I could never date someone who....
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thought id never say this but i could never date someone who doesnt like to exericse or eat healthy0
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can't take a JOKE! I make fun of everything/everyone & expect to get made fun of. I love people making fun of things I say & do so he's gotta reciprocate my humor
being at least 6-foot tall is also a necessity0 -
......... weighed less than me
.......... that I could beat up in a fight.0 -
Doesn't like animals...sets off red flags for me!0
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Doesn't have a pulse.... all others are negotiable :laugh:0
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Doesn't have a pulse.... all others are negotiable :laugh:
LOL
My standards are a little higher than that. I could never date someone who...
...smokes
...is negative more than occasionally
...spends an excessive amount of time or money on big boy toys
...is bipolar (sorry if that's not PC these days, but 15 years was enough of that!)
...does not love me body, mind, and soul
...who likes to sleep every chance they get
...is arrogant
...can't balance life (work/play/family)
...isn't considerably family oriented
...is either extremely slobby or obsessively clean
...who doesn't like sarcastic humour and/or can't laugh at themselves
I've just realized I could go on all day! Given the short, stout thing that I am, maybe that will mean I'll be single a LOOOONG time, but I won't settle. I owe it to me and my kids to have a healthy relationship I enjoy and can be happy in more often than not. (Realizing no relationship is perfect or without bad days, just super sensitive about not getting into another one where it's a daily struggle)0 -
Is always negative and has nothing nice to say about anyone or anything.0
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Honestly...
1. doesn't accept me for the person that I am
2. doesn't accept my kids, my family, or my pets (because I will be giving up none of the above)
3. doesn't realize that we are living two separate lives together (I have my own projects.)
Now that I have formed this list, I realize that all we are really posting is the reasons why we broke up with our exes. Hmmm... :ohwell:
I was so thinking the same thing about our exes!! Only I need to add:
- lets Mama make his every decision in life
- can't hold an interesting conversation
- lies/cheats (BIG ONE)
- has a secret freak life that I just can't handle0 -
LOL would never date a woman who doesn't understand the big boy toy rule....I have money therefore I spend it on my BIG boy toys.0
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doesn't have a sense of humor.
drinks too often!0 -
Couldn't accept me for who I am and some of my crazy choices!
Hasn't heard of the 1 ring to rule them all.
Has never heard of the force!
I'm officially interested....:laugh: :smooched: :drinker::smooched:
Hahahaha.
I'm an interesting enigma!
Shall we meet in Gondor, I'll fly over in my X-wing fighter, lol:laugh: :flowerforyou:
Mmmmmmmmm . . . the force is strong in this one!!!
elf, dwarf, or ewok?:blushing:
Elf of course, height advantage. But don't quote me, I'll get back to you on that!
I feel a presence, something I haven't felt in . . .
This was too cute!
Maybe we are going to lose 2 members soon?0 -
LOL would never date a woman who doesn't understand the big boy toy rule....I have money therefore I spend it on my BIG boy toys.
I have no problem with big boy toys if you HAVE the disposable income for them, and everything else is taken care of. What I refuse to live again is the life of struggling to make ends meet, while hubby is out buying yet another new toy on credit that will be nearly impossible to repay. Yes, obviously baggage from my past...but I had to get a bankruptcy to go with my separation, so I'm a little cautious about getting into the same situation. Basically, to me, I guess it boils down to BALANCE, and I know many, many, many guys who have little of that.0 -
Couldn't accept me for who I am and some of my crazy choices!
Hasn't heard of the 1 ring to rule them all.
Has never heard of the force!
I'm officially interested....:laugh: :smooched: :drinker::smooched:
Hahahaha.
I'm an interesting enigma!
Shall we meet in Gondor, I'll fly over in my X-wing fighter, lol:laugh: :flowerforyou:
Mmmmmmmmm . . . the force is strong in this one!!!
elf, dwarf, or ewok?:blushing:
Elf of course, height advantage. But don't quote me, I'll get back to you on that!
I feel a presence, something I haven't felt in . . .
This was too cute!
Maybe we are going to lose 2 members soon?
That'd be great!0 -
Couldn't accept me for who I am and some of my crazy choices!
Hasn't heard of the 1 ring to rule them all.
Has never heard of the force!
I'm officially interested....:laugh: :smooched: :drinker::smooched:
Hahahaha.
I'm an interesting enigma!
Shall we meet in Gondor, I'll fly over in my X-wing fighter, lol:laugh: :flowerforyou:
Mmmmmmmmm . . . the force is strong in this one!!!
elf, dwarf, or ewok?:blushing:
Elf of course, height advantage. But don't quote me, I'll get back to you on that!
I feel a presence, something I haven't felt in . . .
This was too cute!
Maybe we are going to lose 2 members soon?
That'd be great!0 -
Couldn't accept me for who I am and some of my crazy choices!
Hasn't heard of the 1 ring to rule them all.
Has never heard of the force!
I'm officially interested....:laugh: :smooched: :drinker::smooched:
Hahahaha.
I'm an interesting enigma!
Shall we meet in Gondor, I'll fly over in my X-wing fighter, lol:laugh: :flowerforyou:
Mmmmmmmmm . . . the force is strong in this one!!!
elf, dwarf, or ewok?:blushing:
Elf of course, height advantage. But don't quote me, I'll get back to you on that!
I feel a presence, something I haven't felt in . . .
This was too cute!
Maybe we are going to lose 2 members soon?
That'd be great!
Pfft, that's what text, email, cellphones, and cams are for!0 -
was materialistic.
has no sense of humor.
is controlling
is jealous.0 -
This could take awhile! I will not date anyone who:
-expects me to put them above my children
-lies
-is involved in illegal activity of any kind
-smokes
-cheats
-lacks ambition
-doesn't have a good heart
-has a stick up their *kitten*
-has no sense of humor
-doesn't "get" ME (this is what is keeping me single, I'm a little weird!)
-doesn't think I'm super duper awesomely sexy at any and all times! ;-P
Wow there has to be more. That's a pretty short list for someone who's been single for six years.0 -
Couldn't accept me for who I am and some of my crazy choices!
Hasn't heard of the 1 ring to rule them all.
Has never heard of the force!
I'm officially interested....:laugh: :smooched: :drinker::smooched:
Hahahaha.
I'm an interesting enigma!
Shall we meet in Gondor, I'll fly over in my X-wing fighter, lol:laugh: :flowerforyou:
Mmmmmmmmm . . . the force is strong in this one!!!
elf, dwarf, or ewok?:blushing:
Elf of course, height advantage. But don't quote me, I'll get back to you on that!
I feel a presence, something I haven't felt in . . .
This was too cute!
Maybe we are going to lose 2 members soon?
That'd be great!
Pfft, that's what text, email, cellphones, and cams are for!
@ Gary - You're on the same continent. I would hardly call that the other side of the world.
@ Windy - Look at you playing matchmaker... you're supposed to matching me up with a guy like PBJunky and/or msf74!! :laugh:0 -
I could never date someone who..
Who talks down about women..
Use Excessive foul language..
Smokes...
Does not take responsibility for anything...
Does nor Like me for me...
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Couldn't accept me for who I am and some of my crazy choices!
Hasn't heard of the 1 ring to rule them all.
Has never heard of the force!
I'm officially interested....:laugh: :smooched: :drinker::smooched:
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Hahahaha.
I'm an interesting enigma!
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Shall we meet in Gondor, I'll fly over in my X-wing fighter, lol:laugh: :flowerforyou:
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Mmmmmmmmm . . . the force is strong in this one!!!
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elf, dwarf, or ewok?:blushing:
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Elf of course, height advantage. But don't quote me, I'll get back to you on that!
I feel a presence, something I haven't felt in . . .
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This was too cute!
Maybe we are going to lose 2 members soon?
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That'd be great!
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Sadly, she's on the other side of the world,lol
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Pfft, that's what text, email, cellphones, and cams are for!
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@ Gary - You're on the same continent. I would hardly call that the other side of the world.
@ Windy - Look at you playing matchmaker... you're supposed to matching me up with a guy like PBJunky and/or msf74!! :laugh:
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I have an extremely successful rate as a matchmaker, I am 1 for 1! They've been married about 16 years or so.
I think the key to being a good matchmaker is being in a relationship, otherwise I'll want to keep all the good ones like msf for myself!0 -
I could never date someone who is an attention junkie or a drama queen/king.
I'm so sick of people that need drama in their life to feel important.0 -
I have an extremely successful rate as a matchmaker, I am 1 for 1! They've been married about 16 years or so.
I think the key to being a good matchmaker is being in a relationship, otherwise I'll want to keep all the good ones like msf for myself!
You can have him Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. I'll take him on Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays... on Sundays we will just have to share!! LOL!! :bigsmile:0 -
Doesn't drink.0
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..closed minded
..pretentious
..taller than me (I'm 6'2)
..has ugly feet0 -
Doesn't drink.
Sadly I agree with you! I'm on a dating website and if they say "never" under drinking I won't respond or email them. I'm not an alcoholic and I don't drink that much, but I feel like the guy would be all judgy if I wanted to drink and he never did. "See, this is why you shouldn't drink"
I'd fear that's what I'd hear if I drink a little too much once and have a hangover!0 -
I don't get it I always leave the toilet seat up, critique her driving, lie from the beginning, play video games 24/365, never accept her for who she is, and never call when I say I am going to. I'm also hugely materialistic, very controlling, and extremely jealous. Now you're all saying these are bad? Just great...that's the last time I get dating advice by watching MAD MEN.0
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does drugs0
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I don't get it I always leave the toilet seat up, critique her driving, lie from the beginning, play video games 24/365, never accept her for who she is, and never call when I say I am going to. I'm also hugely materialistic, very controlling, and extremely jealous. Now you're all saying these are bad? Just great...that's the last time I get dating advice by watching MAD MEN.
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For me.. I could never someone who lies to me..also.. who is more absorbed in hobbies than making time for me.. there is more to my list but that's the big ones!0
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...smokes.
...lies.
...is personality-free.
...is boring.
...refuses to let go of the past.
...can't or won't communicate, preferring to stay closed-up.
...is paranoid.
...is jealous.
...can't handle the fact that I've got a lotta female friends.
...is a dog-hater.
This.....but I have more guy friends, not female friends (because I'm a girl!!!)0
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