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Living the Lifestyle: Wednesday, 01/22/2025

misterhub
misterhub Posts: 6,785 Member
Hey everyone! I saved this in my draft yesterday and then had to get out it and ran out of time. So here is LTL Thursday.

This is a thread for everyone. If you're new to GoaD, or to weight loss, your questions and comments are always welcome. If you're maintaining, or a long-term loser, your thoughts on the topic may be just what someone else needs to hear. If you're reading this, join in the discussion!

Each weekday, a new topic is offered up for discussion.

Monday - crewahl (Charlie)
Tuesday – Wildcard
Wednesday-misterhub (Greg)
Thursday -imastar2 (Derrick)
Friday - Wildcard

Today's Topic: The Hardest Part

In your estimation, what is the hardest part of the effort to lose weight and keep it off?


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  • Jerdtrmndone
    Jerdtrmndone Posts: 5,959 Member
    Late night snacks that push me over my points and having to much eating out.
  • Al_Howard
    Al_Howard Posts: 9,048 Member
    Too many snacks. My apples are more calories than Fiber One bars.
  • crewahl
    crewahl Posts: 4,772 Member
    It. Never. Ends.

    This is a war of attrition; it’s all day ,every day, every meal, every snack. Simply put, it can grind down your (my?) resolve just by virtue of the never-ending persistence of the process. It’s like a boxing match with a heavyweight; you have to defend yourself every time, but the puncher only has to get through your defenses once.
  • Flintwinch
    Flintwinch Posts: 1,275 Member
    crewahl wrote: »
    It. Never. Ends.

    This is a war of attrition; it’s all day ,every day, every meal, every snack. Simply put, it can grind down your (my?) resolve just by virtue of the never-ending persistence of the process. It’s like a boxing match with a heavyweight; you have to defend yourself every time, but the puncher only has to get through your defenses once.

    I can't say it better than this. The price of weight management is eternal vigilance
  • cakeman21k
    cakeman21k Posts: 6,705 Member
    yeah what @crewahl said!
  • steve0mania
    steve0mania Posts: 3,189 Member
    I think the hardest part is the varying focus and motivation. When weight-loss/management is my priority, I know exactly what to do and it's easy to stick to my plan. When it's not a priority, then I don't stick to my plan as well, extra snacks and drinks creep in, and my weight goes up.

    The problem is that I don't really understand how the switch gets flipped. It seems that there are times where I feel motivated, but I never get in the groove. There are other times where I am only somewhat motivated, and all of a sudden everything clicks and I can execute my plan without any real problems.

    I assume this has something to do with an underlying psychology, but I just don't understand it.
  • 88olds
    88olds Posts: 4,546 Member
    Keep going even when it isn’t going well. I had an issue early when I blew up my points making a mistake in a restaurant. When I realized the scope of my misstep my first reaction was - start over tomorrow.

    But then I thought “where in WW does it say to quit tracking when you’re over your number?” This was really the start of my initial tracing project, 5 yrs, good days and bad.

    Years later I thought I was going to blow the goal weight + 2 lbs lifetime limit. I was talking myself into skipping the meeting. It was the lat day of the month. Went & faced the music. Toughest thing I did on WW. GW + 2 right on the nose. I shaped up starting that day.
  • crewahl
    crewahl Posts: 4,772 Member
    I assume this has something to do with an underlying psychology, but I just don't understand it.

    I'm gonna have to chime in with Steve here. The more I drill down on what’s going on when I struggle, the more I conclude it would take a fair amount of therapy to get actionable plans to deal with the “why” of my struggles. For whatever reason - fear, economics, fragile male ego, unwillingness to do the work - I’ve apparently chosen to live with the symptoms rather than treat the disease.

    On the plus side, at least I’m not blaming my parents. 🤷🏻‍♂️😉