New to EM2WL?? Read this!!!

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  • sunheechung
    sunheechung Posts: 24 Member
    hi guys ! I'm new here! just started using myfitness again! never really used it anyways! I'm trying to lose weight but still EAT! because i LOVEEE EATING I'm 155b right now, want to get to 120-130!! 5'6 !!!hope i can get a lot of help and motivation from this grouP!!!
  • mystuffperez
    mystuffperez Posts: 4 Member
    I SERIOUSLY need some help. I always go over the calorie budget but I know that its because my food choices are empty calories. So I want to EAT more healthy choices to WEIGHT less. :)
  • KickboxDiva
    KickboxDiva Posts: 142 Member
    Glad to have found this group. I've lost 40lbs in the last year. Stalled out 6 months ago. Started researching higher calories and gradually increased. I've been maintaining 1700-2200. Dropped from 43% to 18% and increased muscle. This week I gained 1 lb., could have been anything, but my trainer (who I love but isn't a nutritionist) said it's because 2000 is too much! Tired of bro science. I'm looking for support. It's scary to increase and go against my trainers advice but I can't diet for ever!
  • cory17
    cory17 Posts: 1,513 Member
    This is an interesting group find. I need help. Having difficulty keeping my calories within the mfp guidelines for loss and my body keeps trying/succeeding in regaining any weight lost. Exercise (mainly cardio) almost daily. Midfifties female
  • I too am new, this is my first day! I am so excited to have support, encouragement, and to meet new friends! I would love if you would add me as a friend, so I can encourage and lift you up as well! Cheers!
  • zoezoekende
    zoezoekende Posts: 27 Member
    Hi there, new to the group from Holland. Losing weight since januari. And already eating more than the last years. Glad I found this group , can use all the tips I can get
  • Speekerzz
    Speekerzz Posts: 3 Member
    I am new here , and I have been trying to follow this philosophy. I seem to do good for a while, then I run out of steam and my body won't lose a lb. I then hit a point where it all seems to go good and then I back slide. I just lose 30lbs in two months for a surgery I had to do, I managed the recovery ok with only gaining 5lbs. I caught bronchitis upon my return to work and then a cold shortly there after. Within the month of being back at work, I have gained another 7lbs, from being ill and not being able to hit the gym and just losing my groove. So tempting to cut back on eating, and I know that is not the way. Hard to see myself go backwards though. Hope I can glean something from here. :)
  • I just realized mfp had groups (shrug) and the group title caught my attention.

    I've learned in the past when I eat more I lose weight, but somehow I keep forgetting and listening to these doctors and nutritionists who tell me cut my calories.
    I would wonder how do you cut 0? Literally some days I wouldn't eat just because I forgot it was busy or just wasn't in the mood.

    I've been cooking and eating like a fiend and I am down almost 10 lbs in the past almost 3 weeks. And I feel great. Will definitely be following this group closely.
  • IamUndrCnstruction
    IamUndrCnstruction Posts: 691 Member
    Going to be blunt here....can this work for someone who has more than 60 pounds to lose? Also, I have to restrict my carbs for medical reasons and wonder how that would work with this woe. I don't have an issue with the carb restriction and find it quite sustainable. Lately though, I have noticed that I am uber hungry All. The. Time. I am beginning to come to the realization that 1360 a day may not be enough. I am 5'10" 211, I work out 5 days a week (not intensely by most standards, but I do what I can within my limitations) cardio and lifting, again, not heavy by some standards, but who cares about other people's standards anyway LOL.....just trying to wrap my head around all this and TERRIFIED of upping my calories.
  • heybales
    heybales Posts: 18,842 Member
    Everyone no matter how much to lose can pick a reasonable deficit rather than extreme, and lose weight eating more than bare minimum.

    You'd probably find your workouts can be better without such a big deficit.

    Minimum input sooner or later leads to minimum output from your body.

    Or are you correctly following MFP method and non-exercise day is 1360, but you correctly log exercise and eat more on days you actually burn more?

    And intense every day is not good either. Intense needs rest and repair and recovery time, you do intense the next day with same muscles, you'll soon find yourself doing mediocre workouts because muscles are always tired.

    And heavy is for you. If by the end of your desired rep range you barely hold good form, that is heavy for you.
    If by the end you could do 20 more reps easily - ya, that ain't doing much with your time.

    With 60 lbs to lose you could probably warrant a 20% deficit, until you hit 50 lbs left, then back to suggested.
  • IamUndrCnstruction
    IamUndrCnstruction Posts: 691 Member
    I am actually quite confused about what is correct anymore. I have had my BMR measured at the hospital at 1760, but MFP tells me to eat 1360 and I am not even setting it to 2# a week loss. Also, according to many in the general forums, I should set my activity to sedentary because I have a desk job. I have checked multiple sites with "activity calculators" and they put me at lightly to moderately active. I am afraid to eat back the exercise calories due to being told that MFP grossly overestimates calorie burns.

    As far as my lifting, yeah, I go for "barely holding on" by the end of 3x10. I won't lie and say it's a big ole weight, but it works for me :)
  • Dcorriette66
    Dcorriette66 Posts: 23 Member
    Looking forward to being in this group. Anything that advocates eating is alright with me :smiley:
    I haven't done much with myfitnesspal since joining in 2012 and logged in today to get started. I have lost 50lbs this past year without much exercise and now looking to use exercise plus food to lose another 70lbs.
  • heybales
    heybales Posts: 18,842 Member
    edited March 2015
    I am actually quite confused about what is correct anymore. I have had my BMR measured at the hospital at 1760, but MFP tells me to eat 1360 and I am not even setting it to 2# a week loss. Also, according to many in the general forums, I should set my activity to sedentary because I have a desk job. I have checked multiple sites with "activity calculators" and they put me at lightly to moderately active. I am afraid to eat back the exercise calories due to being told that MFP grossly overestimates calorie burns.

    As far as my lifting, yeah, I go for "barely holding on" by the end of 3x10. I won't lie and say it's a big ole weight, but it works for me :)

    They measured your RMR, not BMR.
    RMR is higher by usually 150-250.
    Unless they really did have you sleep in during the night, gently wake you, put a hood over your head, and let you fall back asleep for a bit while they measured - that would be BMR.
    If awake sitting in a chair resting, that Resting Metabolic Rate, RMR.

    You made MFP give you 1360 by your selection of weight loss weekly amount, and guess of non-exercise activity level.
    If you have kids at home after a desk job and on weekends - you aren't sedentary, you are lightly active outside of exercise.

    And then that 1360 is ONLY on non-exercise days, on exercise days you correctly log your workouts and eat back the calories, keeping the same deficit, which means you eat more than 1360 on those days.

    It doesn't grossly inflate, people think that as the excuse for why they don't lose weight.
    If it has an intensity level, it's really accurate, like walking and running.
    If it has none at all, of course it could be off, but either direction actually.
    Plus people are many times not honest with their logging time.
    Was that 60 min on the treadmill walking 4 mph, or actually 50 min total, and working your way up to 4 mph finally for 10 min, then slower again? So avg is actually 3.5 perhaps.
    Or spin class, really 45 min of normal intense spinning, or 5-10 min warmup easier, and 10 min cooldown and stretching, so less than 30 of actual spin class?
    And actually, logging Strength Training as the manner you are doing, is pretty accurate too, all things considered.

    As to your RMR being 1760, is that close to correct for your age, weight, height?
    Or even better if you've been in diets before losing muscle mass - is it correct for your bodyfat % you currently have?
    It could be dead on correct.
    Then again it could be badly suppressed by upwards of 20%.

    Obviously it would drive your metabolism in to the ground even more if you based your eating figures on the 2nd potential.
  • Bebe6740
    Bebe6740 Posts: 57 Member
    Taking a leap of faith....happily
    Hello,

    I have been blessed to find this EM2LW forum/group in a much needed time in my life. I am 31, 5'7, weighing in at 240lbs- the highest I have ever weighed!

    I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism and take 100mcg starting 6 weeks ago. I finally have some much needed energy, and with that, some much wanted motivation. My blood work is great now. So.....

    Like many here, I want to get healthy, be fit, and yes of course, look great in clothes (and out of it :) ).

    I've done all the diets on the face of this earth, but never had 'success' as explained in the initial forum. I would lose weight, gain it, lose it, gain it, gain some more, then some more on top of that, then lose some, gain some, and again and again.

    I'm tired of always thinking about 'food', what am i going to eat that, how can I eat that?, i want that, no I can't have that, shoot I had that now what?....You get the drill..... It's like if 'food' and my 'weight' controlled/s my every existence.

    I've come to this forum and joined this group because I AM SO OVER ALL OF THAT! I am extremely motivated and WILL beat this once and for all! I will work at it for however long it takes, I am mentally determined!

    Now having said that.....shooot am I scared! I stopped going to the gym for about 1 year now, so I used to be moderately active, and now sit at a desk all day. But, I have re-joined the gym and have already have gone 3times/week.

    SO I guess my question goes out to you all, when calculating my tdee-15-20% am I to use moderately active or lightly active? ( I will be lifting weights 3/4 times a week, with a couple of 30 minute cardio days).

    My BMR seems to be 1866, and TDEE 2700....??

    If that the case TDEE-15% would put me at 2450 calories a day, holy crap that is a LOT OF FOOD!!!!!

    I trust the process, so I will do it with a great leap of faith, but I just wanted confirmation on the cut value I should be eating at? Also, are we to adjust the calculations after losing 10 lbs or so? Or am I to eat 2450 cals for a long time?

    THANK YOU TO ALL IN ADVANCE!!! I am sure you will see many more future posts from me! Add me!
  • heybales
    heybales Posts: 18,842 Member
    3 x weekly at gym.
    For 30 min each, or 2 hrs each?

    Days is not a useful indicator, hours at least helps. Though 1 hr walking is not the same as 1 hr spin class as 1 hr lifting either.

    What is daily life too, you are only talking gym. No kids to make rest of life a tad more active?

    And you would be very realistic to take 20% deficit IF you have been eating up around maintenance for a while.
    Not exercise included TDEE, but sedentary TDEE as you have been.
    If eating up around that level, than 20% will work down to last 80 lbs to go. Then switch to 15% better.

    For adjusting - you should always eat correctly for your level of activity.
    10 lbs lost usually gives a decent enough change, but just look and see on the TDEE estimate by using 10 lbs lighter, you can check it out all the way to goal weight for that matter.
    But more importantly, if you do more than planned in TDEE estimate - you eat more, if you do less, you eat less.
    Life lesson there of course to help maintain weight.
  • Graceious1
    Graceious1 Posts: 716 Member
    I have just joined and I am so happy to find this group because I do love my food. I look forward to sharing information with you all and picking up tips. :)
  • rbee2015
    rbee2015 Posts: 50 Member
    Graceious1 wrote: »
    I have just joined and I am so happy to find this group because I do love my food. I look forward to sharing information with you all and picking up tips. :)

    Hey girl , I am brand new to this concept . Can you tell me how to calculate a TDEE? I am calculating my BMR right now. I have a sister in law, who is skinny, buff, hard as a rock and eats massive amounts of food....never could figure out how she looks the way she does. She never volunteers any info.
  • rbee2015
    rbee2015 Posts: 50 Member
    Never mind , I figured out my TDEE.....wow this is an interesting way of looking at weight loss. I knew it was not a good idea to consume very little calories....the body hates that. TTYL
  • Jennbecca33
    Jennbecca33 Posts: 321 Member
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  • Hi! I'm relatively new to faithfully using the MyFitnessPal app. I enjoy learning the importance of keeping my caloric count up, especially when exercising. I hope to learn more about filling my calories with healthy choices, in addition to my juicing. WW was great for me years ago. Now that I'm over 50, I want FREE wellness and fitness assistance. :smile:

    I look forward to learning and sharing!
  • malovafarms
    malovafarms Posts: 78 Member
    Hi Im new to the group and I luv to eat healthy in good quantity to fuel up.. learning balance and getting into exercise more.. theres no way Id start eating to few calories while increasing exercise ! Doesn't make sense to me .. looking for results.. but priority is energy :) now hopefully both as I get fit
  • howdy! im new here too and i havent lost a lotta weight by cutting calories, soooo im gonna try eating more (in a healthy way) instead!! pls support me :p
  • Jennbecca33
    Jennbecca33 Posts: 321 Member
    Welcome to all the new members! Feel free to friend request the group leaders along the right hand side of the main page. Also be sure to check out the main website at www.em2wl.com We're glad to have you all join the group!!
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  • tannercreek1
    tannercreek1 Posts: 1 Member
    Hello, I'm new to this group today and I'm a bit confused by the 40/30/30 for Carb, protein and fat. On my Fit Bit/( Jawbone actually) for today it says I have 47%protein, 83%fat and 58% Carbs.. I have eaten 847 calories. I know I am supposed to eat 1900 calories but won't my percentages be way over. I think I am doing the math wrong and I need to change my calories on MFP. What numbers do I look at on my Jawbone and My Fitness Pal? Thanks.
  • CarrieBeard
    CarrieBeard Posts: 117 Member
    hum??? Increasing calories is scary!
  • heybales
    heybales Posts: 18,842 Member
    Hello, I'm new to this group today and I'm a bit confused by the 40/30/30 for Carb, protein and fat. On my Fit Bit/( Jawbone actually) for today it says I have 47%protein, 83%fat and 58% Carbs.. I have eaten 847 calories. I know I am supposed to eat 1900 calories but won't my percentages be way over. I think I am doing the math wrong and I need to change my calories on MFP. What numbers do I look at on my Jawbone and My Fitness Pal? Thanks.

    If you wrote those % correctly from wherever you saw them - you have an app math issue.

    Because you can't have more than 100%, despite the encouragement to give it a 110% effort. ;-)

    And because % are based on a total of something, % can NOT go over some amount.

    30% of 847 calories is still 30% of 1900 calories when you eat more.

    The GRAMS and calories of what makes up that 30% obviously change, if that's what you mean.

    Yes, you are doing the math wrong.

    MFP already does % only actually.
    So just go in to your MFP Goals - Custom goal - and change the eaten goal to 1900 (if that is indeed correct) and the macro % to what you are talking about.

    Don't use Fitbit/Jawbone for eating goals, that's why you are using MFP for logging food, right?
    Don't even use their diary, not needed at all.
  • daisyq73
    daisyq73 Posts: 9 Member
    Hi everyone
    I just recently found this group. I see peoples food diary and think..."I cannot live like that".
    I want to eat regular food or I wont be able to keep it up. I guess Im in the right place.
    Hope you guys can help me.
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