Many times, I think we lock into things we see instead of trusting our instincts. Some quote (and I don’t remember who said it) said we often do things because we “see things” instead of what we actually “hear or feel” and I actually, think that’s so true. I think many of us hear “You should lose this amount of weight after surgery OR you won’t be able to eat that again” and that might be true. But, when that doesn’t happening, we feel like a failure. But, you’re not. You’re learning how to live with a whole different body that you had before the surgery. Whether, you get a bypass, lap band or sleeve, you are new person because you’re not the same. Trust your self and see the changes you make. So what, if you don’t reach a certain number at a certain date...acknowledge what you have accomplished. So what, if the scale says you didn’t lose anything this week, can you walk farther than you did a month ago? It’s good to have a goal but don’t forget the little things that are helping with that! Numbers say something but it’s not everything!
On my surgery date, I weighed 130. After my surgery (and during my recovery) my weight dropped to about 112. I’ve been between 140-145 for the last couple of months and I think I look better than I did before my surgery.
I feel better which makes me smile more.
I felt like I went thru some crap (because recovery ain’t easy) so I value myself more. I stand up for myself more. I don’t take as much crap. You might not feel that way right now, but hopefully you will.

Anyways, this came from the heart.