I could never date someone who....
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Ok time to be serious on here...this is my criteria:
...smokes.
...lies.
...is personality-free.
...is boring.
...refuses to let go of the past.
...can't or won't communicate, preferring to stay closed-up.
...is paranoid.
...is jealous.
...can't handle the fact that I've got a lotta female friends.
...wears to much make up (not into the clown prostitute look)
...doesn't workout or lead an active lifestyle
...starts talking about the future on the 1st date
...starts talking about themselves and their kids as a package deal on the 1st date
...their favorite subject is themselves
...they talk all the time
...they talk about work constantly
...They want to sit on the couch and watch TV after work, then fall asleep0 -
lies
smokes
drinks too much
who doesn't make me laugh
has an ego
controlling
jealous
irresponsible
lazy
doesn't like animals (cats in general)
I'm sure I'm missing some but this is the jist.0 -
...smokes.
...lies.
...is personality-free.
...is boring.
...refuses to let go of the past.
...can't or won't communicate, preferring to stay closed-up.
...is paranoid.
...is jealous.
adding...
...doesn't understand that my cat is important to me and that I can't just leave him or get another one later.
...easily influenced by friends and family's opinions, doesn't make their own choices.
...no interest in healthy eating, exercise, or being active.0 -
does drugs.
has a different political view than I do.
doesn't like my family.0 -
stinks.................0
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stinks.................
I read this and my first though was "Axe". :laugh:0 -
Pretty hot topic...
...isn't a Christian
...isn't considerate
...cheats/lies
...doesn't want children or says they want children and you witness them around children, realize they aren't father material.
...doesn't have college degree
...is emotionally unavailable, closed-off
...doesn't communicate
...smokes
...drinks too much, and doesn't realize they drink too much
...can't hold an intelligent conversation
wait this is about dating not marriage...kind of the same end goal I guess0 -
Doesn't drink.
Sadly I agree with you! I'm on a dating website and if they say "never" under drinking I won't respond or email them. I'm not an alcoholic and I don't drink that much, but I feel like the guy would be all judgy if I wanted to drink and he never did. "See, this is why you shouldn't drink"
I'd fear that's what I'd hear if I drink a little too much once and have a hangover!
I agree!0 -
stinks.................
I read this and my first though was "Axe". :laugh:
lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:laugh:0 -
Hmmm, only real deal-breakers I can think of are...
smoking
excessive drinking
excessive tattoos
already has kids (not quite ready to deal with that yet)
emotionally unstable ( sort've vague I guess.... just no crazies please )0 -
Hmmm, only real deal-breakers I can think of are...
smoking
excessive drinking
excessive tattoos
already has kids (not quite ready to deal with that yet)
emotionally unstable ( sort've vague I guess.... just no crazies please )
Ok so I meet all of the above requirements..... Apart from one.....................
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Hmmm, only real deal-breakers I can think of are...
smoking
excessive drinking
excessive tattoos
already has kids (not quite ready to deal with that yet)
emotionally unstable ( sort've vague I guess.... just no crazies please )
Ok so I meet all of the above requirements..... Apart from one.....................
Ah, which one? The last one? You seem fine to me so maybe one of the others?0 -
Hmmm, only real deal-breakers I can think of are...
smoking
excessive drinking
excessive tattoos
already has kids (not quite ready to deal with that yet)
emotionally unstable ( sort've vague I guess.... just no crazies please )
Ok so I meet all of the above requirements..... Apart from one.....................
Ah, which one? The last one? You seem fine to me so maybe one of the others?
The last one. But I am not crazy ...just to clear that part up. And I am not unstable either0 -
Oh, well no problem there then
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Oh, well no problem there then
Well then :flowerforyou:0 -
.....who allows me to walk all over him and have all the control. Passive men are so unattractive.0
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doesn't like animals...0
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...doesn't think nerdy is cool (I'm nerdy! lol)
...complains/whines all the time
...is constantly negative/glass-half-empty about things
...is overly materialistic
I was married to someone who was the last 3 things on my list.....yeah, no thanks, never again!0 -
Couldn't accept me for who I am and some of my crazy choices!
Hasn't heard of the 1 ring to rule them all.
Has never heard of the force!
I'm officially interested....:laugh:
:smooched: :drinker::smooched:
Hahahaha.
I'm an interesting enigma!
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Shall we meet in Gondor, I'll fly over in my X-wing fighter, lol:laugh: :flowerforyou:
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Mmmmmmmmm . . . the force is strong in this one!!!
[/quote] elf, dwarf, or ewok?:blushing:
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Elf of course, height advantage. But don't quote me, I'll get back to you on that!
I feel a presence, something I haven't felt in . . .
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This was too cute!
Maybe we are going to lose 2 members soon?
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That'd be great!
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Sadly, she's on the other side of the world,lol
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Pfft, that's what text, email, cellphones, and cams are for!
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@ Gary - You're on the same continent. I would hardly call that the other side of the world.
@ Windy - Look at you playing matchmaker... you're supposed to matching me up with a guy like PBJunky and/or msf74!! :laugh:
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I have an extremely successful rate as a matchmaker, I am 1 for 1! They've been married about 16 years or so.
I think the key to being a good matchmaker is being in a relationship, otherwise I'll want to keep all the good ones like msf for myself!
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Oh this is too cool. Can't let ya down.
Ok, I'll start saving!0 -
I could never date someone who votes Republican.0
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... smokes
... does drugs
... drinks to excess
... plays video games to excess
... doesn't love my dog
... doesn't like to do dishes (deal breaker... I love to cook but HATE doing the dishes )
... leaves the toilet seat up0 -
Who
- Is always late
- Smokes
- Doesn't get my randomness
- Shuts themself off
- Doesn't like sports
- Isn't active in their own hobbies
- Will not show at least a little interest into what my main interests (doesn't have to fully love or particiate in them but at least ask)
- Drinks all the time (every once in awhile fine but shouldn't be the main liquid they drink)0 -
I could never date someone who.....(do we have enough time lol)
doesn't have a spiritual life.
not family orientated.
can't act like a complete idiot just because it's fun!!!0 -
- smokes
- thinks physical abuse is ok (and that goes for every other form of abuse while I'm at it)
- respects my role as a single mom and student
- doesn't ask to meet my kids on the first date (skeeves me out)
- doesn't have a job, their own vehicle, and their own place. Not trying to be snobby, but I've been there done that and I'm not playing mommy to anyone else but my kids.
- curses a lot. I'm also a Christian lady and that is NOT acceptable.
- doesn't have an education beyond high school. again, nothing personal or anything, I just identify better with others who are also pursuing an education0 -
Who
- Is always late
- Smokes
- Doesn't get my randomness
- Shuts themself off
- Doesn't like sports
- Isn't active in their own hobbies
- Will not show at least a little interest into what my main interests (doesn't have to fully love or particiate in them but at least ask)
- Drinks all the time (every once in awhile fine but shouldn't be the main liquid they drink)
I agree on the drinking! Not attractive.0 -
-Couldn't carry on an intelligent conversation.
-Didn't have my sense of humour.
-Smokes
-Tries to be 'macho'. I really hate that.
-Hates animals and children0 -
i can never date someone who..
-won't try to improve themselves.
-is controlling!! (the whole reason why my ex is an ex)
-eats unhealthy all the time and expects me to eat unhealthy too, not cool!
-doesn't have their own vehicle..
-who still lives with their parents
-smokes
-drinks too much.
... omg I'm so picky. lol!0 -
I would say I could never date someone who lies or cheats, but you know, those guys never seem to wear a t-shirt saying so for easy identification. Go figure. I of course won't knowingly date someone who lies or cheats, but who would?0
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Doesn't know the difference between "there, their, and they're" and when to utilize them textually.0
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.....can't carry on an intelligent conversation...
.....isn't intimidated by the lightsaber in my bedroom...(yeah I"m a geek.. bonus points if he knows to whom it belongs)
.....technologically savvy...
.....smokes...
.....can't make me laugh...
the rest are fully negotiable.0
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