10,10,10 - still pretty sore & my form wasn't great. Going to work on getting my form back before increasing the # for a bit. Did IF & kept cals at 1250.
11/14 - 145.2 - Positives for the day, squeaked under on cals. & managed 3 chin-ups on our 'ghetto' bar at work on a dare. Errands at lunch and kids basketball all evening = no real exercise. AND someone brought amazing homemade pumpkin bread to work - so I inhaled 2 slices. ARGH!
11/15 - 145.2 - dang, it's been consistent lately. LOL Push Up Challenge - 12,13,14,10 & 30 min walk at lunch. Pushups were HARD today.
11/18 - 145.4 - Kinda ate 'whatever' this wknd, but stuck to 2 meals a day and I WORKED my butt off Saturday. Hauled multiple loads of wet sand out of 5 stalls - I'm still a bit body sore today. Yesterday was easier, just lots of walking & my normal stuff.
11/19 - 147.0 - I'm making today a 'reset' and get your head right day. Been stressed with some stupid stuff at work and yesterday I freakin ate my feelings with a vengeance. Couldn't even tell you the last time I had more than 1 cookie - yesterday I ate half a dozen + ALL the other foods around. Appt after work and it's cold & dark out by the time I got home..... I took 7 feral kittens home to be barn cats a few months back, today - it's vet day for everyone to be fixed. I feel today should definitely go better as far as exercise - I've already got 3000 steps in from literally herding cats this morning. No real workout - dang cats killed my time at lunch and bf is gone so after I get home at 7:30 and spend an hour & half doing chores.. it just doesn't happen (but I get in lots of steps ).
11/20 - 146.0
11/27 - 145.0 - for the next 2 days, I'm not worrying about anything. We're off to a big family function for Thanksgiving so I'll get back on track Sat/Sun. Working to maintain, my schedule has been insane lately. I keep reminding myself that even if I can't be ALL in right now - just take baby steps and do what I can. Been at it since 5, work by 7 - no lunch break today so I can leave at 3.... and then it's a 3 hour drive to my parents. So no workout time today - it's just been one day after another of things like this lately. I feel like I'm slipping, but the important thing is not to stop.6 -
169 cm / 5’5”, 37 y
HW: 76.1 kg / 167.8 lbs (26/Aug/19)
SW Sep: 74.1 kg / 163.4 lbs
SW Oct: 73.6 kg / 162.3 lbs
SW Nov: 72.8 kg / 160.5 lbs
GW Nov: 70.0 kg / 154.3 lbs
Overall GW: 57.5 kg / 124.5 lbs
01-nov: 72.8 kg
02-nov: 72.0 kg
03-nov: 72.3 kg
04-nov: 73.1 kg
05-nov: 72.8 kg
06-nov: 73.3 kg
07-nov: 73.4 kg
08-nov: 73.8 kg
09-nov: 73.1 kg
10-nov: 73.4 kg
11-nov: 72.6 kg
12-nov: 72.6 kg
13-nov: 72.0 kg
14-nov: 71.5 kg
15-nov: 72.2 kg
16-nov: 72.0 kg
17-nov: 72.8 kg
18-nov: 71.9 kg
19-nov: 71.8 kg
20-nov: 71.9 kg
21-nov: 71.2 kg
22-nov: 72.6 kg
23-nov: 72.4 kg – had 2 pieces of cake to heal my soul after some new quarrels with my man.
24-nov: 72.4 kg – doing better today. But should definitely NOT turn back to sugary stuff when moody!
25-nov: 73.0 kg – WROOOOONG direction!
26-nov: 72.7 kg
27-nov: 71.6 kg - Better 😊
28-nov: 72.4 kg
29-nov: 73.3 kg – PMS cravings yesterday made me swallow a good deal of unhealthy stuff. Simple as that. No excuse. Take a breath, stay mindful. Don’t slip back into bad habits.4 -
Height: 5’4”
Goal: 120
Nov 01: 126.0
Nov 08: 126.4
Nov 15: 126.6
Nov 22: 126.6
Nov 29: 127.2
Nov Goal: 123.0
LOL! Well, November did not go as planned, did it? I saw 125 on the scale a few times this week so I feel good about that because that’s a really good weight for me. My clothes fit well and I feel good. I can be happy here without guilt. But I will keep working towards a lower weight just because I’d like to try to get to my best shape.
I have a couple of things to discuss from this week. I’m really disappointed in myself for not running all week. I promise myself that I will get back on track. I have been doing more at the gym though. It feels good to be making progress on strength!
I threw caution to the wind yesterday on Thanksgiving and didn’t log anything! But then I couldn’t stand not knowing the damage and went back and logged it all this morning. I actually came in under maintenance! Wow. It feels so good that my habits have changed so much that I can go a Thanksgiving without logging and end up in the black!4 -
30, 169cm
GW: 65kg (not this month’s target)
CW: 66,8kg
Goals :
1-to be focused on how I feel vs the number on the scale
Revised: 2-keep calories between 1600-1800 1800-2000 a day
3-wear more of the clothes I feel truly good in
4-go and discover 2 new sites close to home (walking/hiking)
01 Nov: 66,8 @1750 cals/day
08 Nov: 66,2 @1800 cals/day
15 Nov: 65,4 @1800 cals/day
22 Nov: 65,6 @1900 cals/day
29 Nov: 65,4 @1800 cals/day
Right, it’s the end of the month already !
I have been feeling anxious about the focus I am putting on the numbers again. So, I have been extra careful to tend to the other goals and I have been successful.
G1 - I keep pushing this to « when I feel a bit better about my body » ; which is the idea I want to crush! I am going to go back to yoga and body scans from today on. I did practice more questions about how I felt in my body during the day and that is nice already, but I can do more and WANT to do more.
G2- yep, that is not going to change and I can’t even think about going lower again
G3- Still finding new combos and enjoying actually wearing my clothes
G4- I found and walked on 2 new paths in the morning
I noticed I am being a bit anxious again about wanting to be 64,x kg as quickly as I can...
But after so many years of ED and recovery I can smell a trigger and a red flag a mile away ! So I ve been quite careful and not succumbing to it.
Managed to learn new things about myself and my behaviours, and I cooked new recipes, which I am really, truly happy about, but I know I never feel happy on the spot. It takes days, if not weeks, for my brain to acknowledge the positives like that.
Luckily I keep at it since I have experience with that process.
(I used to be sooooo discouraged from achieving my goals and NEVER feeling good. Then proceeding to sabotage myself. Only to discover a week later that I took some time to process the change and feel good with a delay...)
My gratitude list is also getting longer with very personal things as opposed to external ones. It helps me see the bigger picture and how quickly I can forget the good changes and the lessons learned along the way.
I am on the right path and grateful I can share it with you.
Have a lovely day/night/time wherever you are 🌏🌎🌍5 -
5'8" 40y/o
SW 162
Nov GW 159
Overall GW 150
Nov 1 162.0
Nov 2 161.4
Nov 4 163.8 weekends kill me
Nov 5 162.2
Nov 7 160.2 - off for the next 4 days. Hoping I can keep eating (and drinking!) mindfully. I'd like the downward trend to continue
Nov 10 161.0- days off are tough to stay under calories. Especially with the drinking!
Nov 12 159.4 - I made it through the weekend without gaining! Anyone else IF? I've been doing it about 6 months and have noticed that it helps with my eating, even more than counting calories. If I track all my food all the time, I tend to start obsessing and with IF I just eat 2 healthy meals and don't worry about it.
Nov 13 - 159.8
Nov 14 - 158.8 - made my goal! But can I keep it at less than 159 through the end of the month??
Nov 15 - 159.0 - My goal is to keep it at this through the next 15 days including 2 weekends!
Nov 16 - 158.0
Nov 17 - 159.8 - the weekend has struck again! I swear I'd be a size 4 by now if I could just keep it in check over the weekend
Nov 27 - 156.8 - Yay!
Nov 30 - 157.4
End of the month and I surpassed my goal! My only goal for December is to stay under 160 until 2020. Continuing my workouts and eating right 80% of the time, but I LOVE Christmas and all the yummy stuff this time of year brings and I'm going to indulge. I'm just going to try to indulge mindfully 😇4 -
It's not been a great holiday around here. Was pet sitting for a friend week before this one, which meant a LOT of driving, so couldn't make the gym - which was fine, I was a bit overdue for a break. Then, that weekend, my chronically ill kitty crashed - we believe her kidneys just shut down - and even though it's a blessing in disguise (best case scenario hers would have been a life of managing her pain) it still was heartbreaking. She was a total sweetheart, and had consumed a large part of my time just taking care of her. So, my other (very healthy) cat and I just spent the holiday being home (had to take a day off work because I was in no shape to even log in remotely). I'm better now that I took the time to grieve, but obviously they always leave paw prints.
Since then, things have been quiet, and just getting ready to deal with the work crap going forward here. Back to the gym and my "normal" routine on Monday, and now it'll be time to start seriously job hunting. Didn't quite make my goals of being steadily below 140 for the month, but overall keeping the downward trend going.
41, 5'7"
GW: 128-132
HW: 163
CW: 143ish
Goal #1 - Steady loss, averaging 1/2 lb/week
Goal #2 - Daily workout routine min 4x/week
Goal #3 - Track my food min 6/days/week.
Nov 1: 143.6
Nov 2: 144.2
Nov 3: 143.2
Nov 4: 142.2
Nov 5: 142.4
Nov 6: 142.4
Nov 7: 141.6
Nov 8: 142.6
Nov 9: 142.0
Nov 10: 141.8
Nov 11: 140.8
Nov 12: 141.4
Nov 13: 141.4
Nov 14: 142.6
Nov 15: 141.8
Nov 20: 143.6
Nov 27: 139.8
Nov 29: 141.8
Nov 30: 141.66 -
HoneyBadger155 wrote: ». . . Then, that weekend, my chronically ill kitty crashed - we believe her kidneys just shut down - and even though it's a blessing in disguise (best case scenario hers would have been a life of managing her pain) it still was heartbreaking. . .
I’m sorry to hear about your sick kitty. I lost one of my babies (cat) to kidney disease. They break your heart when the go.
Here’s to a wonderful December.
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169 cm / 5’5”, 37 y
HW: 76.1 kg / 167.8 lbs (26/Aug/19)
SW Sep: 74.1 kg / 163.4 lbs
SW Oct: 73.6 kg / 162.3 lbs
SW Nov: 72.8 kg / 160.5 lbs
GW Nov: 70.0 kg / 154.3 lbs
Overall GW: 57.5 kg / 124.5 lbs
01-nov: 72.8 kg
02-nov: 72.0 kg
03-nov: 72.3 kg
04-nov: 73.1 kg
05-nov: 72.8 kg
06-nov: 73.3 kg
07-nov: 73.4 kg
08-nov: 73.8 kg
09-nov: 73.1 kg
10-nov: 73.4 kg
11-nov: 72.6 kg
12-nov: 72.6 kg
13-nov: 72.0 kg
14-nov: 71.5 kg
15-nov: 72.2 kg
16-nov: 72.0 kg
17-nov: 72.8 kg
18-nov: 71.9 kg
19-nov: 71.8 kg
20-nov: 71.9 kg
21-nov: 71.2 kg
22-nov: 72.6 kg
23-nov: 72.4 kg
24-nov: 72.4 kg
25-nov: 73.0 kg
26-nov: 72.7 kg
27-nov: 71.6 kg
28-nov: 72.4 kg
29-nov: 73.3 kg
30-nov: 72.3 kg
November done, lessons in "fluctuations"taken". On the scale, emotionally, domestically and professionally. Whether it be with cravings or water retention to relationship struggles or issues popping up at work. I am surprised that overall I didn't gain weight. I feel pretty proud of that! I am far from where I want to be, but after measuring in some spots over the last two months, I found that I dropped some inches here and there and that keeps progressing even if the scale is having a hickup again. For December I am thinking now to switch to average weight as well to get a better picture.
The general tendency is downwards, which is good. Well at least for the scales The relationship is getting back upwards fortunately. So after a rollercoaster month all is set for an enjoyable last set of weeks before the new year.
Thanks to all you also for what you are doing here. It helps to share a boat with other people when the winds get rough. Whether I know your real-life you or not. See you in the next thread.3 -
HoneyBadger155 wrote: »It's not been a great holiday around here. Was pet sitting for a friend week before this one, which meant a LOT of driving, so couldn't make the gym - which was fine, I was a bit overdue for a break. Then, that weekend, my chronically ill kitty crashed - we believe her kidneys just shut down - and even though it's a blessing in disguise (best case scenario hers would have been a life of managing her pain) it still was heartbreaking. She was a total sweetheart, and had consumed a large part of my time just taking care of her. So, my other (very healthy) cat and I just spent the holiday being home (had to take a day off work because I was in no shape to even log in remotely). I'm better now that I took the time to grieve, but obviously they always leave paw prints.
My heart goes out to you. This is a big loss, even if it comes with relieve for her pain to be over.3 -
For December I am thinking now to switch to average weight as well to get a better picture.
Thanks to all you also for what you are doing here. It helps to share a boat with other people when the winds get rough. Whether I know your real-life you or not. See you in the next thread.
@jacau I switched to 7day average too! Find it works better for me. A lot less fluctuations to worry about that way.
I'm happy we can all support each other in our struggle! See you there
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Antiopelle wrote: »Antiopelle wrote: »Antiopelle wrote: »Antiopelle wrote: »Thanks for starting the thread @rianneonamission !
SW 78
Nov SW 70.3
Goal: maintain between 69 and 70
1. Keep on logging every day
2. Restart push-up challenge
3. 10.000 steps a day + 2 long walks & 2 dives a week
I’ve been way over my cals these last days so I’m surprised that I get away with 70.3 this morning. So, time to reign in again to get under the 70. Maintaining is not easy!
Ok, last week was a bit special: a few days feeling off and that was a good excuse to turn into a couch potato; then a trip for work that took me almost a full 20 hours: a few days of personal time off and then some sugary foods that literary got shoved into our house (2 cookie sales for charities). Needless to say that it wasn't a good week foodwise.
However, I kept on logging and was actually surprised that I was relatively on goal. Even when I eat whatever I want, I rarely go over 2.000/day.
That being said, I still need to get back on track and the good news is that hubby seems to have found his mojo; so for him today is day 1 of eating better and moving more. I sincerely hope he'll hang on this time, as this will also help me.
As for my goals:
1. I keep on logging every day - yay me!
2. I did the test, but then I failed miserably again
3. 2 long walks and 2 dives; 80.700 steps thanks to the beautiful fall hikes
Current weight: 70.7
Monday morning update: I did well with food this past week, as hubby is finally joining in ! Pfew ! However, we could only fit in 2 medium walks and only 1 dive as we were also putting wallpaper in the bedrooms, which is a strenuous exercise in itself!
Goals update:
1. I keep on logging, this comes really naturally to me now.
2. Ahhhh, the pushup challenge. I have put reminders in my agenda to commit myself again !
3. 2 medium walks and 1 dive: 61.000 steps
Current weight: 70.3kg - which apparently is my maintenance weight as I keep returning to it. I'll be happy if I can keep this for a year or so. We'll see how it goes.
Weekly check-in: still doing great foodwise although we had a weekend with friends, eating out three days in a row! We’ve compensated this splurge with two all day hikes !
Goals:
1. The logging is a no-brainer
2. Push-ups are still not happening 🥴
3. 2 hikes, 2 walks and one dive: 91.000 steps
Current weight: 69.9. I saw 69.1 for a couple of days and l’m not feeling comfortable with, so I’m happy to have gained some back.
Last weekly check-in: doing terrible foodwise. I've been stuffing my body mindlessly for a few days with almost no exercise. It's good to be accountable here, or I would probably be on my way back to 80 in no time. Yesterday was the last day of munchies, today I'm back to it !
Goals:
1. The logging took me a little more effort last week
2. Push-ups are back again - yay for that !
3. 0 walks and one dive and a lot of Netflix: 37.000 steps
Current weight: 71.6. Which means I've gained 2 kilo's in +- 1 week. Definitely not good, and I need to get a grip in December !
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@Antiopelle 2kg in 1 week is probably not real and most likely at least partly waterweight! Join me in getting a grip in december!2
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Thanks @l4a_p . I know it's probably - partly - a glitch or water or hormones, but still. I feel like it's deserved for all the eating I've been doing.
Good to get a reality check though
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@CocoLoris and @Cora0477 : you guys seem to be in a good spot currently; keep it up
@HoneyBadger155: that is heartbreaking, I hope you'll find some comfort in the fact that it is the better outcome eventually even if it is *kitten* big time for you now. Big hugs !3 -
33, 5' 4"
SW: 137.8
GW: 133.8
Goal #1: Snack less at night
Goal #2: Move more at work
Goal #3: Eat more mindfully
Nov 1: 137.8
Nov 4: 138.6
Nov 6: 139.2 - Been "sneaking" food and shoving my face alone in dark corners because I'm convinced that if no one else sees it then it doesn't matter and I can get away with it........ I need a food babysitter at all times. Also, did you know that Oreo thins have a latte flavored creme kind? Me and the half empty container know now too LOL! Hope you all are doing better than I am!
Nov 7: 138.4 - Focused yesterday on moving more and not snacking and stuck to it!
Nov 8: 138.4
Nov 11: 138.2
Nov 12: 138.8 - If I would just snack like a "normal" human being that would be great, but I go big and stay home LOL - Did great all day and then ate way too much dinner, ate way too much chips and salsa, also had some ice cream and an ice cream sandwich. Delicious, yes.... but I definitely didn't need all of it. Going to focus solely on limiting snacking today.
Nov 13: 137.6 - Actually completed the day under my calorie goal yesterday. I logged all of my food and didn't snack at all. I reached my normal snacking time last night and wasn't really hungry so I skipped it and went to bed early with the hubby. Feeling good this morning and even happier seeing the dip in the scales.
Nov 15: 136 - Finally doing what I need to do and seeing the scale move is sure motivational. Just over the last 3 days I have taken control of my 'all or nothing snacking' problem. I am learning moderation and only eating what my calories will allow. 3 days down and the rest of my life to go!!!
Nov 18: 137.6 - Fun weekend with family Back to killing it this week!
Nov 19: 137
Nov 20: 137.6 - 3 steps forward and 8 steps back ... attitude yesterday was more of a "it can't hurt that bad if I eat this...and this...and this...." Refocusing and trying harder today
Nov 21: 136.6 - I feel like a yo-yo lol
Nov 22: 136
Nov 30: 137 - Finished on a high note thanks to Thanksgiving and hormonal issues lol
*crossing my fingers for December*2