Lets get it started...

Hi everyone!
I wanted to get the ball rolling by introducing myself! I'm 31 years old and I am fed up of being overweight obese! I have a 2 year old boy who is gorgeous and I have just dedicated everything to him. As a result I have let myself slide into an oblivion of takeaways, ice-cream and zero exercise. I have always struggled with my weight, but now at my heaviest of 13st 12lbs its time stop and start making some changes. I don't know about you but I have tried every diet under the sun from, weight watchers, slimming world, total food replacement diets, juicing diet...the list is endless. Now I am desperate to begin a new path, one that works, that can become part of my life where I don't have to throw money at it, without hassle or worry.

I researched the famous 5:2 diet and found, to my delight, a foray of success stories of continual weight loss - which.... STAYED OFF!

Ok, so I would love for people, who like myself, want to make that change to join this group where we can give each other the support and encouragement needed to keep us motivated.
These are my measurements as of today...

12/02/2016
Weight: 13st 12lbs
Height: 5' 2"
BMI: 35.5 (obese!!!!!)

Please help!! Im sinking in a sea of chocoalte and cake.
I'm lazy and need your support :blush:
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  • lmrfixit
    lmrfixit Posts: 2 Member
    Ive joined !!!
  • triciagrey1955
    triciagrey1955 Posts: 6 Member
    I decided to give intermittent fasting a try, since I lost not a pound in 6 weeks with just low carb. I'm not doing the 5:2 plan (yet), but I have limited my window of eating to cut off at 1 pm, which means I will be in a fat burning state for many more hours per day. It seems to be working! If I get hungry at night I have bouillion and I know I can eat the next morning. This really works to keep calories where they should be- 1500-1800. I should say that my meal plan is LCHF (low carb high fat) and I think the high fat is what makes it possible to not be too hungry for the rest of the day after 1 pm.
  • missbrindley
    missbrindley Posts: 21 Member
    That's really good! ! Thanks for your comment triciagrey Today has been my first day of the 5:2 diet...today being a fast day.. not sure why I decided start on a Friday! Haha.. think it was more of a strike while the irons hot moment. Your diet sounds like a really good start for people who want to do the 5:2 but not jump straight into it..
    Have you lost any weight on fasting from 1pm ?
    :smiley: xx
  • missbrindley
    missbrindley Posts: 21 Member
    edited February 2016
    Imrfixit So glad you've joined!! When are you thinking of starting the 5:2 plan? What's your target weight loss for the month? So pleased that your taking the step to a slimmer healthier you...and il be doing it with u!! We can keep each other going. I'll post up some recipes for the fast days soon. Xx

  • brisingr86
    brisingr86 Posts: 1,789 Member
    I started the 5:2 (or a variation of it) a couple weeks ago (actually more of a 4:3 [3 days fasting], but was too low on calories and not feeling well so pulled back to 5:2) as it seems to help me control the snacking better. I'm 5'5", F, CW: 159.8 as of this morning; target loss of 1lb/week. My eating goals are:
    M, F: 550 calories
    Tu, W, Sat: 1500
    Th, Sun: 2100
    This gives me an average intake of ~1400, which is my approximate BMR. I do not adjust these for exercise so my net is generally closer to average 11-1200. Occasionally I flex these based on schedule, i.e., last weekend I had a dinner with friends so made that my 2100 day and stayed lower on Sunday; this week I was fasting on Wednesday for religious reasons so I switched Monday and Wednesday targets so I didn't go crazy with too low calorie.

    tricia: what's your start of calorie intake? i.e., are you doing a 16:8 or 18:6 IF? I played with that form of IF before with some success but went too aggressive, couldn't get an appropriate number of calories in and started having issues with too low calorie (<1000). Are you part of any other IF groups that are more general to IF or focused on that form of IF?

    Mrseadon: Hang in there! the first few fasts are the hardest. Make sure you're getting plenty of protein and not wasting those precious few calories on food that won't sustain you.
  • missbrindley
    missbrindley Posts: 21 Member
    edited February 2016
    Brisingr, thanks for your reply. I am finding it hard today. .. every where I look there seems to be food!! But it is the first day...just feel so good I've finally started!
    What's the 18.6 IF is that fasting from 6pm to 6 am? I'm pretty new to the idea of fasting so I'm not down with the lingo.
    What I like about this diet is that it's flexible, so you can change your fasting days weekly depending on what's happening in your life. It's so straight forward too.

    I must admit, I've drank lots of cup of teas today with semi skimmed milk. I have 169 cals left for today- going to have some sweetcorn soup for dinner. Trying to eek it out a little. It's great because whenever my determination wavered a little- ive stopped and realised, I can eat that frozen spaghetti Bol tomorrow!

    I've bought some new 5.2 recipe books to help. Do you know how to add an image to these posts?

  • brisingr86
    brisingr86 Posts: 1,789 Member
    The 18:6 is a type of intermittent fasting (IF) where you fast for 18 hours and have a 6 hour eating window (i.e., 7am-1PM, or 2-8PM). Same everyday, but you pick hours that you want to eat your calories, i.e, if you like to go out to dinner with friends, you might pick later hours, but you don't eat in the morning and no late night snacking. Because of hormonal stuff, I think I read that women shouldn't do less than an 8 hour eating window...I could be mis-remembering, but I know there were notes about women needing to be more cautious about how they managed IF regimens.

    When I was doing 18:6, I was part of a general IF group that had a lot of good information about the different varieties of IF. So I picked up a lot of info there. I left the group when I purged group memberships that I wasn't active in, since I wasn't doing any form of IF at the time.

    For adding image, it's the icon that looks like a page with the corner folded down.
  • brisingr86
    brisingr86 Posts: 1,789 Member
    Seems like a few people are just starting with 5:2 or another IF regimen. This page had lots of info/links to info:
    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/599982/intermittent-fasting-faq#latest
  • dotti1121
    dotti1121 Posts: 751 Member
    I'm interested in the 5:2, but I'm really not sure I can go a day on 500 calories!
  • brisingr86
    brisingr86 Posts: 1,789 Member
    Dotti, it's not always as hard as it sounds, but maybe start just cutting to 700 or 600 on fast days, then if you get used to those fasts, you can possibly drop down to 500? Good luck finding what works for you.
  • missbrindley
    missbrindley Posts: 21 Member
    Hi dotti1121 Its actually easier than it sounds. My first day was today and it hasn't bothered me that much. The time I struggle with the most is around tea time - or snacking after tea. What i am going to try and do is have a healthy breakfast around 150 cals, then not eat until dinner time which will leave me with enough calories to enjoy a healthy meal with my family.
  • missbrindley
    missbrindley Posts: 21 Member
    brisingr86 - thanks for that link, I've just watched the 'horizan' episode on the 5-2 fasting diet and it was really interesting on the positive impact it has on your health and ageing...in addition to weight loss.
  • denelifet
    denelifet Posts: 27 Member
    i'm in! I started the 5:2 diet appx 5 weeks ago....and i've lost a pound a week on average.

    I'm an avid weight lifter at the gym so using my body as a guinea pig to see what and how it will react....interesting so far....

    I'll admit to not being able to do 500 calories....my calories run between 600-800 on fasting days. On non-fasting days i eat between 2300-3000+ calories. lol....yes, i like to eat....

    But again....i lift in the gym and i lift very heavy.....i try to do cardio 2x a week.....slow, steady walk on the dreadmill at various diff inclines to help alleviate the boredom.

    I'm 5'10"
    SW: 185 lbs
    CW 180 lbs
    Goal weight is 165 lbs
    USA Size 12 with goal size of 8

    At the moment....i'm going to attempt to either cut back on my calories on non-fasting days and see what happens the next couple weeks or add in more cardio....such decisions....lol

    I have also noticed that altho the scale is slowly moving....i have been able to fit into a couple shirts quite nicely that i've not been able to wear cause they were too tight...small changes...

  • slowandsteady44
    slowandsteady44 Posts: 29 Member
    hey im starting the 5 2 diet because i really do not want to count calories every day for months on end, but two days a week i can do!
    i think just exercising portion control and trying to be moderately sensible on the other days should be ok, plus exercise...
    feel free to add me and we can support eachother :)

    cw: 168 gw: 140

    i have around 30 pounds to lose! we can do this!
  • missbrindley
    missbrindley Posts: 21 Member
    Slow and steady that sounds like a plan!! We can keep each other motivated :smiley:
  • brisingr86
    brisingr86 Posts: 1,789 Member
    hey im starting the 5 2 diet because i really do not want to count calories every day for months on end, but two days a week i can do!
    i think just exercising portion control and trying to be moderately sensible on the other days should be ok, plus exercise...

    Be VERY conscious of that portion control and sensibility on non-fast days. You can easily overeat on your non-fast days, especially after a fast day, and you won't see progress. Some people are able to not count and do fine, but I've always had trouble whenever I'm not logging. You still have to be at a deficit to lose weight. If you haven't been logging long, it may be a good idea to still log on your non-fast days or maybe just the non-fast days right after a fast, to check that you're not eating at a level that will negate the fast over the week. Good luck!
  • missbrindley
    missbrindley Posts: 21 Member
    That's really good advice... Although, I find (rarely) that after a fast I'm not as hungry as I thought I'd be. I haven't had that slice of cake I fancied the day before or I've not had a ton of toast. My choices seem to be healthier even on a subconscious level.
    But, I'm still going to log on non fast days as brisingr advises.
  • denelifet
    denelifet Posts: 27 Member
    i also log on non-fast days....i'm constantly amazed at what foods add up on calories and such...especially when eating out!!! holy cow!!!
  • yelsdod
    yelsdod Posts: 14 Member
    I thought I would give it a go. I have been very surprised how this works. My first fast day was a bit over 600 calories but my second one was much better. I think this is a really good way to find out where high calories hide. I thought I would be weak, hungry and cross but I gave it a go anyway. I think this is the way for me to go, as I can do 2 days a week without too much temptation. I now know and understand what hunger really is! LOL. But do you know the best thing about this method? I will tell you, the following day you know that you are genuinely hungry, and it isnt just boredom or flavour you are craving. It has been an education so far. I am on week 3.
  • Hi Im Jen and I have been non stop dieting for a year but since I started 5:2 I actually see results! I have 11 to lose total, I am down 5 and I am on this plan about 2 weeks. I lost 7 but over ate on non fast days so i gained 2 back but Now I see what works and what doesnt so I am back on track.
    Start weight:136
    Goal weight 125
    Current weight 131.5
  • brisingr86
    brisingr86 Posts: 1,789 Member
    Hi Jen, Glad you're seeing the results you're looking for, but PLEASE be careful. Hopefully a lot of that loss is water weight, but over 2 lbs/week loss when you're that close to goal is probably not healthy or sustainable. Wishing you continued success, but please take care of yourself and don't over deny with a "diet" that you end up rebounding.

    I'm watching a friend really struggle after dieting for over a year to get down to a similar goal for her wedding (which she achieved), but then with that over, she lost all motivation and is really struggling to find that balance to stay healthy without "dieting".
  • rdkstar
    rdkstar Posts: 260 Member
    Hi, i'm a beginner. Thursday I had to fast for a dr blood test. I decide this was a good day to try it out. Instead of eating immediately after the appt, I waited till dinner and had my 500 calories. The next day, I ate normally and wasnt wanting to snack as much. I was amazed how easy this was. I plan to fast on Tuesday and Thursday. It is strange, i'm actually looking forward to Tuesday to see if I continue to have positive results. Looking forward to the support of like minded individuals.
  • trakkie1
    trakkie1 Posts: 2 Member
    Hi all - today was my first day doing this and unfortunately was horrible! Not sure if it had to do with the fast, but I ended up with nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea. Has anyone had anything like this happen? I tried to hold off on my first meal until lunchtime, when I was really hungry and ate a 170 calorie yogurt. After than I started throwing up and feeling sick, so didn't really want to eat, I finished the day with two pieces of toast just because I wanted to try to keep something down. I'm not sure if this means my body just can't tolerate fasting, or if I had the bad luck to start fasting on the same day as getting a stomach bug!
  • rdkstar
    rdkstar Posts: 260 Member
    Hi trakkie,

    I only just finished my third day and found it easier than I imagine. It sounds like you got it the same day as the stomach bug or something. I'm not an expert but these don't sound like normal symptoms. Do you take medicine in the morning, I know some meds have to be taken with food.

    I recommend giving it a couple days and try it again. If you experience the same thing, I would say this isn't for you. Good luck in achieving your goals.
  • quirkyjennio
    quirkyjennio Posts: 2 Member
    I'm in! Are we all still going?
  • Brandyacutebbw
    Brandyacutebbw Posts: 48 Member
    As always I'm a little late to the part but I'm in! I'm not just overweight, I'm extremely obese. I have always struggled with my weight, but now I'm in my 30s, raising a 7 year old beautiful little girl, and its time to really get get focused and get healthy. I'm hoping this 5:2 diet will help with that, and hoping to meet other people that are doing the same thing.
  • Terrabull
    Terrabull Posts: 3 Member
    I'm so glad I found this group. Several years ago I devised my own weight loss plan that involved a form of intermittent fasting and it worked tremendously and I kept the weight off. Granted that was when I was 25 and single. Now, at 38 and having 2 kids, the weight has come back. I've finally got the motivation to start again. I also think that by switching to 6:1 after I reach my goal weight, I can create a true lifestyle change to sustain the loss for good.
  • brisingr86
    brisingr86 Posts: 1,789 Member
    Welcome @Terrabull. Maybe this will get the group back active again. If you are interested, there's also a general IF group with some 5:2 folks. Well done taking that first step to getting yourself healthy again.
  • skiski
    skiski Posts: 173 Member
    Hey all I am Ski,
    33 yrs young
    13st 13lbs
    No defined goal weight- just wanting to lose!
    *waves hello*
  • brisingr86
    brisingr86 Posts: 1,789 Member
    Hi Ski