Hitting the Wall..
Raynn1
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I am hitting the wall hard this week.
I am 9-10 weeks into this journey and I today I am no better off than I was when I began.
Last Sunday (10 days ago) I finally recorded my lowest number since I began..and over the course of the next 10 days I watched as that number climbed higher and higher. AF had arrived on that Thursday morning, and I ballooned up 5 pounds.. Between her and lifting sessions I was "ok" with seeing water gains.. Im getting more used to them.
However, AF left on Sunday.. I havent lifted since Monday... Yesterday the scale finally dropped 2 of my 5 pounds. But today... up another .6!!! And this is after two rest days from lifting, one FULL rest day yesterday. My food intake yesterday was a little off because of dental work, but there was nothing horribly crazy in there, and my sodium level was still below my target..
I am starting to lose faith.. and I hate that considering I have been the one vocalizing to others to keep it. I am tired of this jumping up and down on the scale.. 2 MONTHS in and still there is virtually no change on the scale.. In two months I have finally lost a few inches, but even after starting NROL4W, those numbers havent changed.
I need to see some results. I am *this* close to throwing in the towel again and call it a day..
I need some serious help today..
I am 9-10 weeks into this journey and I today I am no better off than I was when I began.
Last Sunday (10 days ago) I finally recorded my lowest number since I began..and over the course of the next 10 days I watched as that number climbed higher and higher. AF had arrived on that Thursday morning, and I ballooned up 5 pounds.. Between her and lifting sessions I was "ok" with seeing water gains.. Im getting more used to them.
However, AF left on Sunday.. I havent lifted since Monday... Yesterday the scale finally dropped 2 of my 5 pounds. But today... up another .6!!! And this is after two rest days from lifting, one FULL rest day yesterday. My food intake yesterday was a little off because of dental work, but there was nothing horribly crazy in there, and my sodium level was still below my target..
I am starting to lose faith.. and I hate that considering I have been the one vocalizing to others to keep it. I am tired of this jumping up and down on the scale.. 2 MONTHS in and still there is virtually no change on the scale.. In two months I have finally lost a few inches, but even after starting NROL4W, those numbers havent changed.
I need to see some results. I am *this* close to throwing in the towel again and call it a day..
I need some serious help today..
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I'm probably not even "qualified" to respond since I'm very new to the group- just starting third week. I think weighing daily can play with your head...some people can see some significant fluctuations from day to day. What if you focus on your body measurements? All of the successful people in this group suggest that. I read posts in this group all of the time and I haven't yet come across one person that reports failure after sticking with this. It seems to work for everyone. Maybe take a look back at your calculations for TDEE to make sure your number is good....also open your diary. I bet the folks that have been at this a while will have some great rec's for you if they can see what your nutrition looks like. Hang in there!0
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Hey lady! I know the feeling. Trust me. I am 3 months in. I emailed Lucia because I was starting to feel discouraged too. Three huge things:
1. Make sure you stay within sodium limits.
2. Make sure you really aim for 30% goal for protein.
3. Keep your calories consistent everyday.
It is hard to tell if you are doing these things since your diary is not open. But these are the things I've learned. Also, are you eating tdee - 15%? Or what deficit are you at?
This morning I happily weighed in at 0.2 lbs less than my previous lowest weigh-in, which was 2 weeks in to eating more. So, I feel like these things were key in helping me this week.
And have you checked out the Hacker's Diet chart tracking online? It can help you to see what your trend is, and that is when I really started noticing that although slow, I was actually trending downward.
Hope some of this info helps! Stay the course!! It DOES work!0 -
I would advise you to throw out your scale since it's gonna be your downfall.
Focus on the lost inches....those don't come down very fast, it's slow and steady. You lost inches, they are still gone so the weight is a factor to be ignored. Measure yourself every two to four weeks (I do mine once a month max) and focus on those. Focus on clothing, how you feel, etc.
When we started this process we knew it would be slow. Our bodies will adjust, then drop, then adjust, then drop, then adjust, then drop as our daily life patterns adjust and change. Our consistency is so important, but in reality it's very difficult so a metabolism that is used to be being 'played' might very easily go into panic mode at the slightest infraction we impose upon it. It could take months before your body really believes in you again.
Be patient, and throw out that scale!!! If it has the power to destroy your new plan to a healthy you, throw it OUT!0 -
I track daily on Hackerd diet so I can see my trend. Things were looking rather good until this last ten days.. now it looks like a rollercoaster again.
My diary is now open. I work hard to hit my protein levels, and I think I managed twice or more in this last two weeks and was actually over (188g+ daily DAMN HARD to do )
My sodium levels are generally below my target. I was actually prety proud of my journal over the last few weeks.
My TDEE is 2800, my Cut is 2400 (-15%)
BMR is 1800
I am tempted to take it to 2200 which is about a 20% cut and see what that does. Im serioiusly getting beyond the level of frustration I had when I first began 9 weeks ago. I was finally happy that things were progressing, albeit slow, but it was going down..
Believe me, I do everything I am "supposed" to do. I rarely go over in cals, if ever. I exercise 4-6 times a week, 3 of those are NROL. I eat well. I get protein in, substantially increased that in the last 2 months.. I watch my sodium, i drink a minimum 8 glasses of water. I gave up diet soda for the most part, I do treat myself on occasion..I am a "model" member, so to speak..
Sigh.. this is mainly a vent.. Im just tired of doing everything right, and not seeing the results. My inches has stalled in three weeks (and thats after beginning to lift heavy) and my weight is virtually unchanged now.0 -
Bumping to mark as I feel the same as you. Just keep at it, thats what i keep telling myself. I also pray alot. That helps the most.0
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One more thought... Do you have any food allergies or intolerances? Last year I discovered that I was gluten intolerant and my tummy would swell and puff up after eating gluten. When I was heavier I didn't notice it so much but now I do. My weight would jump 3 lbs over night!! Try cutting out things with gluten (bread, crackers, cereal, etc.) for about one week then eat one meal with LOTS of gluten and pay attention to what happens... That is how I knew with certainty. I feel so much better now that I know.0
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You need to keep in mind that your body is changing from the inside out and it is changing for the better.
Google, "why the scale lies".
Then throw out your scale.
This will be an up and down rollercoaster. It just will. It is a slow process as your body adjusts and the weight lifting adds a whole other element to that as well.
How long have you been doing NROL? I didn't lose anything for a couple weeks when I first started and I chalk that up to water retention. Lifting heavy is hard on your muscles and they retain a ton of water.0 -
I think AF = TOM, yes/no? If so your "weight" fluctuations in the last 2 weeks could be because of that. For me, the week before TOM, I lose weight, during TOM hold steady, and after TOM go up. I have no idea why, but I've been charting it for the past 4 months and that's how my body acts.
You also wrote that you're "no better off" than you were when this began. I beg to differ. Has your energy level increased? Are you able to push yourself further in your workouts? Are your clothes fitting differently? Like you said, you've been a cheerleader for so many here, it's time you listen to your own advice. Be patient and consistent. It will happen.0 -
You also wrote that you're "no better off" than you were when this began. I beg to differ. Has your energy level increased? Are you able to push yourself further in your workouts? Are your clothes fitting differently? Like you said, you've been a cheerleader for so many here, it's time you listen to your own advice. Be patient and consistent. It will happen.
^^^^^ I totally agree with what Tangiesharp wrote ^^^^^
There are days where I feel frustrated and discouraged but then I try to focus on the emotional changes rather than the physical changes since beginning this EM2WL journey.
I feel sooooo good with so much energy, my clothes fit better, I'm able to push myself harder in workouts and (this is huge) I no longer feel guilty for eating!! I look forward to eating every day because I know food is what fuels my body to continue to change for the better. I don't obsess about it any longer and it's such a great feeling to be freed from that burden of guilt.
So.....I think you've changed more than you think you have!0 -
Have you messaged Lucia? I read in another post her saying that she has never seen someone have to go down, always up. You say you never go over cals....maybe try adding an extra 100-200?0
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Do you eat the same things and work out the same way every week? The reason why I'm asking is because I have been doing the same exact exercising every week for so long my body just knew what to expect. So the last two weeks I've done completely different workouts (new gym, new classes, new cardio completely) and guess what? FINALLY, the scale is going down instead of up. FINALLY, the bloating feeling is going away. FINALLY, I don't look like a puffy rat! I'm not stressing about working out "hard" (like I see the rest of gym doing). I'm keeping my heartrate lower during cardio and doing a ton of foam rolling stretching.
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Hey Rayann1, girl I just love you! Because you just keep it all real...ok, I don't think you should change your calories. Let's look at what you are doing for your workouts. Like someone suggested maybe switching it up a bit. Please refresh my memory...I am sooo not supposed to be on here, but saw your name and the topic and wanted to jump in. You have the eating part down, then we have to look elsewhere. Oh for me...TOM...start water weight climb the week before, hit my peak at day 4 of TOM and it takes almost a week to lose the water...just ridiculous...lol. I really don't even pay attention to the scale, but how I look and the inches...
We can't neglect the inches because it is fat disappearing.
Anyway, what's your workout?0 -
Check out this article
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/05/15/science/a-mathematical-challenge-to-obesity.html?_r=2&smid=pl-share
and hang in there!0 -
Hang in there-you are doing great. And I agree with pp-throw out the scale.
I think I shlould do the same0 -
Hey Rayann1, girl I just love you! Because you just keep it all real...ok, I don't think you should change your calories. Let's look at what you are doing for your workouts. Like someone suggested maybe switching it up a bit. Please refresh my memory...I am sooo not supposed to be on here, but saw your name and the topic and wanted to jump in. You have the eating part down, then we have to look elsewhere. Oh for me...TOM...start water weight climb the week before, hit my peak at day 4 of TOM and it takes almost a week to lose the water...just ridiculous...lol. I really don't even pay attention to the scale, but how I look and the inches...
We can't neglect the inches because it is fat disappearing.
Anyway, what's your workout?
3 days NROL4W, 2 days running 5k/interval training
I *used* to do 1 step class, 1 pump class, 3 days running 5k and the occasional JM video, but I cut back when I began lifting almost 4 weeks ago.
Since I began lifting my measurements have not changed.
I have been tracking my weight on Hackdiet for 2.5 months so I know when AF hits, and how the weight goes up at that time. Usually it takes 3 days after her disappearance for the weight to go back down. on top of that, I normally only see a 2-3 pound gain from her. This month I got a 5 pound. While that is normal for some women, I have NEVER had a gain that high from AF. So it has really made me question what else is going on.. Even after two days off from lifting, one full day of rest, no craziness on my eating, and drinking my water, etc... and the scale went back up again today..Just totally was not expecting it at all, was definitely expecting to see a loss this morning..
I am trying very hard to be patient. I have had a wonderful downward trend for the past 5 weeks and I was *just* starting to feel comfortable that things were heading in the right direction for good, and this past 10 days has just gone so incredibly wonky, it honestly broke me this morning. I KNOW I cant control what the scale says.. But when you do everything "right" and things still dont change, its inevitable the frustrations hit.
Im just at a loss. I dont know what I am going to do if the scale doesnt start going back down to where I was 10 days ago.. I just cant see why I am still carrying 3 extra pounds in that time.. why is it not letting go, KWIM?
Thank you to everyone for the support. You are right. I am better off now than I was when I began. I am very slightly smaller, not noticiable to anyone, not even me, but I did lose a few inches. My energy levels have been great, and I have been sleeping better at night. My hair isnt falling out so much anymore and my skin is not so dry... There have been inward changes.... now I need the outward ones..0 -
Have you comsidered getting a tape measure that uses centimeters and not inches?
I use that, and it's easier to see small victories that way 0 -
Pretty much everyone covered it, but the only thing I would add is, and most people don't take this into account. If you recently started lifting weights, or started lifting heavier then before you are most likely adding some muscle weight in there. Along with that comes more water weight and glycogen weight. It's hard to say how much but I am sure it is a partial factor. Even if you add muscle weight etc, it will all balance out after awhile and the muscle will help your fat loss speed up. Because you can't add very much muscle anyways. Really 10lbs for a young male is pretty good in a year, more if your really serious. So give it more time, and remember it's not about your bodyweight it's more about getting fit. Along with being fit everything else will fall into place eventually.0
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I totally get what you mean. I upped mine 4 weeks ago and I can't see any real difference with measurements. Next Thursday will tell when my trainer will get out the calipers and get good accurate fat loss measurements. Which is what I'm after!!! During the 4 weeks my weight too has roller coasted, one day dropping 1.5kg and as of today I think I'm only a few 100 grams down.
Roll on Thursday, I'll keep you posted.
A good blog and website I've found is Metabolic Effect. They email me fat loss video seminars and freebie educational stuff.
Their key points are
Are you in it for weight loss or fat loss....... Fat for me
Knowing hat we are all individual Nd some macros don't work for some and you need to learn how toaster what is right for you.
Knowing the difference between healthy eating and fat
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Wait, are you weighing yourself every day? I would definitely try to go for longer without weighing in. I usually only hop on the scale every Sunday, or sometimes only twice monthly.
Stick to it because you'll see progress eventually! Your hard work will be rewarded. Gotta be patient. 0 -
Rayann1 this too shall pass. You are doing great.
I think it would be fun to have a No scale challenge for 30 days!
All the anxiety from weighing is a hindrance at times.0 -
Wait, are you weighing yourself every day? I would definitely try to go for longer without weighing in. I usually only hop on the scale every Sunday, or sometimes only twice monthly.
Stick to it because you'll see progress eventually! Your hard work will be rewarded. Gotta be patient.
Lol, I was told when I first started in here to weigh in daily to track my trend, so I knew what caused my weight to go up for down. It has been highly informative and I have learned a lot about my weight fluctuations I didnt know about... And then now Im getting told to throw the scale away... Cant win!! J/k.
I have to weigh in weekly because I am part of a biggest loser challenge.. which I am certainly not winning with nothing lost:)
Again, thanks all for letting me vent. I had a great food day, had a great lifting session, got in my water and relaxed the rest of the day. I have let things go and will just concentrate on what I put in my mouth, and how i exercise.. I cant control anything else..0 -
Rayann1 this too shall pass. You are doing great.
I think it would be fun to have a No scale challenge for 30 days!
All the anxiety from weighing is a hindrance at times.
YES!!! I know I need it. 6/1 is just around the corner. I'll start then.
Great suggestion!0 -
Wait, are you weighing yourself every day? I would definitely try to go for longer without weighing in. I usually only hop on the scale every Sunday, or sometimes only twice monthly.
Stick to it because you'll see progress eventually! Your hard work will be rewarded. Gotta be patient.
Lol, I was told when I first started in here to weigh in daily to track my trend, so I knew what caused my weight to go up for down. It has been highly informative and I have learned a lot about my weight fluctuations I didnt know about... And then now Im getting told to throw the scale away... Cant win!! J/k.
I have to weigh in weekly because I am part of a biggest loser challenge.. which I am certainly not winning with nothing lost:)
Again, thanks all for letting me vent. I had a great food day, had a great lifting session, got in my water and relaxed the rest of the day. I have let things go and will just concentrate on what I put in my mouth, and how i exercise.. I cant control anything else..
As far as weighing yourself goes when it is no longer working for you its time to put it aside. I weighed myself daily because it was fun to track my fluctuations. Now I weigh myself and track when I remember. If weighing myself starts to turn into a discouraging activity then I will use the scale as a discus and throw it as far away as possible.
I had a couple of months of outrageous fluctuations and now this month really level. I have no idea why, who knows what little secretive things my body is up to. What I do know is this is the sanest way to lose weight and get fit.
Keep at it. It will turn around.0 -
Wait, are you weighing yourself every day? I would definitely try to go for longer without weighing in. I usually only hop on the scale every Sunday, or sometimes only twice monthly.
Stick to it because you'll see progress eventually! Your hard work will be rewarded. Gotta be patient.
Lol, I was told when I first started in here to weigh in daily to track my trend, so I knew what caused my weight to go up for down. It has been highly informative and I have learned a lot about my weight fluctuations I didnt know about... And then now Im getting told to throw the scale away... Cant win!! J/k.
I have to weigh in weekly because I am part of a biggest loser challenge.. which I am certainly not winning with nothing lost:)
Again, thanks all for letting me vent. I had a great food day, had a great lifting session, got in my water and relaxed the rest of the day. I have let things go and will just concentrate on what I put in my mouth, and how i exercise.. I cant control anything else..
Yes girl we all need to vent at times to get it off our chest. I was in rant mode last week myself I gained more than norm for tom. As you said some things you can't do a thing about...so just keep moving forward:-)0 -
Scale dropped a tiny bit overnight, back to where I was on Wed... still 3 pounds from where I was last week. I do know O is about to hit and I lifted yesterday so its likely my body still doesnt want to let go of the water..
Eventually something has to give, right?
I am stil not 100% happy about things, but I am hopeful things will go back down and stay down shortly.0 -
And another bloody issue...
retook my measurements today and everything went up... a lot.. so now I have no pound lossage and a gain in inches...
Perfect...
10 weeks and no sustainable change..0 -
Son of a $^%#$%! How did you lose the 22lbs initially??0
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Son of a $^%#$%! How did you lose the 22lbs initially??
That is my pathetic drop over the last 18 months.. with the last 10 of that being from January to March after beginning the C25K program. Since then, I have increased my cals, decreased my cardio, starting NROL4W, and have been up and down with 5 pounds, lost an initial 3 inches overall at the beginning of May, and as of today, everything measured has increased...some of which has increased more than my initial measurements in April (prior to my drop)..
So yeah.. basically I now have zero results after 10 weeks of eating more and lifting weights0 -
And another bloody issue...
retook my measurements today and everything went up... a lot.. so now I have no pound lossage and a gain in inches...
Perfect...
10 weeks and no sustainable change..
oh man, that sucks.
Did you make any recent changes to how you are eating or exercising at all with the new EM plan? Maybe it's just taking longer than normal for your TOM weight to disappear.
I'm just wondering, did you ever see a gain in the first few weeks? or did you just kinda drop? or what happened? I just ask because I wonder if maybe you are just in some kind of delayed response mode and are just now seeing the gain/bloat that won't disappear for a few weeks? I really am just guessing here because it surprises me that you would see it just now suddenly. There must be a factor that we are missing in the equation...the inches gained could just be from the bloat/water retention from TOM too...it tends to push thing out.
Edit....Wait, you just posted as I typed all this! hehe...Let me ponder what you said above!0
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