Consistency is more important than perfection.
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            Vail im glad your doc has added thryoid.. i know its tough to make time for something like bloodwork when you're still working but i hope you can get in and get it done quickly.. lol on the blood test ticking.. i think after the first time when nobody noticed it got easier LOLOLOL.. I can only imagine actually how good it must feel to know that you got some answers, and that a lot of stuff is now starting to make sense in a way it didnt before.. oh no on ND women having a much worse time with meno… ackkkk that seems so unfair !!!! meno is bad enuf let alone if u have "extra" worse!! please keep us updated .. oh and the driving to exercise thing?? i gotta say… i'm with ya there… i used a bunch of videos during covid to do stuff at home but sadly. its kinda easy to cheat at home vs in a class or at the gym.. so i cheated a lot .. i really hope they can find out the reason behind the fatigue especially.. when youre exhausted all the time you have no desire to do anything!! a friend of mine just sent me a giggle she had a mammo recently… it said "why do they call it a mammogram instead of an inbreastigation 😁 i have to admit.. i laughed out loud.. good question!! 0
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            Well, I went to the gym today for the exercise on prescription referral. I'm a bit disappointed. I've got a few simple exercises to do, all of which I could do at home, apart from the treadmill, and it doesn't seem worth all the bother of driving to the gym (driving is painful) and paying for it. But I suppose I should do it. Must try to be more positive. I think I was hoping maybe for something a bit more social, but because I'm not able for the classes, it's not possible. It would be nice if there were a little group of us who were accessing this exercise programme together. Nothing exciting that I can see in my blood results, just my kidney disease. So the tiredness is still a mystery. Anyway, I noticed that there is now pickleball in my area! I don't think I could do it just now, but maybe something to aspire to trying later. Inbreastigation: so funny! 1
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            Inbreastigation! Haha! So funny! Hello y’all! Sorry I’ve been out for so long. There’s been a lot going on and I’m so exhausted by it all. Things with the woman’s club aren’t letting up, grandkids always take priority, my daughter’s third child is due mid-November and she’s been having some issues, dad’s funeral went really well and I had family staying with me, mom has really been lonely so I try to spend time with her. My poor husband doesn’t get much of my time. There’s no time for myself. Ugh. I’m going to a new doctor for my annual physical with bloodwork on Thursday. I just know it will be bad news. I’ve put on weight and am so out of shape. I know my A1C will be high, along with my triglycerides and maybe blood pressure. This new doctor is an internal medicine doctor who specializes in nutrition and weight control. We’ll see what happens. Maybe it will be the kick in the behind that I need. 
 Vail, I’m sorry you’re going through so much all at the same time. Sometimes I actually hope there is something wrong with my thyroid because at least I would know why I’m so fatigued. I just want answers because it can’t be normal! Did your doctor offer any suggestions for your fatigue?Snoozie, I would feel so discouraged if they told me to exercise more and I was already doing as much as you. I agree though that if they’re not doing another scan for another three years then they can’t be too concerned. 1
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            i tried to post a reply 3x ended up sending you both a msg just testing to see if this goes thru 0
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            omg i typed a huge reply . hit post.. and it disappeared!! so im going to just do a mini version in which vail i totally understand why you were hoping for a more social aspect re the script referral for the gym… when you're doing something tedious (which is exercise for me) its way more fun and engaging if you have a few other people going thru it with you in person… which is why i have never gone down to the gyms in my building.. i'd be all on my own.. im sorry the bloodwork didnt give any indication as to the fatigue both u and suzy are experiencing if its any consolation i am too… honestly i am tired all the time even when i've slept im still tired all the time .. i dont know why even on down days where its a me day.. im exhausted … it can't be normal for any of us i dont think… keep us updated on how it goes if you do continue vail?Suzy i know its intimidating going to a new doc .. and i get being worried about the bloodwork results.. i flip flop sometimes.. i prefer to play ostrich and figure if i dont know.. it doesnt exist.. the nother times im like ok i wanna know and lets see what things are within my control (and what isn't) .. so i get it.. please let us know how it went.im sorry to hear your daughter is having issues with this pregnancy will send up good vibes that all goes well for her; i know it must be worrying. its nice you are trying to spend more time with your mom considering all the directions you are being pulled in for everyone.. hang in there!ok im going to copy this before i hit post this time.. fingers crossed!! 1
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            What a pain, Snoozie! At least it finally posted. Thanks for persevering! 
 I saw my new doctor this week. They drew blood and we talked a bit about what’s going on with me. She scared the crap out of me. It sounded like I’m on death’s door. I go back in two weeks (because I’m out of town for a week) to go over the results. She basically told me that it’s time for medication intervention. She will do the actual physical when I go back. I keep saying I’m going to get serious…she’s going to make sure that I do. No telling how many meds I’ll be taking. I liked her though. I think she will really hold me accountable.We watched the grandkids this weekend (ages 2 and 5). I’m exhausted….even more than usual. lol. 0
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            How completely frustrating, Snoozie! I don't know what it is with this website but it's so hit and miss whether I get notifications, and things don't post, or post twice. I'm sorry that you both are experiencing this fatigue. Life doesn't get any easier as you get older, does it? I think grief is kind of exhausting too, Suzy, so you have that going on too, and you sound so busy supporting your mom and looking after the grandchildren. I babysit sometimes and it completely wipes me out with just one child. That's a bit of a shocker about the doctor's appointment, but she sounds good. Maybe the medications will be helpful. I know none of us want to be on them, but I've been on a bucketload for almost 20 years now and I just accept that they're keeping me that bit safer (still got all the work to do for my health otherwise of course). I'm just starting to surface after having flu last week. I have my flu vaccination at the weekend, so it slipped in early, ha ha! I'm completely wiped out with it. On the plus side I have lost weight with it, and my hip pain has improved due to the rest! 1
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            NOPE my post never made it Vail that's why i went via private msg to both of you… omg vail sorry you got the flu!! darn that it got in before u got the shot.. ours start here next week. I hope you are starting to feel a little better the flu is brutal… i guess the only win is the hip pain has improved from the mandatory resting! 0
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            Vail, I’m glad your hip pain is better but hate that it’s because the flu knocked you out of commission for awhile. Mine has been better lately. Not sure why. I saw my lab work results online and have my doctor appointment in about a week. The results were not good. My A1C put me at the lowest number for diabetes. I’m hoping she won’t put me on meds and we try to manage it with lifestyle changes but I’m betting that she will prescribe something. My cholesterol was about the same but it’s high. I’ve been eating much better this week and am hoping that if I lose a few pounds before my appointment then she will see that I’m serious about making lifestyle changes. My husband is on board and I’m not buying all the chips, cookies, ice cream and sweets that he likes anymore. His doctor called and said his CT scan showed some additional plaque buildup so he’s willing to make some changes, too. I’ll let you know how my appointment goes next week. 
 We’re driving to Kansas City now to go to a funeral service for a friend. I hate sitting in the car for nine hours. At least it keeps me away from food! lolThe weather has been so pleasant that I’m hoping to get out and walk regularly once I get back home. How is your dad doing, Vail? Snoozie, has didn’t your sister have a transplant or something serious not too long ago? How is she doing? 0
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            My dad has a dementia diagnosis now, Suzy. So I think he will decline, sadly. I haven't seen him for a while because it's difficult travelling at the moment, but hope I can soon. He lives alone and doesn't want carers or anything. I'm trying to sort things out for him remotely across countries (Scotland/England) with different legal systems, health systems, etc. and finding it difficult. I'm sorry about your results, Suzy. So frustrating to have crossed that threshold, but least you're saying it's the lowest number, and you've already made changes. I think it's amazing that your husband is on board. I'm sure that will make it much easier, now that you both have the motivation. I honestly think those things you mention like chips, cookies, etc. are addictive. If he breaks the habit and you don't have them in the house it will help - I'm saying all this while having stuff that I shouldn't have in the house! But I've always thought since my son moved out that at least it's just me I'm buying food for and it's easier to control, and would always think about how difficult it must be if you're buying/cooking for more than one! That's good that your pain has improved! I'm really pleased! And hope you enjoy your walks. I am taking a long time to recover from the flu. I also lost my beloved cat and am grieving him. My dad's dementia diagnosis was the same day. I've also had an autism diagnosis (to add to the ADHD), and just feeling fragile and processing everything. I've lost a lot of weight, which obviously I needed to lose but it's been very quick. I'm hoping at least it kind of resets my eating. I'm still too tired to cook but I'm having stuff delivered that needs very minimal cooking (air fryer or microwave) 2
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            I'm so sorry about your dad, Vail. Nothing prepares us to say that long goodbye to our parents with dementia. It's very hard. My drive to see my parents was only and hour and fifteen minutes, I can't imagine them being so far away. Mom is now an hour away and that's hard enough. She has settled into a routine without dad and is doing okay. We go to lunch every Wednesday and then play cards or dominoes all afternoon until dinner, then I drive home while she goes to dinner with her friends. She's 92 and I can't imagine her being around a whole lot longer but you never know. I hope you can find a solution for your dad's care. My heart and thoughts are with you on that one. I met with my doctor today to go over my labs. I'll be starting statins to get my cholesterol into a healthier range. She wanted to put me on Wegovy, which is a GLP1 injection once a week for weight loss and diabetes management. I told her that I don't want to go on the Wegovy. Realistically, if you start taking it then you have to stay on it….forever. She said a very high percentage of people who go off of it gain back their weight. I sincerely think I can lose the weight and get my A1C under control without medication. We're going to give it three months and do more labs. She will check my cholesterol levels to make sure they are lowering with the statins and check my A1C to see if lifestyle changes are doing the trick. I have lost eight pounds in the last two weeks with changing my eating habits and I'm highly motivated now. I also have my husband onboard because he got lab results that he didn't like, as well. We've started a meal delivery service called Hungry Root. So far we have really enjoyed the meals and they're very easy and quick so I'm likely to stick with it. Now we need to get back to our walking routine. We're heading to Arkansas for our annual hiking trip with my husband's brother and sister this weekend. I'm so out of shape that I hope I can even do the day hikes. I've got to start somewhere though. I hope you're both doing well and getting ready for cooler weather! It has been unbelievably pleasant here lately…perfect weather for walking and hiking. It's hard to get motivated when it's super cold or snowy outside. 0
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            I have a friend who is using one of those drugs, not Wegovy but a similar one. She's using it for weight loss as she has some health issues and wasn't getting anywhere with dieting. She has been great on it, no side effects at all, and eating healthily. I've also been hearing about heart benefits from it, independent of weight loss (although I haven't looked into this much and no doubt the research is funded by the drug companies!). I think I would consider it myself. But as you say, it only works while you're taking it, and you don't want to be on it for life. I just don't know. I feel I might want to get the results, then stop and do the work on maintaining at that level. But no point, if I wasn't able to do that and possibly ended up worse than when I started! So I don't know. It's a big decision taking any medication and they're never completely 100% risk free. Interesting that your doctor says so many people gain the weight back. It sounds like your plan to do it yourself is working very well anyway. 8lb is absolutely amazing! Really well done! And now you have had that success and have broken your old pattern of eating, I bet it will be easier to stick to. Especially with your hubby on board. I love the idea of the meal delivery service!It will be nice not having to do thinking part of what to cook! And maybe a good way to try new things too. I hope you have a lovely hiking trip. It's great that you've had good weather there. The same here, summer was too hot for me, and although it's not great weather I'm enjoying it being cool. 0
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            I'm going to try again on a post but im going to type it then copy it in case it disappears again! I just made a big pot of vegetable soup as it has cooled down a little here today… so figure i can get some in the freezer too for next month when its likely to actually start getting cold lol.. Vail i hope maybe you are starting to feel a little better from your awful flu.. i just got my flu shot yesterday but it takes 2 weeks to kick in .. and omg everywhere i go indoors people are hacking and sneezing and coughing .. it seems no one bothers to cover their mouth anymore when they are doing that? i was brought up that way but during covid, it really became a habit so i dont know why people just think its fine to not at least put a hand over their mouth lol Suzy…. holy cow 8 lbs! Thats amazing… talk about a kick start way to go!! well done you! I'm truly surprised your doc recommended wegovy for you as you said your A1C was high but you are not diabetic - insulin resistant yes and i get wanting to lower the A1C . .but wegovy is one of the semiglutemides.. i dont understand why she juts wouldnt put you on a small dose of metformin pills every day.. its kind of the "mildest" ways to help bring down your daily sugars and A1C .. so the wegovy seems like its kind of a big leap .. but that said.. i was on metformin for about 10 yrs and at times when i messed up and went higher my doc added juvenet and tried another one along with, but i couldnt tolerate it.. one of its side effects was yeast infections and omg… they were constant!! anyway.. then she put me on one of the semiglutimides the one i use is Rybelsus.. its a once a day pill.. and with that added i was able to drop the metformin altogether after about 6 months i think.. so thats all i take now is the one rybelsus a day As vail said, and my doc said.. there may be some heart health nd weight loss benefits to all the semis.. i think i lost about 8 pounds over several months when i first went on rybelsus, but that was beacuse i suddenly lost my cravings for anything sweet.. (i found it again tho sadly lol) … anyway im glad you said you wanted to see if you could do it on your own with lifestyle changes cause it seems like you've already made a huge start !! i am ok with meds.. they are a tool when needed.. and i've been on a statin for about 10 yrs now.. keep an eye out for muscle pains on the statin btw.. i dont know what dose your on but if i recall my doc told me that when i first went on them.. but my memory is a bit hazy… haha 0
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            I've been on a statin for over 18 years now. Various ones over the years as they kept changing due to drug interactions, etc. I'm not aware of having any issues from them (apart from getting vague GI symptoms with all my drugs - I have IBS which doesn't help!). My cholesterol levels have been good over those 18 years. 0
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            You know, she didn’t even mention a pill. Just went straight to the Wegovy injections. Maybe because she truly believes in it and has seen it have a great result with heart issues as well. I’m just not ready to go there. I still might but I don’t want to be giving myself injections every day for the rest of my life. My A1C was a 6.5 and that’s the lowest number measurement for diabetes but she’s okay with me trying the lifestyle change first. If it doesn’t go down at all over the next three months then I’ll probably do the Wegovy. Ugh. My biggest challenge will be making time to exercise. Snoozie do you still do the online classes? Do either of you know of a good YouTube or app for Pilates? I think I’m going to really try and do it at home before paying for a studio or something. We’re still paying for a gym membership and not using it. Maybe I’ll try that but the classes are at inconvenient times for me and they are packed! November 18th is the big day when our fourth grandchild and second granddaughter arrives. My daughter is having a scheduled c-section. I’ll be watching the other two kids (2 and 5) at her house for five nights…getting them ready for school, dropping them off, picking them up, taking them to swim lessons, making them dinner, baths and bed. It’s going to wear me out. I’m tired just thinking about it. My husband will be on his own unless he wants to come over for dinner. lol. 0



