I could never date someone who....

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  • skinnybearlyndsay
    skinnybearlyndsay Posts: 798 Member
    thought id never say this but i could never date someone who doesnt like to exericse or eat healthy
    Same here.
  • pkiesch
    pkiesch Posts: 259 Member
    can't take a JOKE! I make fun of everything/everyone & expect to get made fun of. I love people making fun of things I say & do so he's gotta reciprocate my humor =)


    being at least 6-foot tall is also a necessity
  • CavewomanCoby
    CavewomanCoby Posts: 253 Member
    ......... weighed less than me
    .......... that I could beat up in a fight.
  • groomchick
    groomchick Posts: 610 Member
    Doesn't like animals...sets off red flags for me!
  • VeryKerri
    VeryKerri Posts: 359 Member
    Doesn't have a pulse.... all others are negotiable :laugh:
  • TooFatToFit
    TooFatToFit Posts: 285 Member
    Doesn't have a pulse.... all others are negotiable :laugh:

    LOL

    My standards are a little higher than that. I could never date someone who...
    ...smokes
    ...is negative more than occasionally
    ...spends an excessive amount of time or money on big boy toys
    ...is bipolar (sorry if that's not PC these days, but 15 years was enough of that!)
    ...does not love me body, mind, and soul
    ...who likes to sleep every chance they get
    ...is arrogant
    ...can't balance life (work/play/family)
    ...isn't considerably family oriented
    ...is either extremely slobby or obsessively clean
    ...who doesn't like sarcastic humour and/or can't laugh at themselves

    I've just realized I could go on all day! Given the short, stout thing that I am, maybe that will mean I'll be single a LOOOONG time, but I won't settle. I owe it to me and my kids to have a healthy relationship I enjoy and can be happy in more often than not. (Realizing no relationship is perfect or without bad days, just super sensitive about not getting into another one where it's a daily struggle)
  • spitfire1962
    spitfire1962 Posts: 347 Member
    Is always negative and has nothing nice to say about anyone or anything. :smile:
  • jaxnjojosmama
    jaxnjojosmama Posts: 14 Member
    Honestly...

    1. doesn't accept me for the person that I am
    2. doesn't accept my kids, my family, or my pets (because I will be giving up none of the above)
    3. doesn't realize that we are living two separate lives together (I have my own projects.)


    Now that I have formed this list, I realize that all we are really posting is the reasons why we broke up with our exes. Hmmm... :ohwell:

    I was so thinking the same thing about our exes!! Only I need to add:

    - lets Mama make his every decision in life
    - can't hold an interesting conversation
    - lies/cheats (BIG ONE)
    - has a secret freak life that I just can't handle
  • LOL would never date a woman who doesn't understand the big boy toy rule....I have money therefore I spend it on my BIG boy toys.
  • _beachgirl_
    _beachgirl_ Posts: 3,865 Member
    doesn't have a sense of humor.

    drinks too often!
  • _beachgirl_
    _beachgirl_ Posts: 3,865 Member
    Couldn't accept me for who I am and some of my crazy choices!
    Hasn't heard of the 1 ring to rule them all.
    Has never heard of the force!

    I'm officially interested....:laugh: :wink: :love: :smooched: :drinker::smooched:


    Hahahaha.
    I'm an interesting enigma!

    Shall we meet in Gondor, I'll fly over in my X-wing fighter, lol:laugh: :flowerforyou:


    Mmmmmmmmm . . . the force is strong in this one!!!

    :wink: elf, dwarf, or ewok?:blushing:


    Elf of course, height advantage. But don't quote me, I'll get back to you on that!

    I feel a presence, something I haven't felt in . . .

    This was too cute!

    Maybe we are going to lose 2 members soon?
  • TooFatToFit
    TooFatToFit Posts: 285 Member
    LOL would never date a woman who doesn't understand the big boy toy rule....I have money therefore I spend it on my BIG boy toys.

    I have no problem with big boy toys if you HAVE the disposable income for them, and everything else is taken care of. What I refuse to live again is the life of struggling to make ends meet, while hubby is out buying yet another new toy on credit that will be nearly impossible to repay. Yes, obviously baggage from my past...but I had to get a bankruptcy to go with my separation, so I'm a little cautious about getting into the same situation. Basically, to me, I guess it boils down to BALANCE, and I know many, many, many guys who have little of that.
  • TooFatToFit
    TooFatToFit Posts: 285 Member
    Couldn't accept me for who I am and some of my crazy choices!
    Hasn't heard of the 1 ring to rule them all.
    Has never heard of the force!


    I'm officially interested....:laugh: :wink: :love: :smooched: :drinker::smooched:


    Hahahaha.
    I'm an interesting enigma!

    Shall we meet in Gondor, I'll fly over in my X-wing fighter, lol:laugh: :flowerforyou:


    Mmmmmmmmm . . . the force is strong in this one!!!

    :wink: elf, dwarf, or ewok?:blushing:


    Elf of course, height advantage. But don't quote me, I'll get back to you on that!

    I feel a presence, something I haven't felt in . . .

    This was too cute!

    Maybe we are going to lose 2 members soon?

    That'd be great! :):heart:
  • Gary1977
    Gary1977 Posts: 804 Member
    Couldn't accept me for who I am and some of my crazy choices!
    Hasn't heard of the 1 ring to rule them all.
    Has never heard of the force!


    I'm officially interested....:laugh: :wink: :love: :smooched: :drinker::smooched:


    Hahahaha.
    I'm an interesting enigma!

    Shall we meet in Gondor, I'll fly over in my X-wing fighter, lol:laugh: :flowerforyou:


    Mmmmmmmmm . . . the force is strong in this one!!!

    :wink: elf, dwarf, or ewok?:blushing:


    Elf of course, height advantage. But don't quote me, I'll get back to you on that!

    I feel a presence, something I haven't felt in . . .

    This was too cute!

    Maybe we are going to lose 2 members soon?

    That'd be great! :):heart:
    Sadly, she's on the other side of the world,lol
  • _beachgirl_
    _beachgirl_ Posts: 3,865 Member
    Couldn't accept me for who I am and some of my crazy choices!
    Hasn't heard of the 1 ring to rule them all.
    Has never heard of the force!


    I'm officially interested....:laugh: :wink: :love: :smooched: :drinker::smooched:


    Hahahaha.
    I'm an interesting enigma!

    Shall we meet in Gondor, I'll fly over in my X-wing fighter, lol:laugh: :flowerforyou:


    Mmmmmmmmm . . . the force is strong in this one!!!

    :wink: elf, dwarf, or ewok?:blushing:


    Elf of course, height advantage. But don't quote me, I'll get back to you on that!

    I feel a presence, something I haven't felt in . . .

    This was too cute!

    Maybe we are going to lose 2 members soon?

    That'd be great! :):heart:
    Sadly, she's on the other side of the world,lol

    Pfft, that's what text, email, cellphones, and cams are for!
  • nicole623az
    nicole623az Posts: 14 Member
    was materialistic.
    has no sense of humor.
    is controlling
    is jealous.
  • rockthehourglass
    rockthehourglass Posts: 62 Member
    This could take awhile! I will not date anyone who:

    -expects me to put them above my children
    -lies
    -is involved in illegal activity of any kind
    -smokes
    -cheats
    -lacks ambition
    -doesn't have a good heart
    -has a stick up their *kitten*
    -has no sense of humor
    -doesn't "get" ME (this is what is keeping me single, I'm a little weird!)
    -doesn't think I'm super duper awesomely sexy at any and all times! ;-P

    Wow there has to be more. That's a pretty short list for someone who's been single for six years.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Couldn't accept me for who I am and some of my crazy choices!
    Hasn't heard of the 1 ring to rule them all.
    Has never heard of the force!


    I'm officially interested....:laugh: :wink: :love: :smooched: :drinker::smooched:


    Hahahaha.
    I'm an interesting enigma!

    Shall we meet in Gondor, I'll fly over in my X-wing fighter, lol:laugh: :flowerforyou:


    Mmmmmmmmm . . . the force is strong in this one!!!

    :wink: elf, dwarf, or ewok?:blushing:


    Elf of course, height advantage. But don't quote me, I'll get back to you on that!

    I feel a presence, something I haven't felt in . . .

    This was too cute!

    Maybe we are going to lose 2 members soon?

    That'd be great! :):heart:
    Sadly, she's on the other side of the world,lol

    Pfft, that's what text, email, cellphones, and cams are for!

    @ Gary - You're on the same continent. I would hardly call that the other side of the world.

    @ Windy - Look at you playing matchmaker... you're supposed to matching me up with a guy like PBJunky and/or msf74!! :laugh:
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    I could never date someone who..

    Who talks down about women..
    Use Excessive foul language..
    Smokes...
    Does not take responsibility for anything...
    Does nor Like me for me...
    And more...
  • _beachgirl_
    _beachgirl_ Posts: 3,865 Member
    Couldn't accept me for who I am and some of my crazy choices!
    Hasn't heard of the 1 ring to rule them all.
    Has never heard of the force!


    I'm officially interested....:laugh: :wink: :love: :smooched: :drinker::smooched:
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    Hahahaha.
    I'm an interesting enigma!
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    Shall we meet in Gondor, I'll fly over in my X-wing fighter, lol:laugh: :flowerforyou:
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    Mmmmmmmmm . . . the force is strong in this one!!!
    [/quote]

    :wink: elf, dwarf, or ewok?:blushing:
    [/quote]


    Elf of course, height advantage. But don't quote me, I'll get back to you on that!

    I feel a presence, something I haven't felt in . . .
    [/quote]

    This was too cute!

    Maybe we are going to lose 2 members soon?
    [/quote]

    That'd be great! :):heart:
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    Sadly, she's on the other side of the world,lol
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    Pfft, that's what text, email, cellphones, and cams are for!
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    @ Gary - You're on the same continent. I would hardly call that the other side of the world.

    @ Windy - Look at you playing matchmaker... you're supposed to matching me up with a guy like PBJunky and/or msf74!! :laugh:
    [/quote]

    I have an extremely successful rate as a matchmaker, I am 1 for 1! They've been married about 16 years or so.

    I think the key to being a good matchmaker is being in a relationship, otherwise I'll want to keep all the good ones like msf for myself!
  • Lauren8239
    Lauren8239 Posts: 1,039 Member
    I could never date someone who is an attention junkie or a drama queen/king.
    I'm so sick of people that need drama in their life to feel important.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member

    I have an extremely successful rate as a matchmaker, I am 1 for 1! They've been married about 16 years or so.

    I think the key to being a good matchmaker is being in a relationship, otherwise I'll want to keep all the good ones like msf for myself!

    You can have him Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. I'll take him on Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays... on Sundays we will just have to share!! LOL!! :bigsmile:
  • toots99
    toots99 Posts: 3,794 Member
    Doesn't drink.
  • liveinthemix
    liveinthemix Posts: 360 Member
    ..closed minded
    ..pretentious
    ..taller than me (I'm 6'2)
    ..has ugly feet
  • PedmomJill
    PedmomJill Posts: 505 Member
    Doesn't drink.

    Sadly I agree with you! I'm on a dating website and if they say "never" under drinking I won't respond or email them. I'm not an alcoholic and I don't drink that much, but I feel like the guy would be all judgy if I wanted to drink and he never did. "See, this is why you shouldn't drink"
    I'd fear that's what I'd hear if I drink a little too much once and have a hangover!
  • BigDanTX
    BigDanTX Posts: 92 Member
    I don't get it I always leave the toilet seat up, critique her driving, lie from the beginning, play video games 24/365, never accept her for who she is, and never call when I say I am going to. I'm also hugely materialistic, very controlling, and extremely jealous. Now you're all saying these are bad? Just great...that's the last time I get dating advice by watching MAD MEN.
  • jend114
    jend114 Posts: 1,058 Member
    does drugs
  • I don't get it I always leave the toilet seat up, critique her driving, lie from the beginning, play video games 24/365, never accept her for who she is, and never call when I say I am going to. I'm also hugely materialistic, very controlling, and extremely jealous. Now you're all saying these are bad? Just great...that's the last time I get dating advice by watching MAD MEN.

    *****LIKE******
  • MelissaE27
    MelissaE27 Posts: 682 Member
    For me.. I could never someone who lies to me..also.. who is more absorbed in hobbies than making time for me.. there is more to my list but that's the big ones!
  • catherine4211
    catherine4211 Posts: 944 Member
    ...smokes.
    ...lies.
    ...is personality-free.
    ...is boring.
    ...refuses to let go of the past.
    ...can't or won't communicate, preferring to stay closed-up.
    ...is paranoid.
    ...is jealous.
    ...can't handle the fact that I've got a lotta female friends.
    ...is a dog-hater.

    This.....but I have more guy friends, not female friends (because I'm a girl!!!)
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