20-30 sometings: toughest thing about being single for you?

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  • silvergurl518
    silvergurl518 Posts: 4,123 Member
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    I am not really the casual sex sort. So unless I am dating, I am SOL.


    Me too!

    How YOU doin?

    me three :)
  • Ben2118
    Ben2118 Posts: 571 Member
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    The photographic evidence of my badass adventures are all lonely self portraits.

    ^ Pretty much! Sometimes can be a good thing but sharing certain things can just make them that little much more awesome!
  • Jacole18
    Jacole18 Posts: 716 Member
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    Coming home to no one. I live alone, and I really yearn for companionship.
  • Cliffy94
    Cliffy94 Posts: 1,265 Member
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    growing up i never really got affection from family, as i grew up the youngest of four (3 older sisters) and my mum brought us up,
    Weve never really been an affectionate family, we hardly ever tell each other we love each other, let alone hug or kiss.

    So when i've been with girls im really affectionate, lots of kisses and cuddles, but not too clingy! So i guess being single i miss that.
    I dont like being the third wheel if i go out with couple friends, etc.

    EDIT: dont really come on here much, so hey everyone :smile:
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
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    Oh, I really miss sex too. Sex was fun.

    Ive heard that single people have way more sex than married people - just sayin.

    Am I somehow married and not aware of it then? :laugh:

    Maybe we're married and didn't know it? :smokin: Cuuuuz, yeah, none here either.
  • camrunner
    camrunner Posts: 363
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    Just... getting to that age where most of my peers are married, or at least act like it. Everyone I meet around my age is either married or still acts like they're in college (not that there's anything wrong with that, but it's not for me, not even when I was in college myself.)

    Not that I'm in any real hurry to be in a serious relationship, but I'm not very good at being a single guy either.
  • jesusHchris
    jesusHchris Posts: 1,405 Member
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    When I am single, I often forget to clear the browser history on my computer. Occasionally it will operate slowly. Midget bondage porn can really drag a hard drive down.

    What a *****.
  • FitandFab33
    FitandFab33 Posts: 718 Member
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    I'm jumping on the sex bandwagon.

    But also having someone to cook for and drink with- sounds weird, but that's what I miss.
  • FitandFab33
    FitandFab33 Posts: 718 Member
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    Just... getting to that age where most of my peers are married, or at least act like it. Everyone I meet around my age is either married or still acts like they're in college (not that there's anything wrong with that, but it's not for me, not even when I was in college myself.)

    Not that I'm in any real hurry to be in a serious relationship, but I'm not very good at being a single guy either.

    I realized TODAY that all of my friends are either married or engaged. It's not like I'm old, but I'm starting to feel like a spinster. I'm going to be a crazy gym lady (I don't get along with cats)
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,026 Member
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    I'm jumping on the sex bandwagon.

    But also having someone to cook for and drink with- sounds weird, but that's what I miss.

    If I am being honest, this is a large part of it for me. I really miss having someone to laugh and be dorky with, to cook awesome food for/with, and just feel close to.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,026 Member
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    I am not really the casual sex sort. So unless I am dating, I am SOL.


    Me too!

    How YOU doin?

    me three :)

    How YOu doin...also?
  • JaneDough_
    JaneDough_ Posts: 301 Member
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    Nothing is. Being single rocks! lol [honestly though, the only thing I would add is sex]
  • Daisy_Cutter_
    Daisy_Cutter_ Posts: 386 Member
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    Oh, I really miss sex too. Sex was fun.

    Ive heard that single people have way more sex than married people - just sayin.

    VERY true in my case... basically nada when I was married...
  • Daisy_Cutter_
    Daisy_Cutter_ Posts: 386 Member
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    When I am single, I often forget to clear the browser history on my computer. Occasionally it will operate slowly. Midget bondage porn can really drag a hard drive down.

    What a *****.


    Bwahahaaa... OMG, I hear ya! Being single I can text whatever guys I want... If I'm somewhat committed I have to knock that crap out OR..... delete, delete, delete.... I usually just don't play around.
  • silver_arrow3
    silver_arrow3 Posts: 1,373 Member
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    Just... getting to that age where most of my peers are married, or at least act like it. Everyone I meet around my age is either married or still acts like they're in college (not that there's anything wrong with that, but it's not for me, not even when I was in college myself.)

    Not that I'm in any real hurry to be in a serious relationship, but I'm not very good at being a single guy either.

    I realized TODAY that all of my friends are either married or engaged. It's not like I'm old, but I'm starting to feel like a spinster. I'm going to be a crazy gym lady (I don't get along with cats)

    My roommate has a total phobia of commitment - she seriously takes a week to decide on whether or not to keep a freakin' pair of shoes... and she's on her way to a relationship. What?!
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
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    growing up i never really got affection from family, as i grew up the youngest of four (3 older sisters) and my mum brought us up,
    Weve never really been an affectionate family, we hardly ever tell each other we love each other, let alone hug or kiss.

    So when i've been with girls im really affectionate, lots of kisses and cuddles, but not too clingy! So i guess being single i miss that.
    I dont like being the third wheel if i go out with couple friends, etc.

    EDIT: dont really come on here much, so hey everyone :smile:

    this. i'm a very affectionate person. I miss having someone to to cuddle with while sleeping in late, cuddle and watch a movie, hug, kiss, hold hands, etc. and just in general the feeling of knowing you have someone who will always have your back.
    friends are great and all but they will always put their own significant others ahead of you.
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,064 Member
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    Just... getting to that age where most of my peers are married, or at least act like it. Everyone I meet around my age is either married or still acts like they're in college (not that there's anything wrong with that, but it's not for me, not even when I was in college myself.)

    Not that I'm in any real hurry to be in a serious relationship, but I'm not very good at being a single guy either.

    I realized TODAY that all of my friends are either married or engaged. It's not like I'm old, but I'm starting to feel like a spinster. I'm going to be a crazy gym lady (I don't get along with cats)

    My roommate has a total phobia of commitment - she seriously takes a week to decide on whether or not to keep a freakin' pair of shoes... and she's on her way to a relationship. What?!

    And then there are the totally crazy, weird people that you know who are engaged/married and you're like, "oh god am I really that awful??"
  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
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    friends are great and all but they will always put their own significant others ahead of you.
    Well, you should change gender then. The code of manliness tells us "bros before hoes".
    Men who do not follow this usually isolate themselves gradually (I know I've been there). So yeah... always have a spare moment for your friends.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
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    I'm jumping on the sex bandwagon.

    But also having someone to cook for and drink with- sounds weird, but that's what I miss.

    yes. the cooking for and drinking with. There's nothing like a full tummy, wine, a cig and award winning sex.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
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    The photographic evidence of my badass adventures are all lonely self portraits.

    ^ Pretty much! Sometimes can be a good thing but sharing certain things can just make them that little much more awesome!

    also, someone to give you a boost or a leg up when you cant reach your adventure.