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  • zachatta
    zachatta Posts: 1,340 Member
    SMH

    Deliver of advice is solicited as soon as you post a topic on any forum. You don't get to choose who will give it or what they will say. If you don't agree, you get to disagree, and cycle that a million times or until somebody caves.

    Get over your poor sensitive selves, state your opinion, take others or not, and seriously...if this is where you get your best advice...find some REAL LIVE FRIENDS.

    You peeps are too funny...or sad...or frikkin SMH hilarious.

    /rockclappinggif
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    Ok guys. I just got up. Been reading over. Let's be civilized WITHOUT attacking each other.
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    Is it just me or does every thread Zack posts in seem to turn into a ***** fest? I also can't tell if it's entertaining or just plain annoying. It's like the Jersey Shore up in here some days.

    I simply said to abandon her moral compass.

    "I was mean." I am pretty sure people simply follow me around looking for ways to argue with me.

    Of course without Mike or DM, I am next in line to demonize.
    Am I wrong?

    I'm not saying it's all your fault, but isn't your moral compass what keeps people from going on shooting sprees, blowing up planes, raping babies, and other sick s**t like that? Well you just told someone to throw that off a cliff like a frisbee, do you honestly not see how that could be taken the wrong way?

    Read flims post, use critical thinking. All will be clear.
    Yeah, I know exactly what you meant, I'm asking if you understand how that COULD be interpreted the wrong way. Having no moral compass is a lot different than having no moral compass *only when it comes to the topic at hand. And that would probably have less to do with morals and more to do with religious beliefs, inhibitions, and emotions.

    But instead of just admitting, just once, that maybe you used the wrong choice of words, you just continue to defend yourself and dig yourself into an even deeper hole.
  • zachatta
    zachatta Posts: 1,340 Member
    Is it just me or does every thread Zack posts in seem to turn into a ***** fest? I also can't tell if it's entertaining or just plain annoying. It's like the Jersey Shore up in here some days.

    I simply said to abandon her moral compass.

    "I was mean." I am pretty sure people simply follow me around looking for ways to argue with me.

    Of course without Mike or DM, I am next in line to demonize.
    Am I wrong?

    I'm not saying it's all your fault, but isn't your moral compass what keeps people from going on shooting sprees, blowing up planes, raping babies, and other sick s**t like that? Well you just told someone to throw that off a cliff like a frisbee, do you honestly not see how that could be taken the wrong way?

    Read flims post, use critical thinking. All will be clear.
    Yeah, I know exactly what you meant, I'm asking if you understand how that COULD be interpreted the wrong way. Having no moral compass is a lot different than having no moral compass *only when it comes to the topic at hand. And that would probably have less to do with morals and more to do with religious beliefs, inhibitions, and emotions.

    But instead of just admitting, just once, that maybe you used the wrong choice of words, you just continue to defend yourself and dig yourself into an even deeper hole.

    LOL, Sorry bud I am in no hole. It is an internet forum.

    Just to reiterate:
    SMH

    Deliver of advice is solicited as soon as you post a topic on any forum. You don't get to choose who will give it or what they will say. If you don't agree, you get to disagree, and cycle that a million times or until somebody caves.

    Get over your poor sensitive selves, state your opinion, take others or not, and seriously...if this is where you get your best advice...find some REAL LIVE FRIENDS.

    You peeps are too funny...or sad...or frikkin SMH hilarious.

    Boom goes the dynamite. I can give my opinion on a matter, if you disagree do so. Do not spend hours demonizing me for no reason and then manifesting fallacious arguments. Also don't make character judgements as if the people in this forum really know who I am.

    Simple concept: You ask for an opinion, you get one. The sensitivity crap prevents people from honestly posting, aka smoke up people's *kitten*.
  • DonnaNCgirl
    DonnaNCgirl Posts: 372
    Boom goes the dynamite. I can give my opinion on a matter, if you disagree do so. Do not spend hours demonizing me for no reason and then manifesting fallacious arguments. Also don't make character judgements as if the people in this forum really know who I am.

    Simple concept: You ask for an opinion, you get one. The sensitivity crap prevents people from honestly posting, aka smoke up people's *kitten*.
    [/quote]




    If you ever wanna blow smoke up somebody's *kitten*, just to see what it feels like, I'm pretty flexible :drinker:

    Edited because it didn't show the quote. Dammit...I got nothin!
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    Is it just me or does every thread Zack posts in seem to turn into a ***** fest? I also can't tell if it's entertaining or just plain annoying. It's like the Jersey Shore up in here some days.

    I simply said to abandon her moral compass.

    "I was mean." I am pretty sure people simply follow me around looking for ways to argue with me.

    Of course without Mike or DM, I am next in line to demonize.
    Am I wrong?

    I'm not saying it's all your fault, but isn't your moral compass what keeps people from going on shooting sprees, blowing up planes, raping babies, and other sick s**t like that? Well you just told someone to throw that off a cliff like a frisbee, do you honestly not see how that could be taken the wrong way?

    Read flims post, use critical thinking. All will be clear.
    Yeah, I know exactly what you meant, I'm asking if you understand how that COULD be interpreted the wrong way. Having no moral compass is a lot different than having no moral compass *only when it comes to the topic at hand. And that would probably have less to do with morals and more to do with religious beliefs, inhibitions, and emotions.

    But instead of just admitting, just once, that maybe you used the wrong choice of words, you just continue to defend yourself and dig yourself into an even deeper hole.

    LOL, Sorry bud I am in no hole. It is an internet forum.

    Just to reiterate:
    SMH

    Deliver of advice is solicited as soon as you post a topic on any forum. You don't get to choose who will give it or what they will say. If you don't agree, you get to disagree, and cycle that a million times or until somebody caves.

    Get over your poor sensitive selves, state your opinion, take others or not, and seriously...if this is where you get your best advice...find some REAL LIVE FRIENDS.

    You peeps are too funny...or sad...or frikkin SMH hilarious.

    Boom goes the dynamite. I can give my opinion on a matter, if you disagree do so. Do not spend hours demonizing me for no reason and then manifesting fallacious arguments. Also don't make character judgements as if the people in this forum really know who I am.

    Simple concept: You ask for an opinion, you get one. The sensitivity crap prevents people from honestly posting, aka smoke up people's *kitten*.
    Well just to reiterate my point, I have no problem with you, I have never been offended by anything you've said. But I'm also not wrong about the fact that most threads you post in turn into a b**ch fest, partly because of your inability to care if you've offended anybody. It is possible for someone to give honest advice, but to do so tactfully.
  • zachatta
    zachatta Posts: 1,340 Member
    Well just to reiterate my point, I have no problem with you, I have never been offended by anything you've said. But I'm also not wrong about the fact that most threads you post in turn into a b**ch fest, partly because of your inability to care if you've offended anybody. It is possible for someone to give honest advice, but to do so tactfully.

    You are entitled to think I am rude, and think I am a jerk. This goes for everyone else in this forum.

    I am also entitled to not care. I will be me, people can flake and flip flop all they want, i strive for consistency.

    :)
  • DonnaNCgirl
    DonnaNCgirl Posts: 372
    Well just to reiterate my point, I have no problem with you, I have never been offended by anything you've said. But I'm also not wrong about the fact that most threads you post in turn into a b**ch fest, partly because of your inability to care if you've offended anybody. It is possible for someone to give honest advice, but to do so tactfully.

    You are entitled to think I am rude, and think I am a jerk. This goes for everyone else in this forum.

    I am also entitled to not care. I will be me, people can flake and flip flop all they want, i strive for consistency.

    :)


    Don't we say we want honesty...but then when we get it...<putting on meanie pants>...we want it delivered in a particular way???????????? Seriously???????????

    I have found nothing less than tactful until somebody gets their panties in a wad. I used to do that, but it was pretty darned uncomfortable. Now I prefer commando
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    Well just to reiterate my point, I have no problem with you, I have never been offended by anything you've said. But I'm also not wrong about the fact that most threads you post in turn into a b**ch fest, partly because of your inability to care if you've offended anybody. It is possible for someone to give honest advice, but to do so tactfully.

    You are entitled to think I am rude, and think I am a jerk. This goes for everyone else in this forum.

    I am also entitled to not care. I will be me, people can flake and flip flop all they want, i strive for consistency.

    :)


    Don't we say we want honesty...but then when we get it...<putting on meanie pants>...we want it delivered in a particular way???????????? Seriously???????????

    I have found nothing less than tactful until somebody gets their panties in a wad. I used to do that, but it was pretty darned uncomfortable. Now I prefer commando

    The thing is no one asked for "honesty." All the OP said was "I wish I was okay with having a FWB but I am not. Anyone else?" No one asked for an opinion. That is the problem I am having with this whole debate, starting with Zach's words. No one asked for his opinion - what he chimed in was irrelevant.
  • dbrightwell1270
    dbrightwell1270 Posts: 1,732 Member

    I have found nothing less than tactful until somebody gets their panties in a wad. I used to do that, but it was pretty darned uncomfortable. Now I prefer commando

    Pics or it didn't really happen
  • DonnaNCgirl
    DonnaNCgirl Posts: 372
    Well just to reiterate my point, I have no problem with you, I have never been offended by anything you've said. But I'm also not wrong about the fact that most threads you post in turn into a b**ch fest, partly because of your inability to care if you've offended anybody. It is possible for someone to give honest advice, but to do so tactfully.

    You are entitled to think I am rude, and think I am a jerk. This goes for everyone else in this forum.

    I am also entitled to not care. I will be me, people can flake and flip flop all they want, i strive for consistency.

    :)


    Don't we say we want honesty...but then when we get it...<putting on meanie pants>...we want it delivered in a particular way???????????? Seriously???????????

    I have found nothing less than tactful until somebody gets their panties in a wad. I used to do that, but it was pretty darned uncomfortable. Now I prefer commando

    The thing is no one asked for "honesty." All the OP said was "I wish I was okay with having a FWB but I am not. Anyone else?" No one asked for an opinion. That is the problem I am having with this whole debate, starting with Zach's words. No one asked for his opinion - what he chimed in was irrelevant.

    Let's just peruse a few threads and count the number of irrelevant posts, really?

    First the morality police, then relevance police? On the internet? Wow!
  • DonnaNCgirl
    DonnaNCgirl Posts: 372

    I have found nothing less than tactful until somebody gets their panties in a wad. I used to do that, but it was pretty darned uncomfortable. Now I prefer commando

    Pics or it didn't really happen

    Never pics! I prefer to share up close and personal. :wink:
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    Well just to reiterate my point, I have no problem with you, I have never been offended by anything you've said. But I'm also not wrong about the fact that most threads you post in turn into a b**ch fest, partly because of your inability to care if you've offended anybody. It is possible for someone to give honest advice, but to do so tactfully.

    You are entitled to think I am rude, and think I am a jerk. This goes for everyone else in this forum.

    I am also entitled to not care. I will be me, people can flake and flip flop all they want, i strive for consistency.

    :)


    Don't we say we want honesty...but then when we get it...<putting on meanie pants>...we want it delivered in a particular way???????????? Seriously???????????

    I have found nothing less than tactful until somebody gets their panties in a wad. I used to do that, but it was pretty darned uncomfortable. Now I prefer commando

    The thing is no one asked for "honesty." All the OP said was "I wish I was okay with having a FWB but I am not. Anyone else?" No one asked for an opinion. That is the problem I am having with this whole debate, starting with Zach's words. No one asked for his opinion - what he chimed in was irrelevant.

    Let's just peruse a few threads and count the number of irrelevant posts, really?

    First the morality police, then relevance police? On the internet? Wow!

    There is a lot of irrelevant posts in here, and that's okay but when they get nasty and disrespectful and insulting, then it's a problem.
  • zachatta
    zachatta Posts: 1,340 Member
    There is a lot of irrelevant posts in here, and that's okay but when they get nasty and disrespectful and insulting, then it's a problem.

    Can you spot the subjective opinions in this sentence?

    I knew you could!
  • DonnaNCgirl
    DonnaNCgirl Posts: 372
    First the morality police, then relevance police? On the internet? Wow!
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    There is a lot of irrelevant posts in here, and that's okay but when they get nasty and disrespectful and insulting, then it's a problem.
    [/quote]

    We have mods for that, right? If someone actually, truthfully violates the forum rules then they shouldn't post. But if you just don't like their tone or opinion or think their post is irrelevant, move on. :drinker:

    <thinking> I better go read those rules. I hate rules. :noway:
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    There is a lot of irrelevant posts in here, and that's okay but when they get nasty and disrespectful and insulting, then it's a problem.

    Can you spot the subjective opinions in this sentence?

    I knew you could!

    Okay, 99.9% of people think that post was nasty, insulting and disrespectful. Maybe you and Donna are the only ones who disagree.
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    Believe me, Donna, I already reported several of these posts, including the one where Zach personally attacked me because he got upset that I told him his "advice" was insulting.
  • zachatta
    zachatta Posts: 1,340 Member
    There is a lot of irrelevant posts in here, and that's okay but when they get nasty and disrespectful and insulting, then it's a problem.

    Can you spot the subjective opinions in this sentence?

    I knew you could!

    Okay, 99.9% of people think that post was nasty, insulting and disrespectful. Maybe you and Donna are the only ones who disagree.

    99.9% of people huh? Where are we getting this data from?
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    There is a lot of irrelevant posts in here, and that's okay but when they get nasty and disrespectful and insulting, then it's a problem.

    Can you spot the subjective opinions in this sentence?

    I knew you could!

    Okay, 99.9% of people think that post was nasty, insulting and disrespectful. Maybe you and Donna are the only ones who disagree.

    99.9% of people huh? Where are we getting this data from?

    It's called an approximation. If you don't know what that word means, look it up.
  • zachatta
    zachatta Posts: 1,340 Member
    There is a lot of irrelevant posts in here, and that's okay but when they get nasty and disrespectful and insulting, then it's a problem.

    Can you spot the subjective opinions in this sentence?

    I knew you could!

    Okay, 99.9% of people think that post was nasty, insulting and disrespectful. Maybe you and Donna are the only ones who disagree.

    99.9% of people huh? Where are we getting this data from?

    It's called an approximation. If you don't know what that word means, look it up.

    Ok, 99.9% of people just thought your response to me was offensive. It is an approximation, look it up.
  • dbrightwell1270
    dbrightwell1270 Posts: 1,732 Member
    Zach, there's a woman 90 miles away who stated 10 minutes ago that she doesn't share commando pics because she prefers to do that up close and personal and you'd rather argue with Christine on the internet. Now you've even offended me.
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    I think this topic has run it's course. Let's be civil. No insults, attacks, etc etc.
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