Happy Monday Check-In/Accountability & Goal Setting!

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  • He was a fantastic comedian and actor; sad to lose him. His passing is really opening up a lot of conversation via social media and otherwise. It's good that people are talking. Carry the torch!
  • So, I know I'm the only one really doing this, but that's cool! Still making myself accountable. This Monday's another hard one. This past week was tricky. I was unmotivated with exercise. I'm also having a trying time (at times) with my fella being between jobs and home everyday. Lack of motivation, I'd rather just hang out with him instead of running for 60 minutes. And when he has some chips in the afternoon, I'm like "sure, why not!" when I'd never reach for afternoon chips if I were here alone. Oh well.


    So my goals for the past week:
    Alcohol: 2200 cal goal
    Sober days: 3
    Calories over: 700 max.

    What actually happened:
    Alcohol: 2806 cal -- 606 calories over, so like 3-4 drinks. Not too bad, really. Considering the out of town wedding.
    Sober days: 3 (almost 4)
    Calories over: 4,718 OUCH! I know I ate a lot at the wedding and while on the road. Wanted to make sure I had food in me before having drinks. So it's that, along with going out for food, along with only working out 3 days this week, instead of 5. I may have over-logged in some spots, who knows.

    This week's goals:
    Alcohol: 2200 cal goal (let's try that one again)
    Sober days: 4
    Calories over: 600 (gotta try and make up for last week! Which will involve more exercise!)


    I AM going to my Father's cottage this weekend which may be food trouble, but we have my step-daughter so shouldn't be too crazy at all on the alcohol front.

    Have a great week everyone! Anything fun coming up?!
  • Jeep_This
    Jeep_This Posts: 819 Member
    So, I know I'm the only one really doing this, but that's cool! Still making myself accountable.

    Just letting you know, I just read this thread, but don't post...so you are still accountable! :smokin: :wink:
  • Haha thanks! Hard to be accountable sometimes!
  • ariannes225
    ariannes225 Posts: 15 Member
    I still read this, even though I haven't really been doing that great lately. New goal: No drinks M-Th. Question for everyone: do you find that you drink more during the weekend, or at basically the same rate all week, or does it depend?
  • jacques57
    jacques57 Posts: 2,129 Member
    I used to drink weekends only, then it got to be almost every night, and mostly when I was alone. Weekends got really heavy till I poisoned myself with gin. That's when I quit.

    After two years I started having a beer once in a while - I missed it - and sure enough the same pattern was reappearing. So that's it. Done with Alcohol.
  • Yeah, alcohol is definitely a progressive slope. Because I work in the restaurant industry my "weekend" is usually Tuesday/Wednesday or something like that. I actually drink less on my days off because I want to use them to the fullest AND I think I'm also happy on my days off, whereas I treat my job as a trigger or excuse for drinking. That being said, it's difficult when the actual weekend comes around and I'm like "well....it's Friday, who doesn't want to have a beer or two on a patio on a Friday night?" So, I don't know. Weekends are tricky too because that's when people with m-f, 9-5 jobs through bbqs, have bday parties, etc. So there are more social events/activities on weekends. I would rather have one drink a day then binge drink on weekends, for example. When I was in University, my roommate and I went to visit her grandparents in California during our spring break. It was a hilarious trip for many reasons, but one thing I do recall is her grandfather - he would have one cocktail at 5 or 6pm and that was it for the day. But he was religious about having it every day. When I picture myself as a drinker, I'd like to picture something like that. I'm a creature of habit and I like routine......it's just the stopping after one. And drinking that one at a reasonable pace. Or maybe it's a glass with dinner. I don't know.

    It's almost September. My fella and I are reading Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking (which I've read before, he hasn't). We're freeing ourselves from the ol Nicotine trap next week. I can't wait! I hate smoking lately. Feels so wrong, whereas it used to feel right - ish. We're also starting our dry/clean month soon, which we take every autumn. I think it should coincide with quitting smoking. But will that be too tricky? I don't think so.....we'll be able to focus our time and minds on many other things during the month. And without alcohol, we won't haven't a drunken slip on the smoking.

    Does anyone on here battle the smoking issue?


    Now I've got to log my food for the last two days and see where my drinking landed. Be back to post shortly! Happy Monday!
  • Last week's goals:
    Alcohol: 2200 cal goal
    Sober days: 4
    Calories over: 600

    Results:
    Alcohol: 2722 cal, 522 calories over goal. Oh will I ever hit this goal.....?
    Sober days: 3 (I guess with 4, I would've hit the above goal)
    Calories over for the week: 0
    in fact, I was at a 247 calorie deficit for the week!

    This week's goals:

    Alcohol: 2500
    Sober days: 3
    Calories over: 700

    As I mentioned in my previous post, I am intending to quit smoking early next week and take my clean month around the same time. I am giving myself more breathing room this week, as I know I may want to indulge a bit. We'll see what happens.

    Anyone else ready for a sober September?
  • ajs2mf
    ajs2mf Posts: 97 Member
    Hey! I just found this group. I love the idea of having a Monday check-in and look over how much I drank.

    Last week, I drank way too much. (Hence joining this group. :)

    Mostly, my goal for this week is to drink less than last week. I haven't really paid too much attention to how many calories I drink in the past, so I'll just stick with that for the first week. Also, four days without drinking.
  • PLT1971
    PLT1971 Posts: 4 Member
    Hello. I am back to MFP after taking a couple of months off, and am going to really try to get the alcohol consumption under control. I love the idea of posting goals for the week, and then reporting back on Mondays, - plus posts throughout the week to offer encouragement to each other. I can't recall the last time I had a sober day... It has been a couple of years, at least. I usually drink the equivalent of 6 standard drinks per night (a standard drink being 1.5 ounces of vodka, 12 oz light beer or 5 oz of white wine). And more than that on the weekends. I know that's waaaayyyy too much, and need to get it under control. I'm not willing to eliminate alcohol at this point, unless I am just unable to get a grip with moderation.

    If it's okay for everyone, I'm going to post my goals and results in # of standard drinks. For this week, my goal is to have no more than 35 standard drinks (average of 5 per day). I know that's terrible, but for me it's an improvement. I usually consume around 600-700 calories in drinks per day. Gee, I wonder why I have such a hard time losing weight?!?

    Thanks for making this an encouraging place for those of us who struggle with alcohol!
  • Hey! Welcome, welcome PLT1971 and ajs2mf! Happy to have you here! Thanks for being open to sharing how you're feeling with the alcohol battle and it's fantastic that you're both setting goals. It's nice to have company on here!

    I indulged a little too much last night. We were bbq'ing and listening to a sort of 'podcast' about the 30 greatest classic rock albums of all time - I was in Heaven, having way too much fun.

    Then there's this morning. Supposed to run today, have an appointment at 3pm downtown and have a few jobs for which I'd like to apply. BUT ALL I WANNA DO is snuggle in bed and read and watch netflix and eat. Thankfully my fella is kicking my butt into gear, encouraging me to go about my normal, productive day. What's worse is that I drunkenly made plans last night with an old friend. Made plans to drink this afternoon/early evening. Think I'm going to flake. We haven't seen each other since April so I know it'll be a boozy and smokey visit. I do want to see her before next week, as I'm doing a dry month and quitting smoking but really, I don't want to drink today. We'll see. I dislike when I do that. Make any plans or decisions while drinking. I've become better at it - not doing it - but not last night. Bah. Ok.....little rant finished. Chin up. Happy Wednesday! Have a good day everyone!
  • ajs2mf
    ajs2mf Posts: 97 Member
    Hey PLT1971, thanks for your honesty! Everyone is at different places, but I appreciate knowing there are other people who struggle with this too! Sometimes even just counting the number of drinks you have in a week can help you cut back.
  • ariannes225
    ariannes225 Posts: 15 Member
    Hey everyone,
    Doing well this week so far. My usual course of action used to be to have I'd say... probably a bottle of wine per night when I got home from work or wherever. This week and last week I cut that out completely M-Th. My daily trips to the pub have become more like once/week. Fewer beer calories = a good thing. I enjoy not waking up with hangovers of any kind. It's kind of nice. The BIG catch is though, I have lost NO weight. I've actually GAINED a few lbs? What gives? Oh well. Sigh. Am considering doing sober September. It would be nice if we could make it a group thing.
  • jacques57
    jacques57 Posts: 2,129 Member
    Am considering doing sober September. It would be nice if we could make it a group thing.

    Count me in.
  • watersm04
    watersm04 Posts: 190 Member
    I'm in!
  • PLT1971
    PLT1971 Posts: 4 Member
    Thanks for the warm welcome into the group! I'm not ready for a sober September, but will definitely be improving my numbers and cheering you Sober September folk on! You can do it!!
  • YESSSSSS! I'm so happy others are into Sober September! I'm a bit nervous about it, but glad you guys are here for me - we're here for each other. My fiance and I are in it together. He knows about this group of ours' and so he gets support too, by proxy!

    I'm more excited about quitting smoking! Oh the money saved! And health, of course.

    So, as of Tuesday, I decided I would be taking this last "summer" week off from working out and be a bit more chill about food and booze. It's sort of like a stay-cation. Though I am working and still logging what I eat, I wanted to give myself a conscious break, as I didn't really get much of a summer vacation this year. So, that being said, my goals for this week might be pointless. I'm at 2,324 calories from alcohol this week. Almost at my goal. Going to drink more than that. I am working all weekend, but will be having drinks on Sunday, I suspect.

    Ariannes225! Great work from you! That's absolutely awesome!
  • Jeep_This
    Jeep_This Posts: 819 Member
    YESSSSSS! I'm so happy others are into Sober September! I'm a bit nervous about it, but glad you guys are here for me - we're here for each other. My fiance and I are in it together. He knows about this group of ours' and so he gets support too, by proxy!

    I'm more excited about quitting smoking! Oh the money saved! And health, of course.


    Are you really not drinking in September, nadamandar? Thirty days. If you do it, I will, too. :smokin:
  • Yes, Jeep_This. Yes I am really not drinking. I am not starting until the 2nd though. And I will go one day into October. I'm working a crazy amount all weekend. Will be having drinks after my long-*kitten* work day tomorrow.

    But please! Join! It's going to be hard, but amazing!
  • Happy Monday! Happy September! Happy Labour Day!

    I work a nice long double shift today! Time and a half, I suppose....been working all weekend but there's light at the end of the tunnel.

    I have tomorrow off. A very special day off! At some point tomorrow I will be having my last cigarette. I can't express the joy. I know there will be trying moments but it won't be as trying as the **** I endure as a smoker.

    Also, tomorrow marks the start of my 30 day clean break. Sorry I cannot start today but I'm having a couple beers tonight. Holiday Monday, end of work insanity.

    So........who's on board??
  • ajs2mf
    ajs2mf Posts: 97 Member
    Monday Check-In:

    Not a bad week for me. I only drank three days. I had 17 drinks, which I know is still a lot, but I feel pretty good about the improvement from the week before.

    I am going to do my own version of "Sober September" -- no more than three drinks in one day for the month. It will still probably be pretty difficult for me.

    Happy Labor Day, guys! I appreciate the support.
  • bethanyka
    bethanyka Posts: 159 Member
    Hi Guys!
    Haven't been checking in as much, I'm sorry...

    For the last 2 weeks, I've had 2 drinking days which is great for me! About 1200 calories, estimated.

    In my head, I'm trying to just give up drinking altogether, but then around day 10 i seem to want to give in.
    However, 2 in 14 days is still great progress for me.

    I am still trying to figure out how/ if/ why I want to give up or try to drink moderately.

    Sounds like everyone is doing well! Happy Labor day! Glad to be anywhere but at the office !! :)
  • Hey! So I drank a lot last week. It was my stay-cation. But still - a lot. 4,426. Lots of beer. Oh well....month off starting tomorrow. I didn't log anything for Saturday and Sunday, as I've been working so much and have little time at home. Back on track today.

    Glad to hear others are doing well! You're inspiration! Thanks!
  • jacques57
    jacques57 Posts: 2,129 Member
    Relapse was tempting, but sobriety was more persuasive. Have a good September, what ever your goals!
  • Day one of 30 days and had my last cigarette 3 hrs ago! Ahhhhh! And we're off.....
  • ariannes225
    ariannes225 Posts: 15 Member
    So.. Sober September isn't going to be a thing that happens for me this time, but I am on week 3 of NO wine M-Th after work, which used to be my usual thing. It gets easier the longer I do it. It isn't really even an issue anymore. I'm also keeping my beer calories under or around 600 per week, which... I used to be able to drink as many calories PER DAY, so that's pretty good. I'll be here cheering you sober folks on this month, and hopefully sticking to my own goals! You can do it!
  • jacques57
    jacques57 Posts: 2,129 Member
    Day one of 30 days and had my last cigarette 3 hrs ago! Ahhhhh! And we're off.....

    My thoughts and best wishes are with you. That is a particularly vicious monkey on your back, but others have done it and you will too.
  • So far so good! Go Ariannes225! Go!
  • Hey guys! Happy Monday! Still going to forge ahead with this!

    This week I drank on Monday, started my 30 days on Tuesday and also kicked smoking on Tuesday.

    My alcohol calories for last week (Monday): 934 calories
    I was over my calorie goal for the week by 308 calories. Not bad for first week in. Now that it's almost been a week, I think I can reign it in a bit.

    This week I intend to have 0 drinks and I intend to not be over my weekly calories. Hoping exercise, even just extra walking, will help me get there!

    Still have to fit in that wedding dress in under three months!

    How's everyone else doing??! How was the week and weekend?
  • PLT1971
    PLT1971 Posts: 4 Member
    Awesome job, nadamandar!! My goal for the week is 2 alcohol free days, and under 6,000 alcohol calories. Have a great week everyone!