WeightNoMore Team Chat - AUGUST 2022
jugar
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We have five great teams. The group and team leaders are as follows:
Our Moderators:
Liselyn - @jugar
Megan - @Megan_smartiepants1970
Ashley - @minstrelofsarcasm
Jessica - @jessicakrall8
Our Team Captains:
Downsizers - @lindamtuck2018 and @Megan_smartiepants1970
Mission Slimpossibles - @broncobuddee and @trooworld
Weight No More - @minstrelofsarcasm and @melaniedscott
WaistAways - @jugar and @ashleycarole86
Shape Shifters - @jessicakrall8 and open
Our Team Motivators:
Downsizers - open! let your Captains know if you are interested
Mission Slimpossibles - @katmary71
Weight No More - @rachelrjh
WaistAways - @conleywoods
Shape Shifters - @angmarie28 & @PatriceFitnessPal
HOW IT ALL WORKS: The August challenge runs from July 31 - September 3. F2F months always start on a Sunday and end on a Saturday, so adjust your calendars!
Every challenger weighs in on their chosen day, every week without fail. At the end of each week, the tallies are done to determine the team and individuals with the most weight lost. The best losers are announced with full fanfare every Sunday. The team competition is all in good spirits - may the most losing win!
We also celebrate those small, steady losses. If you lose, however small an amount, you are in the green! At the end of the month, we celebrate everyone who lost at least a bit every week. You are heading steadily towards your goal even if you aren't at the top of the weight loss leaderboard.
To make your weigh-in easy to find for your team Captains, please put it right at the top of a message, and use this format:
Weigh In Day:
PW (Previous Weight):
CW (Current Weight):
If you miss two weigh-ins in a row without asking for a break, you will be dropped from the team, so be sure to inform your team captain if you are traveling, sick, or just need some time off. If you take a break, you can be excused for a week or two, or are moved to the Support Team for longer. You can remain on the Support Team for as long as you need to. You still participate in the discussions, you can weigh in if you want to, but it will not count in the weekly tally.
Once you reach your goal weight, you join the Goal Zone! You continue to weigh in every week. If you have 2 weeks above your self-defined goal zone, you go back to the regular team to lose that amount before it builds up. You will have a chance to hone those maintenance skills and stick with your team!
In addition to your own team, there are weekly F2F Full Group CHALLENGES. You can do all or none - it's up to you. Participating adds a lot to your success, so we hope to see you there often! These can involve anything fitness, health, or nutrition - and they’ll get you moving, thinking, and learning about this journey. Check the Announcements section for full group challenges.
Let’s show our fellow challengers some F2F love! Introduce yourselves right away, and let the new month and year begin!!
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@minstrelofsarcasm - my weight in day is August 1st but I am not in town then, will be posting on Tuesday just this one time.2
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Hey y'all! The Aug Week 1 Group Challenge is posted and ready to begin on Sunday, Jul 31st. Hope you'll join us for Creative Home Workouts!
Here's your link:
https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10870487/aug-week-1-group-challenge-creative-home-workouts#latest
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These look better than last week win for me!
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Hi WNM..Another new member is joining your wonderful team .. Please welcome @sanugent98743
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Username: CassieGetsFit2013
Weigh In Day: Sunday
PW (Previous Weight): 230.6
CW (Current Weight): 231
Grrrrrrr!6 -
Hello everyone! Just introducing myself to further motivate me to stay active and committed!
I'm Sunflowersong7! I am a female in my mid twenties and am currently at the highest weight I've ever been. I was blaming Covid and marriage weight, but both have been present for a couple of years now, and I still haven't gotten myself into shape. I used Myfitnesspal in college when I was the most fit that I've ever been, so I'm hoping that by getting back to it, I might get back into a healthier weight range. For me, accountability is a huge thing and MFP gives me a bit of that. When I weighed in on Friday during registration, I was 204lbs, which is FOR SURE not where I want to be. I've discussed trying to be healthier with my husband, who is also struggling with some weight gain, but we are both very prone to fast food and I have a terrible sweet tooth. It would be awesome if by using MFP I can gain some confidence and self-control, and help him through his goals as well! Since Friday I have jumped on the treadmill 30 min daily (Just light jogging and walking since I'm so out of shape for what my normal was!) and have cooked lighter meals at home. I'm hoping my commitment doesn't waver when the work week starts!
This is my first time with F2F so please give me all the pointers and advice! I've set a goal for myself that by this Friday's weigh in, I want to be sitting at 200lbs. I know 4lbs in a week isn't usually feasible, but I know that my original weigh in was after binge eating, my weight is usually really variable like that, and I'm hoping since this is the first week, the pounds slide off easier.5 -
Good evening WNM! Welcome to all the new ladies & gents!
I'm Melanie and I'm from Kansas. I’m the other team Co-captain. Truly, Ashley does most of the heavy lifting. The last month I've been a bit MIA because...life. I can't guarantee I'll be better in Aug/Sept because my job is headed toward (more) crazy hectic as the summer closes, but I'll try.
My (short version) story
I was always was skinny (no, not thin, skinny, all knees and elbows). At 18, I weighed between 110 and 120 at 5"6'. Maybe. I got happy. Then I got fat. I found myself weighing in about 230 and my six sixteens were too small. I bought a couple pairs of 18 pants from the thrift store and joined MFP.
I lost ~70 pounds in about a year and was pretty pleased. But I wanted another 20 off...and it didn't move. And things got a bit crazy with my husband's family (we won’t talk about that—it always leads to crazy-pants ranting)...so I decided to maintain for a bit. Instead of maintaining, I gained back most of the weight. So...now I'm here and working on losing 60 pounds (40 of the 50 I 'found' and the 20 I never lost).
My special snowflake challenges
I'm fairly significantly asthmatic (on meds all the time), have terrible allergies and connective tissue issues (not enough collagen, too stretchy, lots of joint slippage). The past year has been difficult for me because of the slippy joints—one of my shoulders slipped, refused to relocate and…well.
August 2020, I acquired some vertigo problems (or, maybe they just got worse). After adding some meds, adjusting my diet a bit, and stopping coffee (so sad), I’ve got it mostly under control, with only intermittent episodes. Needless to say, if I'm dizzy, I'm not walking or doing anything else. Positive: since my neurologist recommended I take 500 mg of ginger every day, I have not had a significant dizzy spell—no extended can’t stand up, no puking…only a couple 30 seconds-2-3 minute dizzy that passes.
The point behind saying this is not woe-is-me, it is that a lot of exercise people promote is bad (anything high impact), and sometimes dangerous, for me. Sometimes people get down on themselves because they don't do the stuff everyone talks about HIIT, Insanity, stair steppers, etc. I not only don't do those things, I shouldn't. But I should exercise.
I want to get about 30 minutes of walking a day at least during the week and because I have to walk to and from my car for work and all around the building to get to anyone I need to see or the ladies’, I usually get 15-20 by default. I try to get a walk in otherwise but frequently fail. Weekends are a mixed bag.
My 2022 Goals
• I want to be in better shape, regardless of weight (PT has shown me how out of shape I've gotten).
• I have a closet full of size 10's that I want to wear.
• Back to Wedding Weight (165) before the end of the year. (let's be real...that is what I want...will I lose 50 lbs in the next 5 months? Possible? Yes. Likely? No.)
Daily goals:
• Walk at least 30 minutes a day. (I plan to start participating in the step challenge again)
• Do some core exercises, joint support stuff a couple times at least a week.
• 80 oz of water or non-alcoholic liquid a day, mostly water.
• Cut down on sugar and junk food.
I want to congratulate all our losers for July! Small losses add up. Don’t get discouraged if you ‘only’ lose half a pound or pound. I am super proud of all of you! 😊 And several of you have maintained, which is terrific, too. Not seeing losses or not seeing the losses you want can be disheartening. Don’t give up! Think of all the things you have accomplished…you can do anything you put your mind to!
Welcome to the team newbies! I’ve sent friend requests to all of you (many have already added). Looking forward to getting to know you all!3 -
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Username melissacoleman430
Pw: 243
Cw: 242.9
Weigh in day: Monday2 -
I didn't have a good week with steps. I am in vacation and we are doing a lot of boating or sitting around visiting. I am trying to sneak walks in so those are my higher days. Today I am either on going on a puffin tour which is on a boat or I'm going kayaking. I'll know more soon. I don't think there's any tickets left for the puffin tour so it might be the kayaking.3
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Hello, my username is Melissacoleman430. I used to hover around 125 to 145 lbs at 5”7, before I started taking Paxil. I’ve stopped taking Paxil but the weight remained. Now I have fatty liver, diabetes, high triglycerides. I want to get off of the meds by losing 100 lbs. I found a formula for myself that causes me to lose weight (granola and raw milk for breakfast, 2 of my chickens’ eggs and broccoli for lunch, and a simple salad with 3 T ranch for dinner). Until we go out 2 eat3
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Happy New Month, Everybody! So happy to see all the new faces in the chat (and the old ones too, not that I'm calling anyone old, I swear)!
I am minstrelofsarcasm, also known as Minstrel, also known as Ashley, also known as "that sweaty girl in the corner"... I am one of the co-captains along with the ever-marvelous @melaniedscott. My role here is to provide some real talk, some good motivation, and a few too many jokes about stress eating for anyone's comfort levels.
The Basics:
I am 26 and currently living in Ohio. I work as a combustion engineer for an industrial manufacturing company (I set things on fire for money). I am fascinated by all facets of science, whether that be nuclear physics, nutrition, geology (I hear it rocks), chemistry, etc. Feel free to ask any of your questions when it comes to the science of things. I can't guarantee I'll know the answer, but I can definitely figure it out and provide an answer in a way that's (hopefully) understandable.
Why I am Here:
I love numbers, and when I discovered that I could get healthier (as my doctor told me I absolutely had to do) by keeping track of numbers, I signed up for MFP. My original weight was 8lbs 2oz, and while I don't think I'll ever make it quite that low ever again, my goal is to never be above my highest weight of 234 (September 2014).
Despite having joined this wonderful community, I didn't take my weight loss or my health seriously until after I graduated college in May 2017 and was told by a different doctor that my eating and (lack of) exercise habits put me on the road to diabetes. I'll admit, I was terrified. I grew up with a diabetic parent who took no actions towards improving their health to reduce their dependence on insulin and is now facing some very serious health complications. I didn't want that to happen to me - I wouldn't want to put anyone through having to worry about me in the same way I worried about them.
So I searched "gym" on Google Maps, and signed up for a free class with the first place that popped up in the results, a spin studio. Since July 1st, 2017, I have completed over 1,040 spin classes. There was some… drama at the spin studio, so I no longer have a membership, but will drop in from time to time.
In other news, I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis in December 2019 after an arduous journey from doctor to doctor, through several misdiagnoses (why is it that the first thing a doctor will suggest is anxiety if you're female and show emotion in the doctor's office?), 14 vials of blood drawn for blood tests, 3 weeks of being unable to consistently feel the left side of my body, 2 MRIs, 1 spinal tap, and a partridge in a pear tree. I could go into a long rant about everything, and I have, but there's no need to fill my introduction with things I've written time and time again (I'll post a link to my blog, for those of you interested in my madness).
In Summary:
Since joining MFP, I have lost over 70 lbs, regained about 15 while on a three-month business trip in France (wine and cheese is my weakness), lost 5 of them, gained 5 of them, maintained throughout 2020, yo-yo'ed for the first few months of 2021, and here I stand (sit) around 170 lbs, over 60 lbs lost. I don't have a goal weight anymore, since BMI was developed by a mathematician and not a doctor, and as long as I feel healthy, I can weigh whatever I want (somewhere in the 150's sounds pretty good right now, but I guess we'll see).
As for exercising, I have recently moved to another part of the city and am on the lookout for a new gym. There’s one in my apartment building, but it’s difficult to be self motivated on my own - I have recently joined a new gym. Between spending time with my friend (who has a personal training certification, and who I guess is now my personal trainer) and dropping in on spin classes and all the amenities my new gym has to offer, I am hoping to get back on track.
If you want to know more about me, or my journey, feel free to ask questions, or you can find my blog here: LINK
Blog posts I’m especially proud of:- Creating a Sense of Accountability - This is my first blog post ever, and I’ve grown a lot since then, but so many of the same factors are still present in my life
- More Work to Do - Here’s a confession of some recent unhealthy thoughts I’ve had regarding my health journey, and some of my thoughts may sound similar to ones you’ve had towards yourself
- BMI is BS - I essentially wrote a history lesson on BMI and why you shouldn’t base your self worth on it. Most likely, your BMI is misrepresenting you.
I'm looking forward to getting to know all of you even more as we work our way through the month.
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Huge welcome to all of our new members:~ @sanugent9874 ~ @no_more_weighting ~ @melissacoleman430 ~ @kayedgibson ~
~ @SarahJoyManea ~ @Sunflowersong7 ~ @corinaogea ~
If you have any questions at all, do not hesitate to ask!shnkrnrynn wrote: »@minstrelofsarcasm - my weight in day is August 1st but I am not in town then, will be posting on Tuesday just this one time.
@shnkrnrynn - You got it, thanks for letting us know!CassieGetsFit2013 wrote: »Username: CassieGetsFit2013
Weigh In Day: Sunday
PW (Previous Weight): 230.6
CW (Current Weight): 231
Grrrrrrr!
@CassieGetsFit2013 - This looks more like a maintain than a gain to me! You've got this, I know you have it in youSunflowersong7 wrote: »This is my first time with F2F so please give me all the pointers and advice! I've set a goal for myself that by this Friday's weigh in, I want to be sitting at 200lbs. I know 4lbs in a week isn't usually feasible, but I know that my original weigh in was after binge eating, my weight is usually really variable like that, and I'm hoping since this is the first week, the pounds slide off easier.
@Sunflowersong7 - When you're first starting out, four pounds in a week is absolutely feasible. I would absolutely recommend drinking more water than you think you need, and setting a timer on your phone/watch/whatever to get up from your seat for five minutes every 45-60 minutes. You can spend that time pacing around, doing chores, even time it with when you need to use the restroom, just anything to add a little activity into your day. The biggest mistake a lot of people make when starting out is making too many extreme changes at once, and then burning out.
And if you don't make it to 4lbs? Consistency is key: sticking with a new routine, making one good decision at a time, and not getting derailed every single time there's a number on the scale you don't like. You can do this, and we're here on days when you feel like you can't.melissacoleman430 wrote: »Hello, my username is Melissacoleman430. I used to hover around 125 to 145 lbs at 5”7, before I started taking Paxil. I’ve stopped taking Paxil but the weight remained.
@melissacoleman430 - Oh boy, I remember when I was (wrongly) on anti-depressants. My body was not a fan of the chemicals, and my weight ballooned. The good news is, it's absolutely possible to drop any of that retained weight with a bit of dedication and discipline. I hope this group can help you reach your goals!
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Seltzer_lover
Weigh-in Day: Mondays
7/25: 232.9
8/1: 235.6
Sigh. No idea why I've gained - bodies are weird! Assuming most of it is water retention - my muscles are SORE from my weekend workouts.5 -
Welcome new members!
Hi!
Introduction:
My name is Rebecca and I am a Statistician, thus I love numbers, hee hee! I was at my goal weight of of 127, in which I held steady during holidays/Christmas. Inasmuch I wanted to continue to stay at my goal, I veered and let extra pounds on during March/April. I am close to my goal and look forward to striving to meet my targets and objectives! Most of all, what matters most is my health!
Hobbies:
Thus my username, I can imagine you can see I love horses! I enjoy riding and use to jump in my teens, I am smarter now, LOL. I ride dressage, which I feel best put is ballet on horses! While I am not riding, I like to ride my Peloton bike, barre, pilates, yoga, etc (well sometimes not, I have to push and motivate myself!!).
Things I need to work on this month:
Gratitudes in the morning!
Wash away negative self-talk!
Less worrying!
I love giving encouragement and support to others.
All the best!5 -
HorsesRock9999
Monday Weigh-In
PW: 134.2
CW: 135.6 (GAME ON for NEXT WEEK)
GW: 1275 -
Hi WNM... You have one more new member joining your team ...Please welcome @TwistedSassette4
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Hi all,
I'm so ready for this! My first week weigh in and I lost 8.2lbs just before August. So hoping ill be able to keep up a good level of loss through August.
Weigh In Day: Friday
PW - 201
CW - 192.8
GW - 140
Starting weight for August is 192.8lbs
Aiming to get down to 185 by the end of the month!
Looking forward to being part of this challenge!
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜5 -
I'm back and ready to shed some pounds this month! I weighed in at my highest weight ever on July 23rd, at 207.2. So I rejoined this group and am ready to get back to a lower weight. I weighed in this past Saturday at 205, so I'm down 2.2 so far.
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Hi all, thanks for having me!
About me:
My name is Christie. I live in a rural town in Australia, where I work as an accountant at a gold mine. It's interesting work most of the time, and I get to see some pretty cool stuff (like going underground to see equipment in action, or watching them smelt a gold bar)! Unfortunately, it does mean I spend about 9 hours a day stuck sitting at a desk, which doesn't do great things for my body. I try to get myself up for a quick walk around at least every hour but sometimes I'm too busy, or forget, or think "I'll do that in a minute" but next thing it's been another hour!
Outside of work, I'm married with a three year old son who is the absolute light of my life! Seriously, he is the best kid ever. He has the best sense of humour and, while he is sometimes a bit of a threenager, he's mostly kind and loving and gentle, and that makes me feel great as a mum!
I was part of the F2F challenge (in another team) a year or two ago, but I dropped out of all the challenges I was in at some point. I got myself too overwhelmed. I've been on and off MFP for like 10 years and I managed to lose 15lbs at one point. But then covid hit, and I started working from home, and I lost all my momentum. I love working from home, but it makes it harder for me to keep in routine - I sit for longer periods without getting up to go see someone/go to the printer/etc. and there's an abundance of food available at any time (at work, if I don't bring it, I can't eat it)! Things are starting to settle back into some level of normalcy now, I will still occasionally work from home if I need to but mostly I'm back on site.
I have PCOS and insulin resistance, and I fully admit I don't take the best care of my health to minimise the impact of these. I need to focus on my health before I develop diabetes and other complications associated with PCOS! My research on PCOS has indicated that workouts should be kept slow and low-stress so I'm focusing on increasing my daily step count and keeping track of my calorie intake, for now. I do enjoy yoga and walking, so those are some great options. I do not enjoy strength training, but it seems that is one of the better workout options for my condition so I am aiming to do more of that.
Initial Starting Weight: 138.3kg (304.9lbs)
August Starting Weight: 132.3kg (291.7lbs) <- from Friday 29th July
August Goal Weight: 129.9kg (286.4lbs)
Ultimate Goal Weight: 64kg (141lbs)5 -
Thanks for the encouragement, @minstrelofsarcasm . Overall, I'm aiming for progress and consistency, like you said. I'm ashamed to be past 200 though (that being the highest weight I've been at before this) and I cannot wait to be consistently below 200. My husband and I both weighed in today for our own personal accountability, and I was happy to see that I was still tracking downwards which made me happy, considering I haven't been ultra restrictive with what I've eaten. Just a little more home cooking and a few more steps thrown into my day.
However, I'd like to admit a negative feeling to you guys today. Neither I nor my husband told each other what we weighed on Friday when we decided we wanted to be more intentional about our eating habits and activity. He mentioned today the weight he had lost already, and I realized that we actually were at the same weight, 204lbs, on Friday! I was so ashamed of that and didn't dare mention that we had the same starting weight! And today, he was actually less than me by 2lbs!
I know its not a competition with him and that women and men lose weight differently, and I know he's not the type of person to think anything different of me if I do weigh more than him. But I've just never weighed more than him before, and it made me feel ashamed, even though I'm also losing. To realize we are so similar in weight was shocking to me! I really hope that he loses the weight he wants to lose for his own health and happiness, but I also hope he doesn't leave me in the dust and I just feel worse about myself, if that makes sense.
But, mini rant aside. I will choose not to dwell on those self conscious feelings. I'm going to allow myself to be thankful for the small victory I saw on the scale for myself and try to focus on my own journey. I'll do a 30 minute workout in our garage, eat moderately, and enjoy life! I even still plan to visit my local coffee shop and grab one of their sweet coffee drinks to enjoy around brunch time. Consistent baby steps every day I think is what's going to make the difference for me!
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minstrelofsarcasm
August Week One
Previous Weight: 179.4 lbs
Current Weight: 176.6 lbs
Loss to Date: 57.4 lbs
Quick Recap: Last week, my eating was all over the place, I had completed two difficult workouts back-to-back, I had a broken toe. My previous weight was absolutely water retention.
This week, there's still some obvious water retention. But I'm feeling good. I decided to cut through my own bulls- nonsense and join a nearby gym rather than continue in my cycle of: get too little sleep -> wake up early -> decide to skip the workout in lieu of more sleep -> go to work -> decide not to work out afterwards in lieu of time on the couch -> stay up too late. This led to exercising only 1-2 times per week, as compared to my typical 5-6 when I was on top of my routine.
I signed up on Saturday morning, after noticing how bloated and icky I felt (for the past several weeks, even). Sunday morning, I went in to sign the waiver and take a tour, leading to spending a good 45 minutes working out afterwards. Had I remembered to bring my headphones, I may have stuck around longer. I started on the stair climber, a machine I rarely got to use and have a love/hate relationship with, then moved over to a couple of the resistance machines.
When I made it to the leg press, I decided to test myself. I started at 120lbs, something I knew I could do, and worked my way up 5-10 lbs at a time. My goal was to see if I could press my weight. It wasn't easy, but I managed a good six reps. I continued laddering up, five pounds and four reps at a time, stopping myself after I hit 200 lbs, heavier than I am right now. I imagine, had I not worn myself out with nearly 50 reps at lower weights, I expect I'd be able to try for more. But that's for another day.
And then yesterday... my friend/personal trainer reminded me that I had agreed to test my deadlift capacity, even though it was upper body day. So, glutes and hamstrings already sore, I discovered I can deadlift 170 lbs. We could have tested even heavier limits, but it took a while to get there, and I was also promised that my shoulders would hate me in the morning.
All that to say, my body hurts today, and I can bet some of the weight I'm holding onto right now is water to help my muscles repair themselves. I'm happy with this drop, but I'm also very aware that two weeks ago, I was several pounds lighter. I'm ready to get back into the low 170s, and then back into the 160s, and if I could see the 150s by the end of the year, I'll be delighted. But that's still five months of time. 20 lbs is absolutely doable in five months. Just need to take it one decision at a time.5 -
TwistedSassette wrote: »I have PCOS and insulin resistance, and I fully admit I don't take the best care of my health to minimise the impact of these. I need to focus on my health before I develop diabetes and other complications associated with PCOS! My research on PCOS has indicated that workouts should be kept slow and low-stress so I'm focusing on increasing my daily step count and keeping track of my calorie intake, for now. I do enjoy yoga and walking, so those are some great options. I do not enjoy strength training, but it seems that is one of the better workout options for my condition so I am aiming to do more of that.
@TwistedSassette - Glad to have you here with us! I can absolutely relate to your story. In 2017, a doctor told me that I was bordering on pre-diabetic, which led me to immediately join a gym and focus on my health, because I was terrified. And then in late 2019, I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis, which is another condition that can be held back by eating well and exercising consistently. Health is a fantastic motivator, especially when faced with illness. And I can confirm from personal experience that being physically active in some way is fantastic for mitigating symptoms.
If you're not a fan of strength training in general, you can incorporate small strength things into walking, if you'd like. There's a ton of benefits from carrying around dumbbells or a heavy backpack while walking, even if you're not doing any particular movements with them. The same applies for incorporating weights into yoga. What kinds of exercises were you looking into doing?
@Sunflowersong7 -
I remember when I started out on here, I was almost 240lbs (and was so ashamed I didn't let myself officially add in my weight until I had been at it for a month and down to 234lbs). I was so mad at myself for letting things get so out of hand. And when I finally made it to Onederland, I was adamant that I would never be over 200 ever again. Until I was. And then I wasn't again. And then I was again. And then I wasn't. Believe me when I tell you how frustrating it was. So, you're not alone in that journey.
As for your husband being ever so slightly lighter than you... men are more likely to lose weight linearly, as their hormones do not shift as drastically, and then tend to hold onto less stress, and their muscles recover more quickly from working out, and and and and and - Men are lucky. And even knowing that, it's so much harder to feel like it's okay. It's a completely valid feeling, especially with how society has us brainwashed. I hope you feel loved every inch of this adventure, regardless of where it may take you. And know that you can always pop in here and chat with us - I can guarantee you're not the only person feeling the way you feel.
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minstrelofsarcasm wrote: »
@TwistedSassette - Glad to have you here with us! I can absolutely relate to your story. In 2017, a doctor told me that I was bordering on pre-diabetic, which led me to immediately join a gym and focus on my health, because I was terrified. And then in late 2019, I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis, which is another condition that can be held back by eating well and exercising consistently. Health is a fantastic motivator, especially when faced with illness. And I can confirm from personal experience that being physically active in some way is fantastic for mitigating symptoms.
If you're not a fan of strength training in general, you can incorporate small strength things into walking, if you'd like. There's a ton of benefits from carrying around dumbbells or a heavy backpack while walking, even if you're not doing any particular movements with them. The same applies for incorporating weights into yoga. What kinds of exercises were you looking into doing?
@minstrelofsarcasm Thank you for the warm welcome I agree, declining health/looming health issues can be a great motivator!
I have tried many types of exercise over the years, and I am part of a few challenges here on MFP that mix things up a bit. The thing with strength training is I don't mind actually doing the work, but I hate the muscle soreness over the next couple of days! That's the killer. I know, I know, it's a "good pain" but I don't like it lol. I do find that certain yoga flows are great for developing strength (especially when you weigh as much as I do, you have to be strong enough to hold your weight!). At home I have an adjustable kettlebell, dumbbells, and resistance bands, but I rarely use them if I'm being honest. My employer pays for gym usage so I also have that option - my sister also just joined so we're hoping to get there a couple of days a week if our schedules can align, though I admit the machines in the gym are a bit scary!
For now, I'm nursing a knee injury on one leg and a foot injury on the other so hobbling is about all I can manage this week. Hoping to see some improvement by the end of the week and then I can start doing more things again!
@Sunflowersong7 I know just how you feel! About a year ago, my hubby (who was the stay at home parent in our household) felt he was a bit too heavy, so he decided to start a yard maintenance business to be more active and lose weight (mowing lawns, etc). He's type 2 diabetic, has high blood pressure, and generally spent more time sitting than standing. So he started the business, it did take of pretty quickly and he's been busy. He drinks coke several times a day, he doesn't watch what he eats at all, and eats these massive portions. And he lost so much weight it's ridiculous! Without even trying! Like, he had to punch extra holes in his belt so he could still wear it (and now he's in the last of those holes and looking to punch some more - or buy a new belt, perhaps). And here I am 10 years on MFP, know exactly how to do the losing weight thing, could tell you the calorie count in just about anything, and I'm heavier than when I started here! I tell ya, men just have it so much easier when it comes to weight loss (no offence to the men here, sorry, but it's the truth). You don't realise how much these hormones affect our weight loss efforts!
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Weigh In Day: Monday (but on Tuesday this time)
PW (Previous Weight): 211
CW (Current Weight): 210
Steps July 25- July 31
July 25- 2362
July 26 - 4353
July 27 - 4052
July 28 - 8571
July 29 - 8757
July 30 - 14190
July 31 - 8034
Total Kms on foot last week - 32.86 km ( I KNOW!!!)
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I have been on vacation, I feel very bloated even though I have eaten pretty well. We have had a ton of alcohol which I don't normally do. I am going to have detox when I get home, lol. I have been eating salads, they are so good someone else makes them. My plan is to get up early to walk. We only have a few days left for vacation. 2 weeks is a long time but we have been having a great time visiting family but I also miss my family at home. I will have to make some sort of plan for when I get home.4
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Thank you all for your comments! Logically, I know that his journey is going to look so much different than mine, but selfishly, I would like for him to be struggling just a tiny bit more with it! Hahaha
Thank you all also for posting! I like to see how no matter where we all are starting from or what methods we are using, everyone is on the same team for the same goals! @TwistedSassette My job literally pays for my gym membership too, but its about a 30 minute drive one way and on top of that I always felt self conscious that I would see people I work with there... and everyone else I work with is soooo fit lol. I ended up just setting up a few dumbbells at home with my treadmill and it has made it feel much more doable! So giant kudos to you @minstrelofsarcasm for taking the plunge to the gym and absolutely killing it! Maybe one day when I feel a little more confident I'll use my work pass again!2 -
Weigh In Day: typically Monday but Tuesday this week
PW (Previous Weight): 167.6
CW (Current Weight): 169.44
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