Metabolism in Your 40's
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Right there with you all about being slim and not thinking about weight ... until ... One piece of advice I recently received from my trainer: Eat every 3 hours about 200-300 calories whether you want to or not. Balance this food throughout the whole day to keep your body (metabolism) burning. Also, of course, build muscle, it burns fat.
We don't have to stand by and be victims - let's be victors!
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I was the same, slim in my twenties and thirties then I got hit with hypothyroidism and gained 40 lbs. Have tried and not successfully lost some weight to gain it back again. This time, I am trying the Body By Vi and using the fitness pal to really monitor what I put into my body....I am very optimistic!
The 40's seems to the deal breaker when it comes to women packing on weight. Must be hormonal and long-time bad habits finally catching up on us.0 -
I'm coming to realize that technology has a lot to do with things also. I remember back in 20s I had much more energy and never gained any way - but I had to already realize that I didn't have a car, I partied like a rock star whenever I could (loved to dance), I had a small child, and I walked to majority of the places I needed to get to...so without even realizing it, I was burning off the calories that I was eating. Then in my 30s, I started picking up the weight slowly....I got a car, I started parking as close a possible to a store entrance, I stopped partying so much, starting cooking way more because of my family...I slowed down tremendously.
Now approaching 40's door and I'm the biggest I've ever been. I believe I'm being more active than I used to be but it having the hardest time getting the weight off. I am watching my portions too. I know I'm always tired and I am thinking I may be entering the peri-menopausal phase of my life also which will probably add to things.
I'm just hoping that I can get motivated through this website and finding some friends (on here) to help push me and get me back down at least 20-25 lbs lighter. I'm certain if I took that weight off, I'll probably have more energy and feel better overall.0 -
wow i hear ya there, (but i haven't had a hysterectomy) but i can't miss meals or else i feel sick. I try to eat 6 small meals a day to keep my metabolism going but i am not sure if that is working.
But I am glad to here i am not the only one. It has been hard and my metabolism is very slow. I started this in Nov. and only lost 14 lbs. Still trying to get to the 15 lb mark but it seems that i either go up or stay where i am at. It has been a struggle but i will get there, just have to stay positive and keep working out.
Hang in there!! 0 -
Yeah...I have always had weight issues, but I have also been active for most of my life. Now that I am getting closer to 50 (EEK), it takes SO MUCH effort to lose weight & get in shape. I have never been rail thin, but I am definitely stronger that I ever have been. And, what happened to getting older & needing LESS food...NOT HAPPENING!!!!0
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I was effortlessly skinny until I hit 40; seriously. I never stepped on scale, didn't exercise and could eat and drink what I wanted.
I went back on the birth control pill around 40 to control my horrendous cramps. I don't care what anyone says; maybe the Pill doesn't make you gain weight, but it sure made it easier for me to gain weight. That and I am sure my metabolism slowed down.
I stayed on the Pill but managed to lose my weight.
I went on Mirena & it has helped so much with the cramps and heavy flow....0 -
Mirena for me as well. Glorious! Metabolism is a bad joke for those of us aging.0
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I was a non maintenance skinny girl for a long time and then mid 30's I was on an ssri that ballooned me up 50 pounds. i carried it for years and when i went off the meds it did not come off. I did some pretty consistant wine drinking that helped keep me fat.
My OB/GYN said "Girl, you better get this weigh off before the Menopuase fairy gets here or it will never come off!" I ignored her for the most part.
But being perimenopausal for the last 4 years (BECAUSE of the fat and storing estrogen in the fat cells) and what it hought was a back problem, I joined pilates and strengthened from within and about 2 years into it, I decided I am ready to lose this weight and having the muscle from pilates has been so crucial to the weight loss. I never planned this out it was just a series of events.
My body freaked out in October and the periods stopped and then in December the weight loss stopped and decided to stall me, again my OB after applauding my weight loss said my hormones need to recalculate as well as my metabolism. I tried the plateau breakers, the spike days etc. Not sure what clicked-propbably laying off wine during the week was key and now I am losing everyday.
My point being, I feel ya and at 47 I am trying to get to a weight that I can live with if I am going to reach a point of no return after menopause, it sounds like the end of the metabolism road! That being said....I enjoy being a girl!0 -
My OB/GYN said "Girl, you better get this weigh off before the Menopuase fairy gets here or it will never come off!" I ignored her for the most part.
My point being, I feel ya and at 47 I am trying to get to a weight that I can live with if I am going to reach a point of no return after menopause, it sounds like the end of the metabolism road! That being said....I enjoy being a girl!
Oh my goodness, I wish someone warned me before the slow down. I would have been a little more diligent these past 5 years. It is a matter of figuring out what weight you can live with.
I read the book Outsmarting the Midlife Fat Cell: Winning Weight Control Strategies for Women Over 35 to Stay Fit Through Menopause and it mentions that the fat on the belly is to compensate making estrogen for us. Thank you fat? She says that your body needs some fat at this point of the transition so you need to come to terms with a weight you can live with, but it probably will be more than high school/college weight, if you know what I mean.
The good news, I heard anyway, is that once you are through menopause, if you continue with good workouts, especially muscle building, you do have a chance to lose those pesky pounds. Your body at this point doesn't need the estrogen, so you can burn that extra fat off. I hope this is right!
Here's to kicking that menopause fairy's butt! ;O) LOL!0 -
I turned 40 last November and decided it was time to change my life. I can't say my metabolism had slowed but my motivation had.................through my entire 30's. I've lost around 50 lbs since last November. For me it just a matter of ambition and motivation vs the lack of.
I agree! Losing weight definitely has taken more motivation and time out of me. Turning 40 hit me like a ton of bricks. Seemed like everything was changing. I'll be 42 this year and this is the year I plan on looking and feeling the best that I ever have, I'm so much more motivated and determined then ever. It is a challange though with a job and kids that demand so much of my time but it'll be worth it to feel healthy and to show my kids what to takes to be healthy and stay that way.0 -
I also never tried to lose weight until recently in my 40s--I was always pretty thin--so I don't know if this would have necessarily been easier previously. I've gained some weight mainly by not making good dietary choices--I been exercising all along, but I now find that I can't eat and drink like I did in my 20s and 30s so it's caught up to me over the past 2-3 years. My calorie intake has been pretty low since I started tracking on MFP and I will say that I bet 10-15 years I would have seen more progress a lot faster if I had been restricting calories like this. I think we just have to be more strict (unfortunately) in dietary choices most of the time in order to maintain (and/or lose) as we grow older. That doesn't mean we can't eat that piece of cake from time to time, but then we'll need to eat grilled chicken and salad the next day. 40 is still young enough to exercise hard and really push ourselves and cardio and weight training help increase metabolism (the more muscle you have, the more calories you get to eat to maintain it) so the biggest challenge (I think) is just being disciplined more consistently--and I got to be skinny for the first 40 years of my life so maybe I should be thankful for that!0
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i'm 43 and remember being told 'wait till you turn 40...it'll be so hard to lose weight'. swear to god - the second i turned 40 and BAM it's soooo much harder. i remember being able to lose weight with minimal effort now it's like monumentally difficult and the weight loss is so slow! for what it's worth, the thing that's been working for me as of late is having smaller and more frequent meals. i have 2 or 3 100 calorie or so snacks throughout the day and that seems to help. it certainly helps me to not feel starved and deprived all the time which is the diet philosophy i've subscribed to all of my adult life. oh and just for extra fun did i mention i married a man 8 years younger who has a physical job who can drop 5 pounds in a week by leaving cheese off his burger? sigh. thanks for the support everyone! it helps so much to know there are so many out there going through the same thing!0
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I am 41 and def feeling it is slower to lose weight. I am trying to keep a daily exercise schedule, or at least 5 days a week..and of corse eating better, and staying away from the wine!! I too have a husband that is 2 years younger and drops weight at the thought of it, so I know your pain!!! I am trying to keep up with him...lol!0
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I have to say yep the older you get the slower your metabolism, I have been watching my calories even down to the tootsie roll and smarties (last night - emotional eating - up until 2:30am) and I have actually gained a pound - how is that even possible. I am probably going to have to go on low carb again, only thing that seems to work for me.
I hate this. I am glad for these boards - atleast people can understand, instead of saying - oh you look fine, blah blah blah.0 -
My goal right now is to purchase a heart rate monitor, very important, get in your zone and then intervals inbetween. Maybe that will help. I work out basically everyday. Haven't been to the gym in a while, kids in school, running around to sporting events, husband working afternoons every other month and working full time. I have a ton of videos, weights, treadmill, bike so I do that. I am also thinking about another jump rope.0
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Menopause, ugh, can't even stand the word, I have friends who have gone through it and they said same thing lose it now or you will have that plus 10.0
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I wish I liked to run, hate it. My 15 year old actually said I was too old to get back down to 135. She told me some of her friends weigh that and someone my age shouldnt. Wow, hit the floor on that one. (as bad as the husband saying just accept it, you are going to get bigger) ..... HELP0
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I remember noticing a change in my metabolism back when I turned 30. I stopped working out for a while and got complacent and all of a sudden I was turning 39 and in the worst shape of my life. I made a commitment to myself that by age 40 I would be in the best shape of my life. I trained hard and ate well and I accomplished that goal. I'll be 42 in May and I can honestly say that ever since I made the commitment to myself I've continued to get healthier, leaner and stronger. I can't say that I'm the strongest I've ever been but I'm certainly that healthiest. I have not noticed a change in metabolism since the time I turned 30. Hopefully I can continue at this pace for a while. If you commit to making the change, any biological changes can be overcome with hard work and discipline. Good luck to all in your quest for healthy living.0
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I have friends who have gone through it and they said same thing lose it now or you will have that plus 10.
I hate it when women discourage each other like that. I think it is a way to excuse themselves from trying. And if you don't, you will reinforce their excuses. They need you to buy into that. Women long into middle age have gotten in shape.
As for husbands... yeah, they have their reasons for discouraging us, too. (So do our daughters).
Look at Rita Moreno, who is still dancing in at nearly 80 - strong and fabulous. Look at Diane Nyad swimming around the clock (literally) into her 60s... There are wonderful women who have gone through menopause without thinking it meant they had passed a point of no return - to be strong, sexy, agile etc. etc. etc. I think we are the crap we buy when it comes to "conventional wisdom". 0 -
Yes me to. but i was hurt at work and gained 45 pounds, and i can only do so much.0
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I too have the same problem. I get so envious of my husband who can drop like 20lbs in six months and I am still only maintaining my weight. I was also given the same warnings when I was young about your metabolism slowing down and didn't really pay much attention either. I never really had a weight problem growing up except for the typical 5 lbs us girls always wanted to lose but now that I am older I can't believe how my weight has turned out.0
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I miss the days from my 20's where I could lose a pound a day. **Sigh** Now I struggle to lose a pound a week! It's payback I guess.0
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I was also thinner when I was younger. I hit 40 and the weight started creeping on. I've gained 20-25 lbs (not sure, I never weighed myself when I was younger) over the last 5 or 6 years and I want to lose that.0
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Mine slowed too but in someways that was a good thing when I started to exercise but had to adjust my eating habits. Less fat, smaller portions, more frequent has been working for me.
It was a mental challenge getting to this comfortable level though for about 2 years.0 -
I was exactly like you!!! (Although, no hysterectomy)
I actually became anemic & hypoglycemic! It sucks!!
When I don't eat...my ear just starts "roaring", and I get lightheaded & dizzy! I've also been known to end up with massive migraines & sick to my stomach, if my blood sugars get too low!
It's weird...but something I must deal with everyday!0 -
I gained weight in my 20's, lost it the wrong way & gained even more back in my 30's.
Since about 38 got it off the right way & kept it off & now at 40 i'm looking to see how lean I can get.
But man, people the same weight as me but 10yrs younger are losing fat on 1,000 calories a day more than me.
That kinda sucks.
So yeah i'd say my metabolism is slower.
Or those younger guys just a lot more active than me in their day-to-day.0 -
I want to be the opposite - better off in my 40s than ever before. I was heavy all my life (childhood on). About 5 years ago, I lost most of the excess weight but derailed myself during a stressful time (opening my husband's restaurant, his sudden passing 5 days before opening - not fun). But I'm picking myself up, dusting myself off, and getting back on track.
I am officially, this month, in menopause and you know what? Maybe I won't have the hormonal surges that make me ravenous. I've also been very anemic all of my life and now that should improve. I am currently looking for a regular GP so that I can get some numbers run. I've been blessed by the genes fairy (very low blood pressure, low cholesterol, etc.), but I still need to check in with a doc I guess!
Anyway, my focus now is strength training. If I'm wearing the right sizes and have the right numbers (heart rate, blood pressure, etc.), I don't care what the scale says. Strong people live longer - period. Plus all that muscle burns calories 24/7.
One of the biggest reasons our metabolisms slow down as we get older is that we've lost muscle mass. But that's something in my control. Plus, I just feel better mentally if I'm consistent with strength training.0 -
I completely agree. I am in my mid 40's and it seems that no matter how hard I work I always seem to maintain. I sometimes feel like I have mastered the maintaining aspect of my weight but my body seems to fight me pound for pound when it comes to losing. It is hard to not get discouraged but when I read other people's success stories that are around my age I know it will eventually work. Just trying to stay focused. Dam the speedy metabolism - wish those days were back.0
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Even saying this makes me feel old! I remember being told, "Your metabolism will slow down when you get older", and I always blew it off. Now, here I am!
Exactly! We never thought it would happen to us!
My metabolism changed because of how I ate not because I'm getting older. I eat 5 smaller meals a day and its kicked my metabolism back into gear.0 -
Our metabolism slows but not as much as we think. I am 49 and I burn 300 less cals per day than a 20 yr old.
Here's the rough part. 300 cals per day doesn't sound like a lot but in one month that's 9,000 calories or about 3 lbs. In one year, about 30 lbs so see how it adds up?0
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