Men and sexual comments or innuendos
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Oh, I do! It seems like all day on Fridays I can hear a women's voice in the back of my head saying "MY EYES ARE UP HERE!!!"
I've been wanting a hat that says "My Boobs are down there"0 -
:laugh:Oh, I do! It seems like all day on Fridays I can hear a women's voice in the back of my head saying "MY EYES ARE UP HERE!!!"
I've been wanting a hat that says "My Boobs are down there"
I am in full support of that idea.0 -
Oh, I do! It seems like all day on Fridays I can hear a women's voice in the back of my head saying "MY EYES ARE UP HERE!!!"
I've been wanting a hat that says "My Boobs are down there"
I would wear that hat...0 -
I think its a time and place for the sexual comments/innuendos. The first 1-3 dates the person may not even like you as much but is willing to give it a try. That's when you want to be on your best behavior. Its sets the standards for the rest of the experience regardless of the outcome. I've been on plenty of dates where I kind of sense the guy was just itching to get into bed with me, and it just turns me off from wanting to get to know them further. Like keep it together. I assume if you ask me out that you were attracted to me. Eliminate the extra stuff..thank you!0
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A lot of it comes off on how they say it too.
We have 2 guys on my softball team that will flirt with anything that isn't male but one will flirt with girls and say things and it will come across okay since he is usually smiling and laughing when he says it while the other one comes a cross as creepy and disgusting.
Example from guy 1 saying "I love it when you run to me." while looking at my chest when I ran in from the outfield at the end of the inning. He said it while laughing and smiling so it didn't come off creepy and we are also on the same team so he at least partially knows me.
The other guy sitting on the bench, because he is injured, is yelling out to girls that are batting on the other team "I love your batting stance" I can hear him saying this all the way in right field when our bench was along the third baseline. For one thing those girls do not know him from Adam and it is not the right time since they usually do not want to be distracted from batting. It is almost the stereotypical construction worker wolf whistle.0 -
A lot of it comes off on how they say it too.
We have 2 guys on my softball team that will flirt with anything that isn't male but one will flirt with girls and say things and it will come across okay since he is usually smiling and laughing when he says it while the other one comes a cross as creepy and disgusting.
Example from guy 1 saying "I love it when you run to me." while looking at my chest when I ran in from the outfield at the end of the inning. He said it while laughing and smiling so it didn't come off creepy and we are also on the same team so he at least partially knows me.
The other guy sitting on the bench, because he is injured, is yelling out to girls that are batting on the other team "I love your batting stance" I can hear him saying this all the way in right field when our bench was along the third baseline. For one thing those girls do not know him from Adam and it is not the right time since they usually do not want to be distracted from batting. It is almost the stereotypical construction worker wolf whistle.
Just wiggle your *kitten* a little and then smash the ball to left field.0 -
So, I've been thinking about this alot and what Roadie said about trying not to be placed in the "Friend Zone" so I've decided to just go with the flow to a point. Laugh it off and flirt back if it's not down right disrespectful. I've been doing this with a new guy I've only texted and talked to...so far so good. lol0
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So, I've been thinking about this alot and what Roadie said about trying not to be placed in the "Friend Zone" so I've decided to just go with the flow to a point. Laugh it off and flirt back if it's not down right disrespectful. I've been doing this with a new guy I've only texted and talked to...so far so good. lol
Go get 'em sex kitten
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i'm late to this thread but if i'm interested i play right along. i've also been known to make a few innuendos myself .
my reasoning for doing it is mainly because 1) i'm a huge flirt and 2) i like sex and i'm pretty playful with it and the innuendos and flirting are a good way for me to surmise if HE'S playful with it as well.0 -
YOU GUYS!
Seriously.
This weekend at karaoke this guy I met started calling me sex kitten.
It gives me a fit of giggles every time and I don't even know how to explain to him why.0 -
YOU GUYS!
Seriously.
This weekend at karaoke this guy I met started calling me sex kitten.
It gives me a fit of giggles every time and I don't even know how to explain to him why.
RROFLMBO!!!!!0 -
YOU GUYS!
Seriously.
This weekend at karaoke this guy I met started calling me sex kitten.
It gives me a fit of giggles every time and I don't even know how to explain to him why.
LMAO!! I detest that term of endearment... I don't know why, but I guess because it just sounds so cheesy and old?
The guy I just started seeing is calling me baby....sexy when the kids aren't around....Neither are that creative, but both make me melt.0 -
This is my first post on this board, so I might be stepping in it, but I personally think a certain amount of sexual innuendo is fun. If its done right, it's funny and can really make for some fun banter back and forth. I can totally understand the guys' perspective in wanting to use it as a tool to test the waters.... if that is what their sense of humor is like, it's better to know up front if you're never going to appreciate that kind of joking around.
Now that said, unimaginative guys do not apply to anything stated above. :-)0 -
This is my first post on this board, so I might be stepping in it, but I personally think a certain amount of sexual innuendo is fun. If its done right, it's funny and can really make for some fun banter back and forth. I can totally understand the guys' perspective in wanting to use it as a tool to test the waters.... if that is what their sense of humor is like, it's better to know up front if you're never going to appreciate that kind of joking around.
Now that said, unimaginative guys do not apply to anything stated above. :-)
You'll fit in here just fine.
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Since I just saw this thread, I am going to respond.
I love all the sexual innuendo and banter, even in the beginning. Really witty innuendos will help make me more interested. Now, if it gets crude, I do throw up the red flag because there is not call for that.0 -
Thank you!This is my first post on this board, so I might be stepping in it, but I personally think a certain amount of sexual innuendo is fun. If its done right, it's funny and can really make for some fun banter back and forth. I can totally understand the guys' perspective in wanting to use it as a tool to test the waters.... if that is what their sense of humor is like, it's better to know up front if you're never going to appreciate that kind of joking around.
Now that said, unimaginative guys do not apply to anything stated above. :-)
You'll fit in here just fine. Welcome!0 -
I once had a guy suggest I was wearing pink panties under my skirt (I actually was!) during a 1st date. Complete turn off and made him sound like an 8th grader.
I'm very very very opposite of a prude. Had my bf thought I was a prude because I didn't let him do certain things to me (ahem) early on, he would had missed out!!!0 -
Welcome to flirting via test. I'm so guilty of this even with much younger women and just about all of the time they respond back with the same kind of flirting.`0
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@winman: Hey sex puppy! What are you wearing under those khakis?0
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Some of the comments of "that isn't appropriate until after we've been out a few times and established we are attracted and interested" kind of crack me up. Why would you go out in the first place if you weren't?
I personally think it's all in fun...I like to laugh and have fun and there will probably be a few innuendos made as well 0 -
@winman: Hey sex puppy! What are you wearing under those khakis?
Commando baby, commando!
My wish is your command
OH WAIT! I'm offended. This is so inappropriate. You must be some creepy guy who wants nothing but to get in my panties...if I had any on. Ooops, I did it again, I did exactly what I said I don't like guys doing. But then again, it's okay for me...just not for anybody else. :noway:0 -
Some of the comments of "that isn't appropriate until after we've been out a few times and established we are attracted and interested" kind of crack me up. Why would you go out in the first place if you weren't?
I personally think it's all in fun...I like to laugh and have fun and there will probably be a few innuendos made as well
Only a few??!0 -
Some of the comments of "that isn't appropriate until after we've been out a few times and established we are attracted and interested" kind of crack me up. Why would you go out in the first place if you weren't?
I personally think it's all in fun...I like to laugh and have fun and there will probably be a few innuendos made as well
Only a few??!
Well from the looks of this thread some women are sensitive to this :P0 -
Some of the comments of "that isn't appropriate until after we've been out a few times and established we are attracted and interested" kind of crack me up. Why would you go out in the first place if you weren't?
I do this all the time...I go out with people (strangers I met online or in person) to see if I am attracted/interested. I rarely know that before a date, especially since if we "met" online our first date would be the first time meeting!0 -
@winman: Hey sex puppy! What are you wearing under those khakis?
Commando baby, commando!
My wish is your command
OH WAIT! I'm offended. This is so inappropriate. You must be some creepy guy who wants nothing but to get in my panties...if I had any on. Ooops, I did it again, I did exactly what I said I don't like guys doing. But then again, it's okay for me...just not for anybody else. :noway:
So then I have unrestricted access? 0 -
Some of the comments of "that isn't appropriate until after we've been out a few times and established we are attracted and interested" kind of crack me up. Why would you go out in the first place if you weren't?
I do this all the time...I go out with people (strangers I met online or in person) to see if I am attracted/interested. I rarely know that before a date, especially since if we "met" online our first date would be the first time meeting!
I've also come to the conclusion even if you hit it off online with flirting and/or sexting, the pics are accurate and the information is truthful, this does not mean the connection carries over to meeting in person. Strange but true.0 -
Due to reports made regarding this thread, I deleted posts that had nothing to do with the topic. :flowerforyou:0
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Exactly, this has happened to me all too often, I rarely like/am attracted to the guy in person, even when I thought they had so much potential online. So yeah, no need to jump the gun with sexts and stuff.Some of the comments of "that isn't appropriate until after we've been out a few times and established we are attracted and interested" kind of crack me up. Why would you go out in the first place if you weren't?
I do this all the time...I go out with people (strangers I met online or in person) to see if I am attracted/interested. I rarely know that before a date, especially since if we "met" online our first date would be the first time meeting!
I've also come to the conclusion even if you hit it off online with flirting and/or sexting, the pics are accurate and the information is truthful, this does not mean the connection carries over to meeting in person. Strange but true.0
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