results of my first date!!!

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  • acasey0123
    acasey0123 Posts: 640 Member
    Many people wanted to know how the date went... So we met each other at the bowling alley and played a couple of games of bowling and umm we stunk.. Too many gutters but we were laughing and having fun but he didn't make a move :(. So we were in the parking lot and we were wondering to do next after 15 minutes we decided to go back to mine and make brownies and watch a movie. Then while watching the movie he cuddled with me. After the movie was over. HE kissed me right on the lips it was fireworks then after we made out he had to go home since he has work in the morning :( I told him next time to bring a change of clothes and he agreed :). When he was leaving I suggested a hiking date next weekend and for him to choose a date for Tuesday.
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    Many people wanted to know how the date went... So we met each other at the bowling alley and played a couple of games of bowling and umm we stunk.. Too many gutters but we were laughing and having fun but he didn't make a move :(. So we were in the parking lot and we were wondering to do next after 15 minutes we decided to go back to mine and make brownies and watch a movie. Then while watching the movie he cuddled with me. After the movie was over. HE kissed me right on the lips it was fireworks then after we made out he had to go home since he has work in the morning :( I told him next time to bring a change of clothes and he agreed :). When he was leaving I suggested a hiking date next weekend and for him to choose a date for Tuesday.

    Yaaay! I just read this whole thread and it made me warm and fuzzy inside. :)

    Now I want to go to the mall..

    (Robin's "Let's Go To The Mall" song from HIMYM in my head...)

    Keep us posted! Sounds like a winner! And brownies sound too delicious right now. Stupid TOM...
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member
    Many people wanted to know how the date went... So we met each other at the bowling alley and played a couple of games of bowling and umm we stunk.. Too many gutters but we were laughing and having fun but he didn't make a move :(. So we were in the parking lot and we were wondering to do next after 15 minutes we decided to go back to mine and make brownies and watch a movie. Then while watching the movie he cuddled with me. After the movie was over. HE kissed me right on the lips it was fireworks then after we made out he had to go home since he has work in the morning :( I told him next time to bring a change of clothes and he agreed :). When he was leaving I suggested a hiking date next weekend and for him to choose a date for Tuesday.

    RESULT! Well done, girl :happy: :flowerforyou:
  • toots99
    toots99 Posts: 3,794 Member
    Very cool! :love:
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    Many people wanted to know how the date went... So we met each other at the bowling alley and played a couple of games of bowling and umm we stunk.. Too many gutters but we were laughing and having fun but he didn't make a move :(. So we were in the parking lot and we were wondering to do next after 15 minutes we decided to go back to mine and make brownies and watch a movie. Then while watching the movie he cuddled with me. After the movie was over. HE kissed me right on the lips it was fireworks then after we made out he had to go home since he has work in the morning :( I told him next time to bring a change of clothes and he agreed :). When he was leaving I suggested a hiking date next weekend and for him to choose a date for Tuesday.

    Change of clothes :wink: BROWN CHICKEN BROWN COWWWW
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member

    Yaaay! I just read this whole thread and it made me warm and fuzzy inside. :)

    Now I want to go to the mall..

    (Robin's "Let's Go To The Mall" song from HIMYM in my head...)

    Keep us posted! Sounds like a winner! And brownies sound too delicious right now. Stupid TOM...

    Hahahah maybe I will stalk out the mall tomorrow and actually look cute. There was a cute guy at B&N last time I went but I my hair had doing something funny and was sticking out in all directions so I didn't approach.

    Maybe I need to dress like this

    robinsparkles.jpg
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member
    Can't see the dress! Repost!! :happy:
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Yipeeeeeeeee!! So pleased for you honey :smooched:
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    Hahahah maybe I will stalk out the mall tomorrow and actually look cute. There was a cute guy at B&N last time I went

    I have a friend who does this... at least once a day she goes soemwhere (mall, bookstore, etc) just to walk around, be cute, and be seen. I think she got the idea from one of those "Rules" books. She certainly gets a lot of dates. Maybe she was on to something after all.

    To OP: so happy for you!
  • jend114
    jend114 Posts: 1,058 Member
    Many people wanted to know how the date went... So we met each other at the bowling alley and played a couple of games of bowling and umm we stunk.. Too many gutters but we were laughing and having fun but he didn't make a move :(. So we were in the parking lot and we were wondering to do next after 15 minutes we decided to go back to mine and make brownies and watch a movie. Then while watching the movie he cuddled with me. After the movie was over. HE kissed me right on the lips it was fireworks then after we made out he had to go home since he has work in the morning :( I told him next time to bring a change of clothes and he agreed :). When he was leaving I suggested a hiking date next weekend and for him to choose a date for Tuesday.


    awww! so happy for you!
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    Can't see the dress! Repost!! :happy:

    It's a picture from HIMYM - Robin Sparkles "Let's Go To The Mall"
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    Can't see the dress! Repost!! :happy:

    It's a picture from HIMYM - Robin Sparkles "Let's Go To The Mall"

    *love*
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    Hahahah maybe I will stalk out the mall tomorrow and actually look cute. There was a cute guy at B&N last time I went

    I have a friend who does this... at least once a day she goes soemwhere (mall, bookstore, etc) just to walk around, be cute, and be seen. I think she got the idea from one of those "Rules" books. She certainly gets a lot of dates. Maybe she was on to something after all.

    To OP: so happy for you!

    This is a fantastic idea.. now if only I could find out some way to magically cure hangovers so I COULD do this on weekend days. Hmmm.. :glasses:
  • PeekABooGirl
    PeekABooGirl Posts: 218 Member
    That's so awesome!!!! I just read the whole thread and it's such a great lil' story! Truely romantic. And I LOVE that he waited till date #3 to kiss you. That, to me, shows restraint and respect. I think if a guy is too eager to be physical to fast, it doesn't feel as if it's YOU he's interested in. SO the mere fact that he waited, makes me feel like he's really into you!

    We want another update!!!
  • acasey0123
    acasey0123 Posts: 640 Member
    Can't see the dress! Repost!! :happy:

    It's a picture from HIMYM - Robin Sparkles "Let's Go To The Mall"

    *love*

    hahahaaha
  • Learning2LuvLindsay
    Learning2LuvLindsay Posts: 1,142 Member
    Many people wanted to know how the date went... So we met each other at the bowling alley and played a couple of games of bowling and umm we stunk.. Too many gutters but we were laughing and having fun but he didn't make a move :(. So we were in the parking lot and we were wondering to do next after 15 minutes we decided to go back to mine and make brownies and watch a movie. Then while watching the movie he cuddled with me. After the movie was over. HE kissed me right on the lips it was fireworks then after we made out he had to go home since he has work in the morning :( I told him next time to bring a change of clothes and he agreed :). When he was leaving I suggested a hiking date next weekend and for him to choose a date for Tuesday.

    Wow you go girl! Keep us updated!
  • echeindl
    echeindl Posts: 320 Member
    Cutest story ever! Makes me jealouss
  • calvert6183
    calvert6183 Posts: 539 Member
    Good story. I think its awesome you met someone that you are interested in getting to know and you are seeing him again. DOnt over think things, whatever you end up doing, just enjoy it and have fun. Like someone else said, a festival is fun, hiking, grab a beer, Dave and Busters, playing a sport are good or anywhere that isnt real quiet. Quiet places can be akward if two people are nervous and shy. One last thing, about your comment "was thinking that he wasnt going to text me and it was a loss cause because he is HANDSOME and skinny and Im well......not :/", please dont ever say anything like this to him. You have no reason to say this. He knows you are very stunning and wants to see you again. Men like confidence. No one is out of your league. You will do well on your date. Have fun.
  • acasey0123
    acasey0123 Posts: 640 Member
    One last thing, about your comment "was thinking that he wasnt going to text me and it was a loss cause because he is

    I would never say this to him but I still feel like it
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    One last thing, about your comment "was thinking that he wasnt going to text me and it was a loss cause because he is HANDSOME and skinny and Im well......not :/", please dont ever say anything like this to him. You have no reason to say this. He knows you are very stunning and wants to see you again. Men like confidence. No one is out of your league. You will do well on your date. Have fun.

    I agree!! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Dont ever put yourself down, as when he sees you, he sees beauty! Otherwise he wouldnt be with you. End of! :flowerforyou:
  • acasey0123
    acasey0123 Posts: 640 Member
    so yesterday he came over and we made dinner from scratch and watched a movie. He ended up staying the night. Im gonna see him friday night. I'm also on friday going to meet his parents because Im staying over his parents' house because on sat we are going on a hike near his parents' house. I dont know where I stand with him, do I confront him? and if so how?
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    I dont know where I stand with him, do I confront him? and if so how?

    Confront him about what? I missed something... going through the thread I only see issue with kissing, but he did that. This is the guy you met maybe 2 weeks ago, right? Or did I miss the discussion from another thread?
  • acasey0123
    acasey0123 Posts: 640 Member
    I dont know where I stand with him, do I confront him? and if so how?

    Confront him about what? I missed something... going through the thread I only see issue with kissing, but he did that. This is the guy you met maybe 2 weeks ago, right? Or did I miss the discussion from another thread?

    since im meeting his parents on friday i wanna know if we are bf/gf
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    I dont know where I stand with him, do I confront him? and if so how?

    Confront him about what? I missed something... going through the thread I only see issue with kissing, but he did that. This is the guy you met maybe 2 weeks ago, right? Or did I miss the discussion from another thread?

    since im meeting his parents on friday i wanna know if we are bf/gf

    I would just act like it's no big deal.. let him make the moves. Just be pleasant and calm. :)
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    Btw, are you okay with meeting his parents this soon? And staying at their house?

    I wouldn't be.. lol, but that's just me.

    edit: Also, just wait and see how he introduces you to his parents. If he calls you his girlfriend without even talking to you about it, I'd definitely have a talk with him.
  • acasey0123
    acasey0123 Posts: 640 Member
    Btw, are you okay with meeting his parents this soon? And staying at their house?

    im actually okay with it... I just wanna know where we stand even though ive like known him for like 2 weeks
  • 2stepz
    2stepz Posts: 814 Member
    Just ask him... "So... am I your girlfriend now, or what?" and explain why you're asking.
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056
    Oh snap! Mayday mayday ...do not confront or ask anything of the sort! It is way too early! Maybe ask him what his parentz think you are to him...but don't throw out the bf/gf thing!
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    I dont know where I stand with him, do I confront him? and if so how?

    Confront him about what? I missed something... going through the thread I only see issue with kissing, but he did that. This is the guy you met maybe 2 weeks ago, right? Or did I miss the discussion from another thread?

    since im meeting his parents on friday i wanna know if we are bf/gf

    I would ask him before you go to the parents. It is important to get that delineation down (used to be a foregone conclusion if you met the parents, but kids these days). Just ask if you're exclusive. Then wait to see how he introduces you.
  • Jarnard
    Jarnard Posts: 497 Member
    Thats awesome! Keep us posted on the next date. :)