Hi! I Was here when it all started. I was a dating maniac, had lots of fun and some bfs!
I presently am living with my bf whom I reunited with last December, and we're in love. I still love peaking in here to read any updates.

Barf. Single here too.

Wait, we have non-single peeps here? *reaches for the mod ban stick* lol. kidding. I don't care as long as there isn't any drama.

That's exactly why I don't sign up for any online dating services Jennifer. Why pay for the same amount of attention that you are getting in public, just my two cents.

And no, you are not horrendous.

Its downright depressing!! lol I won't be doing that again for sure! I follow this chick on Twitter and she signed up for Match and she was having dates like every other day! Sometimes 2 a day on the weekend! Now she is happily with this man and has been for like 6 months! Of course, she lives in Boston and not my teeny tiny town. But still.

Jennifer10723 wrote: »

There isn't anyone in this ghost town to start drama.

I blame the new forums. Groups are a bit hidden away. i.e. no longer on the main forum page with all the default topics. Speaking of drama, I beta tested the new forums and learned that there is a slight bug that I believe they haven't fixed yet. If you get banned from the main forums, you will also be banned from any and all groups you have joined as well. I asked if this also went the other way. Meaning if someone got banned from a "Group" would they also be banned from the main forums. Unfortunately no.

laurenz1017 wrote: »

Jennifer10723: I did a free trial for eHarmony and I DIDN'T HAVE ANY MATCHES! HAHAHA! Ughhhh!! I did on match.com though. 1 horrendous date came out of it. I'm on a few of the free sites. Free or not, online dating just sucks anymore.

That would soooooo be my luck too!! I hate hate hate dating. Plus I hate logging on and seeing someone I have been talking to already online .. lol. I'm like really dude?? lol I have issues.

That would soooooo be my luck too!! I hate hate hate dating. Plus I hate logging on and seeing someone I have been talking to already online .. lol. I'm like really dude?? lol I have issues.

I'm the same way!! Especially someone I've been talking to for awhile and if it seems like it's going in the right direction then I see them logged in! I swear when that's the case I usually just sign on to get rid of notifications and delete messages. Which could also be true for the guy but....somehow I doubt it! lol

Single, but dating....dating one guy for about a month........not exclusive yet, so have a date with someone I have been out with several times (just as friends as he was going through/recovering from divorce) next weekend.....see what the future brings

MissingMinnesota wrote: »

laurenz1017 wrote: »

That would soooooo be my luck too!! I hate hate hate dating. Plus I hate logging on and seeing someone I have been talking to already online .. lol. I'm like really dude?? lol I have issues.

I'm the same way!! Especially someone I've been talking to for awhile and if it seems like it's going in the right direction then I see them logged in! I swear when that's the case I usually just sign on to get rid of notifications and delete messages. Which could also be true for the guy but....somehow I doubt it! lol

But you are logging in to be able to see that he is on line. Maybe he sees you on line and thinks the same thing as you do that you are seeing what else is out there.

Exactly what MM said...you are upset to see him on, but you are on too. Also, ......I know on OKC, when I had that phone app, I had no way to log out on my phone........and my friend NEVER signs out of POF when she isn't on....so that could be the reason also (although I would think some apps would log you out after a certain amount of time)

I have OKC and POF apps on my phone. Unless I specifically log out of the apps each time I use them, they will report me online as long as there is an internet connection. My ex and I did a test on this after we met.

And I had a psychology prof in college that actually made us all sign up for an Eharmony personality profile. So not the dating part necessarily, but just the long questionnaire to tell us about our personality. Talk about depressing when at the end of it all, it gave me my personality profile, and said that Eharmony would not be able to match me with anyone. The site didn't even give me an option to get rejected, it rejected me from even moving forward to the dating part.

Jennifer10723 wrote: »

Nooooo .. I didn't mean to make it sound like I was stalking his online activity! If I would get a message or a notification and go to clear it or whatever. There isn't even anyone I am talking to .. I was just saying hypothetically .. or when I have in the past.

but.....that is just it...he could have been just on to check a message to clear it or see if message was from you....right?

I am single. And... *looks around the room*
*Whispers*: I've never had a boyfriend.

sweetcurlz67 wrote: »

thadenge wrote: »

Why oh why do you womenfolk have to be so freaking confusing??? lol

Single - no bf

Ummm why do MEN have to be so confusing???

There's a guy I've sorta seen a few times since March. He acts like he likes me when he calls, texts, sees me. Thing is, he hardly ever calls, texts, sees me. So I give up on him thinking he's not into me then he'll call & we'll see each other. Or say something promising. And before you ask... nothing sexual with this guy yet. Only a hug so far. He seems like a real gentleman. Again... why are men so confusing???

Btw... I am NOT putting my life on hold for this guy. But if he steps it up... GREAT!

How hard is it to say, "You are really confusing me. What's up with the infrequent nature of calling me?" or even better, you like the guy enough that you're qualifying your relationship as nothing sexual YET. Why not take some initiative and call him to arrange doing something?