Hey all!

I just joined this group now because I got my BFP this morning! This is #2 for us, and it was our second cycle TTC (with our son it was the second cycle as well). Our son is almost 20 months old, and my due date should be May 26th, when he will be 2yrs and 4 months old, minus one day My sister and I were two years apart, almost to the day, and I think it worked out well for us. Plus, my son's birthday is in January, which is the same month as my husband's, and my birthday is in May - so we each (hopefully) get a birthday month buddy!

I feel good so far, just HUNGRY!!! I had low blood sugar issues twice during this past week and had to scrounge around for snacks in my office because I was so shaky and uncomfortable, so I definitely need to make sure I am eating enough. I wasn't eating less than usual, but I guess my body is already trying to hunker down and get me to take in more calories. I am still working out as I was before (nothing insane), and I had a good Spinning class this morning, so that might have something to do with it, at least as far as explaining today's desire to eat everything in the fridge.

I just changed my MFP settings to maintain, which means I get to eat 1800 calories a day Now I also need to focus on eating back most of my exercise calories, since I don't normally eat back anything close to all of them. I will be calling my doctor's office tomorrow to schedule my first prenatal visit and will ask them about my exercise plans, since I work out pretty hard, pretty often these days. (The first time around I was already pretty decently overweight and did not exercise at all, so I can't go by what they told me last time since we didn't talk about it.)

My first pregnancy was fairly easy; I only had food aversions (no morning sickness), and other than heartburn and my feet swelling in the third trimester (as well as the usual third-trimester discomfort), my only issue was weight gain (~55-60 pounds). The only issue I anticipate is that I am Rh negative, and my husband is Rh positive, so I have to get extra shots in case the baby is Rh positive. However, I had shots for it the first time around, so it's a known issue. It just needs to be handled appropriately for a second pregnancy because my son is Rh positive.

Otherwise I am a little psyched to be able to eat a bit more (just a bit!), and I am making sure to drink LOTS of water (as if I don't already)! I am also looking forward to the challenge of staying fit and healthy during pregnancy and after. I know the better I treat my body during pregnancy, the better it will help nourish my baby, and the better my body should be afterwards, so I need to create some sort of mantra to remind myself of this (especially as I contemplate ordering Chinese food for dinner tonight)!

Ok, so that's my long intro. I'm so glad to see there are other women in similar situations, and I hope we all have wonderful, smooth, healthy pregnancies!!!

Hello all! My first time posting in the group... am a little nervous about making this public since I find myself constantly on edge about EVERYTHING, always thinking the worst. Which is so not like me. Must be the crazy hormones.

Anyway, I'm wondering how people have been coping with nausea. Mine seems to be cured by eating, but mostly by eating stuff that I would NEVER eat in" real life" (i.e. lots of carbs). Needless to say, I am really worried about gaining from this. I think I need to get all scientific about this, like charting how I feel on an hourly basis and keeping track of what & how much I need to eat in order to stave off the nausea. Has anyone done this? Is the nausea predictable?

On top of that, I feel so miserable and tired that exercise is pretty unappealing, and before this I was exercising big time every day! I'm usually the first one out the door! Argh... so frustrating! But I shouldn't be complaining ---I'm SUPER excited that I'm expecting!

Hello all! My first time posting in the group... am a little nervous about making this public since I find myself constantly on edge about EVERYTHING, always thinking the worst. Which is so not like me. Must be the crazy hormones.

Anyway, I'm wondering how people have been coping with nausea. Mine seems to be cured by eating, but mostly by eating stuff that I would NEVER eat in" real life" (i.e. lots of carbs). Needless to say, I am really worried about gaining from this. I think I need to get all scientific about this, like charting how I feel on an hourly basis and keeping track of what & how much I need to eat in order to stave off the nausea. Has anyone done this? Is the nausea predictable?

On top of that, I feel so miserable and tired that exercise is pretty unappealing, and before this I was exercising big time every day! I'm usually the first one out the door! Argh... so frustrating! But I shouldn't be complaining ---I'm SUPER excited that I'm expecting!

Welcome & Congrats!

I am just starting to get to the nausea this time around (my coworkers coffee & the office break room! yikes!) so I need to get all of my "nausea supplies" out this week, but here are my hints:

- Lemon Drops (the big ones covered in salt/sugar or whatever it is
- Don't drink your water to fast
- If you can't keep anything down do some cold cereal (you digest it pretty quick & at least it tastes the same coming back up)
- Mint!! (Lotion, lipgloss, hard candy, anything)
- Essential oils & a light scarf. With my first I used a light weight scarf (the accesory kind - not the weather kind) & put a few drops of (mint) essential oils in the scarf right below my face. If I get hit with an unpleasant smell, or a wave of nausea I pull the scarf up around my mouth and nose and try to take slow, deep breaths.
- Mini Shock Tarts (Sweet tarts may work - but I think shock tarts scare the acids into retreating).

Has anyone tried the "Preggie Pops" @ Motherhood? I wonder if they are worth the drive to the mall.

I have never heard of those, but I was friendly with a co-worker at my old job who had HORRIBLE morning sickness. She had to tell the higher-ups (and everyone else) right away that she was pregnant because she was so nauseous. It would have been impossible for her to hide her pregnancy, especially working with a bunch of women! She used to buy these really strong ginger snaps (they have them at my supermarket, they're in a dark brown bag) that are quite tasty, and she pretty much only ate those and saltines. Because that was all she was able to stomach, she didn't gain weight (in fact, I think she lost weight) during her first trimester, and then she was ok to start eating normal foods again and gain weight as appropriate.

So if you're not into eating much, but what you want to eat is carb-y, don't worry about it; just eat what makes you feel better. Obviously it is when you start eating it in huge quantities that it may become an issue.

Last time I was pregnant I had major food aversions and slight nausea, so I pretty much ate a bagel and cream cheese every morning then snacked on Wheat Thins all day long while eating regular not-so-healthy stuff for lunch and dinner. (Is it any wonder I gained as much weight as I did?) Yesterday and today I couldn't finish my coffee (yesterday's strong brew tasted like coffee grounds, and today's weaker brew tasted like crappy, weak coffee). I felt icky driving my son to preschool today, like I needed to brush my teeth. I had already had my protein shake for breakfast, but I was craving something carb-y, like a bagel. I am just going to try keeping healthier, "easy" foods around, like fruits, and I am going to see how Greek yogurt goes. I am also thinking that I may have to get going with my slow cooker to make some soups.

I also kept sugar-free mint gum on hand. Not only is it good for your teeth and breath, but it helps settle my stomach. I like Dentyne Pure with Mint Melon Accents (very tasty, and the melon taste is super subtle, not sickening, which is important, since I hate fake fruity tastes). The flavor stays fresh for a while (I get nauseated by old gum), and it contains xylitol, which is supposed to help oral health (especially important while you are pregnant).

Also, don't sweat the "making it public" thing. We all don't know each other in real life (at least I don't think we do), and frankly you're all the only ones to hear about my being pregnant other than my husband. I have anxiety issues and tend to expect the worst, but the chances of something bad happening are not high. The longer your pregnancy continues, the less likely it is that something bad will happen, biologically speaking. When we were TTC, I kept thinking about worst-case scenarios, but now that I got a positive test, I am actually pretty calm about it. I was very calm when I was pregnant with my son, too.

Hello everyone! I just found out I was pregnant for my 3rd time, and am a little concerned. We lost our second baby at 8 weeks, so I am extremely nervous about this one. I am only 4 weeks right now. I am due on my parents anniversary (May 23rd). I am officially considered overweight (possibly even obese), and have been working on cutting calories for a few months now. I have read a lot on here about only needing to consume enough calories to maintain during the first trimester. However, is it ok to keep at the calories I have been eating to lose since I am starting overweight? I lost weight during my first pregnancy (25 lbs), and the doctors had stated that was fine. However, I am starting at a lower number now as well. Also, what about exercise? Should I continue, or not? Thanks for any advice! I don't see my doctor until Oct 15th, and would like some sort of guidance before then!

As I'm sure you know (or you wouldn't be asking), losing weight during pregnancy is generally frowned upon. However, if you are overweight or, as you said, possibly even obese, you may be ok to lose or just maintain. I know it's hard when you won't see your doctor for a while, but can you talk to your OB nurse? Last time I had a designated OB nurse for whom I could leave messages, and she would call me back within a day - obviously if it were more urgent I wouldn't be leaving her a message! If you can't, then what I would do in the interim is set your MFP daily calorie goal to maintain and then see what your doctor says. That is what I am doing until my first prenatal appointment.
I'm so sorry about your earlier miscarriage. I will keep you in my prayers, too, for smooth sailing!

Hello everyone! I just found out I was pregnant for my 3rd time, and am a little concerned. We lost our second baby at 8 weeks, so I am extremely nervous about this one. I am only 4 weeks right now. I am due on my parents anniversary (May 23rd). I am officially considered overweight (possibly even obese), and have been working on cutting calories for a few months now. I have read a lot on here about only needing to consume enough calories to maintain during the first trimester. However, is it ok to keep at the calories I have been eating to lose since I am starting overweight? I lost weight during my first pregnancy (25 lbs), and the doctors had stated that was fine. However, I am starting at a lower number now as well. Also, what about exercise? Should I continue, or not? Thanks for any advice! I don't see my doctor until Oct 15th, and would like some sort of guidance before then!

Firstly, congratulations on your pregnancy!

I, too, was overweight when I got pregnant, and my doctor told me to switch over to maintenance calories for first trimester, +1/2 lb gain for second, and +1 for third. Unfortunately, I've gained quite a bit already, but it has slowed quite a bit in the second trimester. Unfortunately, weight gain is difficult to control especially when it comes to water weight gains.

Focus on eating at maintenance and eating good quality food with lots of nutrients. Try not to give into major cravings for junk foods, and try to stay active. Just do your best.

Week 11 starts tomorrow! Also have my 2nd prenatal appt tomorrow. I am feeling pretty happy about this pregnancy since we bought a Doppler in week 9! It's so reassuring especially since I have lost two pregnancies. May all you mommas who have lost angels find comfort in something as well! I weigh much less then I did at this point with the last two pregnancies. Have gained 2 of the 3 pounds I lost since my bfp. . My eating is atrocious but MFP is keeping me somewhat in line. My cals are at maintenance as well and I try not to eat all of my excercise cals back. I go over about half the time! ;b

Hooray! After what felt like eternities I'm glad to be in the 1st trimester once again! I am also due May 19th and I'm so excited (my first baby was a May 2011 baby! They'll be 2 years apart!!).

Right now I'm focusing on water-water-water! Moving (doing 1-2 miles a day)! And taking my prenatal each night!

I am not even going to call my OBGYN until we've missed at least 2 cycles. With it being my second pregnancy I feel much more relaxed about everything this time around

Last time I suffered from PSD (Pubic Symphsis Dysfunction), mild HE (Hyperemisis), and incredible heartburn. I'm hoping with everything I've got that I'm not plagued by those this time around.

We are in the same boat! My first one came may 5th, 2011 and I am due around May 18th according to my calculations! I hope you are not plagued this time around! I am hoping I will not become borderline preeclampsia again. Im not fretting either so I am waiting until October to see my obgyn as I am due for my yearly anyways! Looking forward to getting to know you as we take this journey at the same time for the same finish!

I use the Sonoline B fetal Doppler. Bought it for $35 on Craigslist. You can buy them on eBay too. I found the heartbeat the first time I tried which was 9 w 5 d. 12 weeks tomorrow!

Hi all, I'm Beth, I have a 7 year old son and and currently just over 11 weeks pregnant Very pleased as have had quite a few miscarriages, but never past the 8 week stage so starting to feel very optimistic. I have already put on 8lb as I stopped exercising when I found out I was pregnant and I have been constantly hungry, so I have joined this lovely group for some inspiration and advise and to meet other ladies in similar situations and hopefully make some friends

Hope you are all feeling fab, looking forward to 'chatting' with some of you x

Congratulations and welcome!

Hello everyone. My name is Jules. I had a bit of a shock on saturday when I took a test and found it to be positive! I am 42 years old, have 2 boys, 14 and 5 and certainly wasn't planning any more. I have sold or given away everything baby related!

I am taking each day as it comes as I am only 5 weeks and in a high risk miscarriage group.

I am shocked and scared but happy! Not sure my 14 year old will be the same!

Look forward to sharing this journey with you all

Jules x

Hi again!

Hi, I'm Beth. I just found out a week ago that I am expecting Baby #2. I have a 2 1/2 year old girl and couldn't be more excited (and scared) to give her a sibling.

I gained 36 pounds with my last kiddo and thanks to MFP I lost that and an extra 32 pounds. I plan on exercising more this time around and not eating for 2. I went a little overboard last time. So far I have just been tired and hungry. I'm trying to eat healthier, but those chocolate cravings win sometimes.

Hi Beth! (I'm Rebecca!)

You sound just like me, except my son is a little older than 1 1/2. I gained about 60 and lost all that plus another 40 or so, thanks to MFP

You may want to join in on the "May 2013 Due Dates" thread, since you likely fall in there, though you may be due in the beginning of June by now!

Just keep moving and eating right. As you and I know, "eating for two" is not meant to be taken literally

Best wishes to you, welcome, and congratulations!

Hello Everyone,
This is my first post in this group. I am 5 weeks and expecting my first baby on May 17th, my husband Tye and I are very excited. We have been "Practicing" (that what Tye calls it) since January. I am a bit more tired than usual, don't know if that is due to cutting back on coffee and I've been cooking spicy food for a week straight I have gained 3 lbs and a cup size. I feel pretty bloated at times, but thats okay. I will take these symptoms as they are, its so worth it knowing whats ahead. This is so exciting I still cannot believe it!!! I am looking foward to spending these next few months with everyone!!!!

Congratulations and welcome! Your first is so exciting!

Go ahead and join the May 2013 Due Dates thread, if you like We'll be happy to have another one (especially since our numbers are low due to its being so early in our pregnancies that not a lot of women share "publicly" just yet). We have started doing daily check-ins on how everyone is feeling, plus a few of us have had first doctor's appointments already, so we get the news on those.

Welcome and congratulations to everyone!!!

just thought id say hello to everyone! im only 4.5weeks pregnant at the moment but i found out very early! EDD is around 6th june 2013 this is my 4th baby and last, i have a 4yr old, 2yr old and a 16month old at home so bit of a shock pregnancy! i plan on working out as much as possible during this pregnancy and im trying to to change my routine that much at the moment. and im still doing insanity, zumba and swimming. iv lost 65lbs since my last pregnancy so hoping to gain the very minimum this time, i still feel great at the moment just some lower back pain that eases with exercise.

hope everyone is great! and congrats to all!

Hello,

We just found out we are expecting. This will be our 4th June baby but our 6th child. I have been trying so hard to lose weight and am worried about gaining this go round. I am already big so.. I don't have easy babies and when I get sick I don't move as much. Crossing my fingers I can change that. First trimester always scares me.

I look forward to getting to know everyone and having ladies I can relate to.