Yes or no .. or don't you care .. Very personal .. lol

So .. very personal question and I apologize if I am going to far with this.

Girls .. do you shave "it" all or some of it?

Boys .. do you care if she shaves it or not. Do you want it all off or some of it .. or just trimmed nicely .. lol.
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  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    Shaved, trimmed, it doesn't matter me. If I get to see it, I must be doing something right, and that's all that matters.
  • farmers_daughter
    farmers_daughter Posts: 1,632 Member
    Gone, all of it.

    Gonna sound mean but , I don't like it, it's a dealbreaker....he doesn't have to like it, but the door is
    > that way if he wants it different.
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    Winter = trim
    Summer = completely gone, don't want any peek a boo going on with my bikini line.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I prefer shaved or trimmed but not a real thing short of a sasquatch down there.
    If I am at that point of knowing I is going to be very rare for me to turn away.
  • cdngirl71
    cdngirl71 Posts: 2,641 Member
    I shave it all off. I like to be nice and smooth! I prefer guys to be either trimmed or shaved.
  • Danielle_2013
    Danielle_2013 Posts: 806 Member
    New boyfriend is a dedicated manscaper. He gets his back waxed..and trims his chest hair, among other things. Actually he is way more concerned about that than me. I am not sure how to feel about this yet.

    Best thing ever though.. said he was thinking about me in the shower and forgot to change the settings on his razor, started doing his chest and realized he shaved bare a strip up the middle. Had to shave the whole thing. ha ha ha

    Personally, having no hair is not attractive to me for men or women. Don't like the little girl look. I combo shave and trim.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    Gone bye bye. Cant stand having hair there. I live in a very warm humid climate which can make hair uncomfortable. Also I like my men trimmed in that area. The rest of thier body I dont care about but I dont wanna floss with hair so if they want oral (which I love:blushing: ) they better keep it trim
  • lniffa
    lniffa Posts: 675 Member
    Shaved and my guys shaved or smooth.
  • cinsuccess
    cinsuccess Posts: 333 Member
    I prefer it all gone and I'm actually having laser treatments to make it permanent.
  • grum84
    grum84 Posts: 428 Member
    I trim mine short as I don't want it getting in the way of anything she may want to do. But honestly would manscape to what my partner preferred if they wanted something specific.

    As far as on a woman, I prefer shaved or trimmed short. I am a big fan of giving oral, so much hair down there other than decorative (which can be extremely sexy if it looks good), has a habit of just getting in my way.
  • 4themoney
    4themoney Posts: 797 Member
    i was shaving it all off, until my oldest daughter started puberty...... it's hard to explain why she is getting hair, when i don't have any. i mean, i tell her i shave it off, but i mean, i have less than she does at this point!!!!!!! and there is just something wrong with that for me.

    so, i shave MOST OF IT. but, i do leave some. i have to. i cannot look like i'm younger than my pubescent daughters!!!!!!!


    on guys,i like it trimmed. i don't care for the "all the way shaved off look" on guys. but, it has to be trimmed up nice and neat. :-)
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    i keep it shaved year round, winter, fall, spring, summer...its all gone!!!
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Trimmed. Shaved by request! :bigsmile:
  • will010574
    will010574 Posts: 761 Member
    I manscape and I like bare on my partners but its not a deal breaker...as long as she doesnt have a Greek Sailor going on down there, I am more then happy.
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    I don't really like chest hair. And my BB is covered in it. Somehow with him it doesn't bother me.
  • BigBrewski
    BigBrewski Posts: 922 Member
    *taking notes*
  • kerrymh
    kerrymh Posts: 912 Member
    trim, and prefer the same or bare on a man..bare on me just would look silly (IMO)
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I'm a baldie. I prefer at least a trim with the guy. If it's not managed he's not getting oral. That stuff smells awful anyway.
  • marvelprime
    marvelprime Posts: 91 Member
    My ex didn't seem to care, neither did I...so "wild bush" ruled... I'll just go with the preference of my future SO. As clumsy as I am though, I'll probably stick with trimming...
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    I alternate. Sometimes I'm natural, other times I get annoyed of it and trim it shorter (usually once a month or so). But if a man I was dating liked it different, I wouldn't be opposed to changing it (as long as it wasn't bothersome).
  • I shave, I can't stand having that hair. For my guy it is nice if he trims.
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
    All gone.
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    Wow...I feel overdressed. :laugh:

    Short landing strip for me. I don't like to be completely shaved, but will upon request.

    Prefer he be trimmed.
  • julesboots
    julesboots Posts: 311 Member
    I will totally admit that I am fascinated by what ladies do with their parts- I might be the pervy lady checking people out in the locker room because it's so interesting to me. I don't really care that much about guys as long as they shower enough, and it's not like steel wool cutting me or something.

    In my 20s I was a very close trimmer, but was super against brazilians because I thought it was anti-grown woman, and sort of pedophilish. Have totally changed tune over the last few years, and am lasering it off.

    But downside: I don't like my daughter seeing the bareness which is hard to avoid with lack of modesty and tiny house.
  • Prahasaurus
    Prahasaurus Posts: 1,381 Member
    I will totally admit that I am fascinated by what ladies do with their parts.....

    Me, too! Something else we have in common...
    In my 20s I was a very close trimmer, but was super against brazilians because I thought it was anti-grown woman, and sort of pedophilish. Have totally changed tune over the last few years, and am lasering it off.

    I hope you are only referring to the pubic hair?

    --P
  • Jennifer2387
    Jennifer2387 Posts: 957 Member
    All right, so I was only going to "trim" as you say .. but then I went a little too far and things started to go badly so i wound up shaving it all off. I am not sure I am a fan of this ..lol.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    All right, so I was only going to "trim" as you say .. but then I went a little too far and things started to go badly so i wound up shaving it all off. I am not sure I am a fan of this ..lol.

    its easier if you buy a trimmer.... they make them especially for girl parts
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    This is a great question because I have always wanted to ask... How do you trim/shave?

    If I use a razor I always, always get red itchy bumps and ingrown hairs- not attractive. I had tried Nair and that works but it grows back so fast, and can sting if you get it too close to certain parts. Waxing lasts the longest but it HURTS. I would love to get it lasered but right now it's not in the budget.

    So what do you use?
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    This is a great question because I have always wanted to ask... How do you trim/shave?

    If I use a razor I always, always get red itchy bumps and ingrown hairs- not attractive. I had tried Nair and that works but it grows back so fast, and can sting if you get it too close to certain parts. Waxing lasts the longest but it HURTS. I would love to get it lasered but right now it's not in the budget.

    So what do you use?

    Shave with the grain no against it first of all. So shave downward not upward will help get rid of the razor rash(red bumps) Using a travel eletric shavor helps as help. Make sure the is wet and use shaving cream lotion. Dry shaving bad. I had one bad experience with nair never again.
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    All right, so I was only going to "trim" as you say .. but then I went a little too far and things started to go badly so i wound up shaving it all off. I am not sure I am a fan of this ..lol.

    its easier if you buy a trimmer.... they make them especially for girl parts

    Love it!

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